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Topic: Attraction / lady's
Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 03/02/21 07:32 AM
Could you marry a large
Overweight man Or livin
In a relationship?

Health doesn't have to be his issue.

Active level maybe low.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/02/21 08:12 AM
If he is over-weight, health is the issue.
Not only physical health but mental health as well.

Obesity in the United States is a major health issue resulting in numerous diseases, specifically increased risk of certain types of cancer, coronary artery disease, type 2 diabetes, stroke, as well as significant increases in early mortality and economic costs.

Over 70 million adults in U.S. are obese (35 million men and 35 million women). 99 million are overweight (45 million women and 54 million men). NHANES 2016 statistics showed that about 39.6% of American adults were obese. Men had an age-adjusted rate of 37.9% and Women had an age-adjusted rate of 41.1%.

Obesity is serious because it is associated with poorer mental health outcomes and reduced quality of life. Obesity is also associated with the leading causes of death in the United States and worldwide, including diabetes, heart disease, stroke, and some types of cancer.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 03/02/21 08:18 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 03/02/21 08:20 AM
Not every man overweight has health issues.

And many Thin men are in poor health.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/02/21 08:38 AM

Oh wow, can you ever forgive me?

no photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:28 AM

Could you marry a large
Overweight man Or livin
In a relationship?

Health doesn't have to be his issue.

Active level maybe low.

No... more because he's a man than for his weight

no photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:31 AM
I've never dated as you say a skinny man. I like them cornfed.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:39 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 03/02/21 09:39 AM
I prefer a man of average size and weight.

Because that is what I'm attracted too
Along with a nice personality.

Rock's photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:39 AM
I'm undateable.


soufiehere's photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:43 AM

I'm undateable.

Pfffft.
There is a line stretching round the block already...

Totage's photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:57 AM


I'm undateable.

Pfffft.
There is a line stretching round the block already...


Yeah, but they're just waiting to file a complaint with customer service.

no photo
Tue 03/02/21 09:59 AM
rofl I just spit tea everywhere

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Tue 03/02/21 04:24 PM

Not every man overweight has health issues.

And many Thin men are in poor health.





no photo
Tue 03/02/21 04:37 PM
Short answer is No...



Then again I don't care how thin or overweight he is... I'm not into men... laugh



no photo
Tue 03/02/21 04:56 PM
I have dated and lived with overweight men. Never again. If I am ever in a relationship again, for the record, no sex with a heavy man.

no photo
Tue 03/02/21 06:18 PM
I've drawn the conclusion that tall slim men aren't wildly successful daters. More is expected of them.They aren't allowed to be "Just average"

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/03/21 04:32 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 03/03/21 04:41 AM
No, I couldn't and I won't. I find seriously overweight men off-putting. The thought alone of being intimate with a man like that...
And overweight men tend to have moobs too. If there's something that kills the spark of attraction it's a man with breasts.
Like Blondey once said: I want to be the only one with breasts in a relationship.
I liked that statement so much it stuck, hihi.
And there's the waggling underchins...

And I agree with Tom btw. No one who's overweight is really healthy. Doesn't mean you have to feel ill (yet). Being overweight is unhealthy and if not ill now, the chances of getting ill increase over time.
High risk of
- diabetes
- cardiovascular disease
- High blood pressure
- Cholesterol problems
- Sexual problems
- shortness of breath, maybe over time even lung problems
and so on and so forth

Apart from that, being overweight also indicates someone doesn't really care about him/herself. Someone that has healthy self-love, self-respect, self-esteem etc. doesn't do that to themselves. Excluded are people who put on weight due to an illness and/or medication. That's a different story.
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Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 03/04/21 10:29 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 03/04/21 10:30 AM
Putting on weight doesn't mean a person doesn't
Care about themselves.

Again, many Thin people have poor health.

Diabetes
Heart disease
High blood pressure
Arthritis
foot problems
Migraines


More....lists goes on.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 03/04/21 11:14 AM
Probably not. Although it depends on how overweight he is, and how well he carries himself. And how well I know him, and whether or not we clicked. Initially, I'm not attracted to severely overweight men, so chances of a first date are slim if we weren't already acquainted with each other.

no photo
Thu 03/04/21 12:08 PM
My type is tall and slim. I did see a bigger guy once. He was awesome, super confident. I saw him about a year later in the supermarket and he lost all his weight doing keto.

Marie.'s photo
Thu 03/18/21 09:40 AM
Salut

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