It is called a Spider-Man kiss !!!!

Then there is the octopus kiss ..,

Speaking of which .. if you are kissing someone for the first time . Where are your hands???! And your body .. Do you grope and fumble or take a more guarded approach .

If someone is kissing you for the first time do you have any expectations of performance or etiquette??? What is your biggest turn on /turnoff .

That first kiss is important and very impressionable . share your secrets










I like playing with his hands with my fingers .

Do she and I, both have to be upside down?

yes!!!! . and in case you are wondering no body contact just faces .. the sensation is different .. a little like when you are left handed and you use your right hand

You don’t need to wear Lycra rock . Only if you want to

No body contact?
*Harrrumph!*

LoL... It actually sounds quite fun.

That movie cost me a lot of time and money.
I had to learn the hard way that women rarely want to hear "so, wanna go back to my place so one of us can be tied into a harness and suspended and do some spider man making out?"

Not to mention I now have 10 footed spiderman underoos and gimp masks that are going to waste.


Hopefully at the end of my arms. Maybe I am not kissing right...


Just depends on the girl, what kind of kiss I want, what's the setting.
Are we at dinner with her parents? Are we sitting on her latex couch next to her vibrator tree with her pet monkey watching while holding the whip and taser?


Sure. Tons.
Like no retching. No biting. No scratchy upper lips. To name a couple.

Other than that, it's more about what's motivating the kiss.

I mean there's huge differences in how someone kisses depending on their motivations.
Like:
- "OMG! I was so scared and insecure during the date but it's almost over and I want them to think I'm interested!"
- "I've had a few too many scotch and sodas."
- "I really want to kiss them."
- "This is the third date, I think I'm supposed to."
- "I'm horny. They're here. Let's see if we can get this going."


I would disagree. But I'm not the type that generally says something like "I demand sex before marriage, because what if they're really bad at it? You need a test drive!"

To me "the first kiss" is more just an extension of the rest of the date and level of communication.
An easy means to communicate the emotions, desires, thoughts, that the rest of the date engendered.

If the first kiss is so important and very impressionable, then why not just go around kissing random strangers. It would save so much time.

My arms around his neck, I am on my tip toes, he's tall guy. He has
his arms around my waist and we're missing on lips.

This actually happened last year. Nice!

I expect a good first kiss, because it reveals alot about him.

laughing at your Spider-Man comments . Oh my my ...I am seeing a whole different side to you tom

As for the first kiss not being impressionable ., perhaps that is relevant from the male perspective . If biology is to believed a woman responds to chemicals in male saliva and olfactory cues she experiences during a kiss..,

kissing random strangers Is likely in many cases to be received as a breach of intimate space ... I am not convinced it would save time and may result in temporary loss of the use of your gonads

Sounds delicious toody ...And you are right .. the first kiss can be very revealing ....

did you know the waist is considered a safe zone .. Along with caressing the face , arms and hair .. (I like the latter .. love a man playing with my hair )...

what would your response be if he grabbed your bottom during a first kiss ???

Wait, If you’re both upside down doesn’t that make you basically kissing right side up only upside down? 🤣

lip position is reversed ., If Spider-Man ‘s face is on top .., his bottom lip to her top lip and vice versa . There was no mention of suspension . That is for advanced Spider-Man

I wouldn't like that! And he knew that was not acceptable !

What is this kissing that you speak of?

As she pulls herself closer to my waiting lips the anticipation is building in each of us to experience that sought after explosion of emotion that is waiting to be released. Our lips meet and all distractions fade into oblivion with only the sound of hmmmmmm coming from each of us. Her hmmmmmm came from her obvious acceptance of an emotional lift that came from her inner agreement of her heart/head. My hmmmmmm came after I asked the question "Pardon me, do you have any grey poupon?"

yes first kiss is important but i am fear during take 1 St kiss because i am trying to take kiss but due to fear we skip it how can try

Not sure how seriously I should answer... I'll reply and then up to you to decide what parts are serious or not...
turn on is the delicate no-touch kiss, only lips, no other body contact, turn off definetely bad taste or smell, like nicotine (I used to smoke but not a lot and had a mint and washed hands after each cigarette) garlic or similar...
My hands are normally on her boobs and hers on my face, often in a punch shape...

Each kiss is different with someone new. Nobody kisses or acts the same.

I've been known to kiss when they are laying on the sofa. I stand at the end, bend down and just kiss her, backwards/inverted/spidey-like.

When I kiss, my hands are usually on her face or sides of her head. Gentle and meaningful. That is unless the reverse kiss on the sofa led to a more passionate activity, then my hands are where they need to be.
But, my touch is always gentle.

The first kiss is usually instigated by her. I let women decide when to kiss.
If I want to kiss her before she starts to kiss me, I ask for a kiss. I try not to presume that personal intimacy until she is ready.

I have been on a date where I refused a kiss.
Some women have bad hygiene.

However, for most dates, she will start and I then move in for the kiss.
Its the same way with sex. I let the woman decide when, then I get her so hot her clothes burn off. By the time we're nude, she's all over me.

I also lean her back in a chair and kiss her from behind. I also kiss her neck from behind (my hands are usually on her breasts when I do that). I also whisper while I kiss her neck. Ever so slow, gentle kisses with hot breath near her ear.

I'm always so stupid when it comes to the first kiss. I'm a horrible over thinker. Like all in those few moments that you're leaning in to each other my brain has my thoughts and emotions everywhere. Thinking crap like I hope I dont have bad breath. I hope he dont have bad breath omg I hope hes never had a herpes sore. Is this a peck kiss or do I open my mouth. I hope he dont try and eat my face. Is he tilting this way and me that way nope he went the wrong way what if I suck at kissing why is he holding my face like......mmmmmmmmmmmm hes a wonderful kisser.....🥰.

I actually had a guy leaning for a kiss one time and I put my hand up real fast lol. He kissed my hand. It wasnt really anything turning me off. I just wasnt feeling it. That was our last date. Lol

Before the kiss, I like to use my eyes to tell her that I am so into her and that a kiss is about to happen. I lightly touch her shoulders, then run my fingers through her hair and then lean in for the kiss. I take it easy at first and just gauge how the kiss went. If it is positive, then we go further into deeper kissing. if it is that feeling of "Wellllll....that wasn't what I expected" then it gets awkward but I bid farewell.

I always knew you were a charmer goofy .., lovely to see you posting again .,, has been awhile