Would love a couple opinions

Nice profile but I would answer the smoking question since that could be a must know for a lot of guys.

I'm thinking it's a good profile and you want to stay in Florida. Good to hear what you say about your sister. Good luck.

Nice photos but I would not include it with former spouses/bf (referring to the last one). Bravo for donating your hair, very noble but I would not use the whole paragraph about that bc it doesn't say much else about you. Also confused you say your sister is the reason for breathing but you said she passed 20 yrs ago, so does that mean she still inspires you? It is all very nice but just not clear. Add more about your likes, interests, what you seek in a relationship.

Ok now re-reading your parents passed, not your sister. Was a bit confusing at first.

Dreamy Well except for the scuba diving thing.

Yes I would cut out the long paragraph , it’s a great thing you do but that’s something you can tell people in conversations . Most people won’t wAnt to read long things like that .
Use it to write stuff about you , saying what kind of person you are or the kind of person you seek .

You are stunning . Take more photos and choose a new profile photo .

Agree with moomin .. it is enough to say your sister lives with you ., take out the Long explanation.... ditto for the long hair rationale . If it is important to you to have that info in your profile then work on making it concise and brief . Best of luck

Agreed.
Thanks for the long story short.

Agreed.
Everybody needs something.
The rich celebrate their birthdays with cakes
and the poor are happy with the crumbs
It all depends on where one is located in the food chain

Oh, thanks for the correction. I was admiring those shoulder blades - built like a bow
So didn't catch this.

Tough, tough situation indeed. No matter however Hot.
Or even if not.

hot or not?

look good or are good?

I apologize in advance for anything following that might sound critical but there are many gun-shy, careful people who have been taken advantage of....trying to get past their cynicism and find that "Loyal Heart".

You seem like an absolutely beautiful, dynamic, tragic, educated SAINT. Speaking of beautiful; the glamour shot is nice but the one other close up shot that one can see shows your "natural beauty" is much prettier yet approachable to me.

For all the heartache and challenges that "God" (Catholic right?) has thrown at you, you remain steadfast, upbeat, and charitable. Having to concentrate on your Special Needs sister was probably the only thing to get you through the tragedies of losing both your parents and later your husband.

Between your sister, being the Admin for a whole building, and Volunteering how do you find the time for scuba and billiards much less dating? We do what we can right? When you donate your hair "to Cancer" what do you mean? Locks of Love? Wigs for Kids?

Oh...a perhaps hyper-sensitive grammar thing: When you say "I go to the same hospital" instead of "I have gone to the same hospital" it is not necessarily wrong, but sounds like something someone from a Balkan state would say. On top of all you have been through, did you have to immigrate too?

You just sound too good to be true! Who wouldn't want to be that "One in a Million". Better yet just GIVE you the million.

Thank you, I understand your situation and you come across as a sweet and generous person, so I wish you the very best .

Good profile, and great that you are making sure everyone knows it is a package deal. It seems to me that whomever the lucky person that you choose would be getting the deal of a lifetime in that package deal. In other words... you are a great person.

Hot

I'd make a new profile photo. This one lacks warmth and makes you look/feel hard.

The text... it's not necessary and not interesting to share your life story on a dating site profile.
It should tell about the kind of person you are in an attractive way and what you're looking for in a man and relationship.
None of this is there now.

Not sure about "the only reason I breathe..." Do you mean to say she's so important to you or that you have had enough of live but can't go because of your sister?
Not clear. And also not an appealing thing to say.

Then there's a photo of you with a man, I take it your former husband.
However important this may be to you, it is not tasteful on a dating site and won't help find a new partner.

So no, absolutely not hot.
If you really want to find new love then work on your profile. As in a complete overhaul.

This rate me thread is six months old and the OP hasn't been on the site in more than a month.

You seem like a very warm caring person.Hope you find that someone special.

your profile is just perfect, I mean what's not to like? you lay out all facts very crystal clear, and you still able to reveal what a warm emphatically soul are. I can't imagine you ain't getting a lot of traffic coming your way .