My neighbour regularly send me signs for getting intimate. She's like 12 years older than me and married.
Should I proceed?

No do not proceed, I’d be very cautious about her. Also what if the husband were to find out? You don’t want to get yourself into a fix like that .

tell her to stop playing games

Ya don't poop where ya eat.

It's not a good idea. As others have pointed out, quite apart from moral questions, it's fraught with potentially serious consequences.

That's up to you and your comfort level. She's already decided to cheat on her husband. So that does not lie on your shoulders. It's going to be either you or someone else. I have a fairly liberal view on sex. I will not chase a married man, but if he approaches me I'll consider it. Why? Because I did not steal someone's husband. I am not the other woman. Rather, I consider myself another woman since it's either going to be me or someone else. I have no intention of ruining anyone's marriage. That person has already decided to do that. Just remember there are consequences that you may have to live with. Best of luck!

Absolutely.

Signs? Like words on a piece of paper?
I would wait for real words because maybe she is just friendly.

Kenny Wayne Shepherd / Warren Haynes - Breaking Up Somebody's Home
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3otOFPKkhA

Yes.
...And please wear a go pro cam for the next year or so and post as much as you can on youtube.

This topic shouldn't be called "older relationship". It should be called "considering adultery".

It is up to you, but you know the answer already.

hell yeah

love is key

Dude ...
I must tell you, please do not have sex with her you will regret it. I ask you to listen to the voice of reason ... Tell her if she keeps it up that you will tell her husband

when i see someone doing things like that i know if i hang around long enough

they will try it with me.....her value system allows her to cheat, we all have

a value system that controls our behavior....lots of people out there with

honest

value systems. its a waste of time unless your favorite feelings support such

behavior.....pay attention to peoples value systems because its not going to

change unless there beliefs about themselves and others change....good luck...

post is three months old. guy already has or hasn't by now. at any rate he's not gotten back to us.

No

I like how open-minded you are. These are adults who have made their choices already. Nobody takes somebody's body.