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Topic: Faking religion for a partner
El Toro's photo
Sun 08/09/20 01:12 PM
IS THIS GOOD OR BAD

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sun 08/09/20 01:23 PM
You need ask?

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 08/09/20 04:44 PM
I guess it would depend on which religion. Some would say no, no, no, others would say, hey, if it feels good and gets ya what ya want, do it.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/09/20 04:45 PM

IS THIS GOOD OR BAD


BAD

Solo_man's photo
Sun 08/09/20 09:22 PM
Of course it's wrong, on so many levels. You'd be living a big lie and it's going to be impossible to keep this lie going. Sooner or later the truth will come out. Pretending to be of a religion you're not is very hard.

Hanz's photo
Sun 08/09/20 10:00 PM
Bad. From my point of view, the truth will eventually come out and I'm pretty sure if you and your partner like/ love each others then he/ she will not even bother of that different. For me, religion are just for your spiritual bonded with god.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Sun 08/09/20 10:32 PM
KARMA "EL TORO", KARMA ! slaphead

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Mon 08/10/20 02:47 AM
If it is Jewish you could have some explaining to do in the bedroom

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 08/10/20 10:02 AM

IS THIS GOOD OR BAD

I guess it could be either depending on the details/context.

If your relationship is based on trust and honesty it would be bad.
If your relationship is based on lies, it would fit right in.

If the religion you are faking conflicts with your own beliefs it would be bad.
If you have no beliefs, it might work, with a lot of work.

If you are faking it with some perverse idea of eventually changing their beliefs to fit yours, its kinda selfish.
If you are faking it to possibly convert your religion to theirs eventually, it could be a proclaimation of dedication.

If you're with this person, a person who is very demanding religiously, you might want to rethink your reasons for being with them.
Most people in healthy, happy relationships have alignment in the things which are important to them.
If you need to lie to align with them, you won't have a healthy, happy relationship.
If you choose poorly in alignment, misery is your future.
Choose Wisely

ivegotthegirth's photo
Mon 08/10/20 11:18 AM

If it is Jewish you could have some explaining to do in the bedroom


Not necessarily FB and I do get your pun.
As you may or maybe don't remember when I was first on here I brought up the subject of circumcision and got a lot of gasps etc from some of the ladies who thought it was an obscene subject.
I know this will seem odd to you folks from the UK but EVERYONE born where and when I was here in the US was circumcised. I know this from the days of junior high school (about grade 7 - 9) when we had communal showers after gym class.
EVERYONE! Personally I've always thanked GOD and my parents for that and I can tell you that the women I knew during the months I spent in England, Ireland and on the continent were very glad also. But at the risk of upsetting anyone here I won't elaborate. My point is don't assume that you have to be jewish to be clean cut.
smile2

maybwecan's photo
Mon 08/10/20 01:08 PM

IS THIS GOOD OR BAD


perhaps you need to clarify what you mean by good and bad because depending upon the culture or group you "belong" to, the definitions are not universal and one size does not fit all...especially in an environment where the "end justifies the means" trumps everything else...

feelyoungagain's photo
Mon 08/10/20 06:19 PM

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What do you think? You shouldn't fake anything with a partner...

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Wed 08/12/20 11:21 AM


If it is Jewish you could have some explaining to do in the bedroom


Not necessarily FB and I do get your pun.
As you may or maybe don't remember when I was first on here I brought up the subject of circumcision and got a lot of gasps etc from some of the ladies who thought it was an obscene subject.
I know this will seem odd to you folks from the UK but EVERYONE born where and when I was here in the US was circumcised. I know this from the days of junior high school (about grade 7 - 9) when we had communal showers after gym class.
EVERYONE! Personally I've always thanked GOD and my parents for that and I can tell you that the women I knew during the months I spent in England, Ireland and on the continent were very glad also. But at the risk of upsetting anyone here I won't elaborate. My point is don't assume that you have to be jewish to be clean cut.
smile2

Yes I remember the topic ,my joke here was if you wern't Jewish but pretending to be for the partner bigsmile

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 08/12/20 11:25 AM
Just think of Karma!

ivegotthegirth's photo
Wed 08/12/20 12:40 PM
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Caila 's photo
Thu 08/13/20 12:31 AM
I think it is dishonest. Why would you start a friendship/relationship based on a lie?

no photo
Fri 08/14/20 12:58 AM
Christianity is the only way. Become Christ's and be proud of whom you belong to, Jesus Christ!

no photo
Wed 10/21/20 06:29 PM
Well if you strong and no true, no matter what the other person is they will change bit by bit if they love you.

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LarchTree's photo
Thu 10/22/20 05:48 AM
Edited by LarchTree on Thu 10/22/20 06:09 AM
Who even cares.

Religion is usually about worshipping God, not about idolizing or stereotyping other people, so I doubt it would even cause a problem.

Relationships are limited to the extent one can be open about their feelings.

no photo
Thu 10/22/20 07:23 AM
I do believe in a higher power, but I am not a church goer. I would not fake to be a certain religion either.

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