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it's possible and I wish you the best of luck in finding someone

aint no high value guy whos single who makes decent money is going to go for a woman with kids im sorry that is not happening.

You can find a man who is in the similar situation as yourself and can get together but again aint no man whos single who makes decent money is going to come along and get with u. They might mess around with u thats about it. Its not worth it for a man to take care of another mans kids. First its the financial burden again he can just find another woman who doesnt have kids.
2 he cant discipline the children like he can if he had kids of his own
3 if the father is still in the picture there for the most time always will be conflict

There are some desperate guys that will take a single mom, don't know why you're having problems finding one

is it really possible? I don't have a kid and it is hard to find a partner that loves me.

It's not just possible, but it happens every day. A woman just needs to be careful who they let into their life.

I don't normally get on the forums. however this time I am glad I did. You see I understand that a child is something many people simply don't want in their lives. I know that I wanted a child, and Vicky didn't. I have always placed the wishes of others above my own, and it can be hard. Yet if a person is ok until they find out about your kid, they really aren't much of a person. It shows a selfishness that would always put your needs after their wants. Please note what I said, their wants, over your needs.

Hahaha lol

finding real soul mate this days is something else

yes iam

Finding a partner who will love you as a single mom is rare

u just have to look for a man not a boy

I think it definitely possible, but as many of the wiser members stated, it takes time and those who ghost you, well, like the the other members said, you're lucky really, imagine finding that out after you have invested time on them?

I would think it's also a good idea to fill out your profile fully to let prospective partners know you have a child and that your daughter comes first, it could save you valuable time when going through your messages...

You must know how love works? , when you go out to find it, it eludes you, and then one day, out of the blue, it just happens and you're in love...

being a single mother of 41 am struggling with almost everything m working so hard to find Tru love yet I find people who are not serious.... I work up everyday to go to work ensuring all the bills are paid for and so that I put food on the table for my twin gals

This is "Life"...
You should know that :
Three Things always Hurt tremendously
- Connections
- Attachments
- Expectations
Good Luck ! God Bless You ...

thank you

Hi. Well I have a Daughter too. And I always prefer dating a woman that also has a child. This brings balance in the relationship as acceptance has to be on both sides for the relationship to work.

One of the reasons why the majority of us men avoid women with children is because children are extremely expensive and requires a lot of attention. Children always comes first which means we have to sacrifice everything else if need be.

What you're asking is for a man to help raise another man's child, which is a lot of effort, time, commitment and responsibility. Relationships is about give and take and that is a lot to ask from someone. Especially if the relationship you're looking for is to become serious. One timers will just lie to your face, bang and run.

On the bright side, there exists a lot of men that are willing to step into the father role, but if they're fertile you can expect them to want a child of their own as well. If you're not willing to have a second child with this man, then don't expect to have a relationship either. Maybe if the topic comes up that you have a child, you should be convincing in that you'd be open to the idea of having another one. Just don't lie about it.

I've seen plenty of single mothers saying they only want the child they have and no more. It's just not worthwhile when there's plenty of other women in existence that does not have these restrictions. The more limits we put on the compromises we could potentially be making, the less prospects we end up with to choose from.

Personally I would only take on a child that isn't mine if I already had children of my own and only if it were in an optimized setting where the child can benefit from my presence.

I'm certain you'll find what you're looking for in due time!