I don't normally get on the forums. however this time I am glad I did. You see I understand that a child is something many people simply don't want in their lives. I know that I wanted a child, and Vicky didn't. I have always placed the wishes of others above my own, and it can be hard. Yet if a person is ok until they find out about your kid, they really aren't much of a person. It shows a selfishness that would always put your needs after their wants. Please note what I said, their wants, over your needs.