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It's possible...anything is possible - but the reality is, there's a more likely chance that a kid would be in the way, and complicate things more than if the child wasn't there. I see a lot of women's profiles that say "my kids come first" (which should be the case) but that may as well say " any dude that dates me will always be, at the very best, 2nd banana". I think it's also equally dependent on the dude and the child. I went out with a woman that I was really into, but one of her kids was a turd. Knowing it was a package deal, I was forced to walk away. I think complicated scenarios like that will come up, so it's best to take to your time getting to know someone. Chemistry might be there, but the time will allow you to know what position the dude will take Mine are teens to adults and are going to give some poor man a run for his money. My 27 year old son said I'm only allowed to date if he goes on a double date with me. Can you imagine going in for a kiss and getting blocked by my ******* son!  All my kids are over protective of me. Giving me talks are narcissist, gaslighting, catfishing, love bombing,online dating, romance scams and roofies. I just laugh and say I'll be good. You have to see where the child is coming from, but I see yours too.
As for dating someone that accepts your child. Yes, it's possible. It will happen for you, just be gaurded with your child and their info until you know the person well. My kids are older. I promised their dad not to belring men home. I consider home their safe place. |
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I like your write up.
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Account deactivated -_-
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it is entirely possible. Single fathers suffer the same responses from prospective girlfriends/wives, but it is much harder for a woman to find a good man. You are correct in telling your date about your children. Weed out the "guys" from the men before you waste time and emotion on them. Be proud of your children and yourself. A good man will see the truth for what it is, welcome it, and gravitate toward it. Children are NOT baggage. Other issues are and we all have baggage.
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Hi. I am here to make new female friends. Kindly Dm if you are interested.
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Hi. I am here to make new female friends. Kindly Dm if you are interested. In Problem thread you trying to figure out solution... friend 
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i wish to experience that problem
 no offense meant
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here i the netherlands i havent met any men that mind me having 5 kids at all.
its no problem. i am the one that is picky. because I have children and wouldnt want to bring the wrong person around them |
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Is it possible to find a partner here who will love you and your child? Has anybody? I've only been here for more than a week and I say that we could have the nicest introductory talk and then when they learn I have a daughter the conversation just dies a sudden death lol
hey wassup cutie Hey bro |
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Is it possible to find a partner here who will love you and your child? Has anybody? I've only been here for more than a week and I say that we could have the nicest introductory talk and then when they learn I have a daughter the conversation just dies a sudden death lol hello |
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Of course,most of us men love children. I would happily take on a child if I was in a serious relationship with her mum. If love it x
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There is nothing to say about the problem! If we don't create problems. Our simple thoughts will allow us to enjoy this little life. So your simple thinking will keep you out of trouble.
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here i the netherlands i havent met any men that mind me having 5 kids at all. its no problem. i am the one that is picky. because I have children and wouldnt want to bring the wrong person around them |
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hello
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it is entirely possible. Single fathers suffer the same responses from prospective girlfriends/wives, but it is much harder for a woman to find a good man. You are correct in telling your date about your children. Weed out the "guys" from the men before you waste time and emotion on them. Be proud of your children and yourself. A good man will see the truth for what it is, welcome it, and gravitate toward it. Children are NOT baggage. Other issues are and we all have baggage. "Of course,most of us men love children. I would happily take on a child if I was in a serious relationship with her mum. If love it x" First of all - speak for yourself. We don't love children, we tolerate them - and that's even if we want to do that. You can say that most men love their OWN children, but not somebody else's. If you give any man a choice of the same woman with someone else's kids or childless, most will go with the childless. Who the hell are you trying to fool? Secondly, children ARE baggage. Not a nice thing to say, but truth isn't always clean. Single women with children are a consequence of something - and that part alone is baggage, not to mention that now you hafta jive with more than one personality if it goes beyond one or two dates. The point you got right is, we all have baggage. Dating in your mid thirties and beyond is figuring out if you're gonna deal with the potential partner's baggage |
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Edited by
ImmortalYo
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Wed 02/15/23 05:18 PM
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it is entirely possible. Single fathers suffer the same responses from prospective girlfriends/wives, but it is much harder for a woman to find a good man. You are correct in telling your date about your children. Weed out the "guys" from the men before you waste time and emotion on them. Be proud of your children and yourself. A good man will see the truth for what it is, welcome it, and gravitate toward it. Children are NOT baggage. Other issues are and we all have baggage. "Of course,most of us men love children. I would happily take on a child if I was in a serious relationship with her mum. If love it x" First of all - speak for yourself. We don't love children, we tolerate them - and that's even if we want to do that. You can say that most men love their OWN children, but not somebody else's. If you give any man a choice of the same woman with someone else's kids or childless, most will go with the childless. Who the hell are you trying to fool? Secondly, children ARE baggage. Not a nice thing to say, but truth isn't always clean. Single women with children are a consequence of something - and that part alone is baggage, not to mention that now you hafta jive with more than one personality if it goes beyond one or two dates. The point you got right is, we all have baggage. Dating in your mid thirties and beyond is figuring out if you're gonna deal with the potential partner's baggage |
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Yes. Absolutely. I'm sure there is nothing wrong with having kids.
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Yes I absolutely love children. They are awesome and have the best energy and can give best conversation and regards. Can you please introduce me to her and we can of course see how it all joins into place. I would very much appreciate it. Thank you.
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Yes absolutely love kids. Nothing wrong with that
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Is it possible to find a partner here who will love you and your child? Has anybody? I've only been here for more than a week and I say that we could have the nicest introductory talk and then when they learn I have a daughter the conversation just dies a sudden death lol I am a single Dad, so I understand |
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