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trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree
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My goal is to not be in one.
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Why do you say this? If you are in a relationship with the right person, I bet you will enjoy it
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piyu .... hindu girls name
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piyu .... hindu girls name 
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Indeed.
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trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree These are not goals but requirements. |
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trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree And these can still survive what you're looking for? |
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relationship goals... trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree Devil is in the details. I mean this can mean "I've been talking to someone online for 2 years and they live 5,000 miles away. We're trying to build a relationship. I need to trust them that they aren't dating someone local, better communication is needed so they need to contact me immediately after I text/call them and let me know what they're doing, but they need to respect my personal space and not call me every 10 minutes to ask what I'm doing and be all clingy," IOW I don't know what those relationship goals are in service to. What are they trying to change or fix or specifically develop. Other than that, "trust" is simply "realistic expectations based on observed and understood consistent historical behavior and outcomes." Which makes it a component of "communication." Or "better communication" begets "trust," unless what is meant by "communication" is just "more talky talky." And I am not sure I understand "freedom of personal space." Because that could be a reaction to someone being too "clingy," or it can be an unrealistic demand of "I want what I want when and how I want it without any real cost or consequence," or basically "I want you to go away and not exist unless I need you. But when I need you I want you to instantly appear and give me what I want from you. I have my space, you have yours, I'll deign to share mine when I need something from you, otherwise go away." So, I might agree with your relationship goals if they weren't just general buzzwords without context. |
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relationship goals... trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree Devil is in the details. I mean this can mean "I've been talking to someone online for 2 years and they live 5,000 miles away. We're trying to build a relationship. I need to trust them that they aren't dating someone local, better communication is needed so they need to contact me immediately after I text/call them and let me know what they're doing, but they need to respect my personal space and not call me every 10 minutes to ask what I'm doing and be all clingy," IOW I don't know what those relationship goals are in service to. What are they trying to change or fix or specifically develop. Other than that, "trust" is simply "realistic expectations based on observed and understood consistent historical behavior and outcomes." Which makes it a component of "communication." Or "better communication" begets "trust," unless what is meant by "communication" is just "more talky talky." And I am not sure I understand "freedom of personal space." Because that could be a reaction to someone being too "clingy," or it can be an unrealistic demand of "I want what I want when and how I want it without any real cost or consequence," or basically "I want you to go away and not exist unless I need you. But when I need you I want you to instantly appear and give me what I want from you. I have my space, you have yours, I'll deign to share mine when I need something from you, otherwise go away." So, I might agree with your relationship goals if they weren't just general buzzwords without context. You hit the nail on the head. I agree to general. |
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Make a list and place them in order of priority. Make sure it is specific and decide what is negotiable and what is not. Adjust as needed. Good luck!
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Why do you say this? If you are in a relationship with the right person, I bet you will enjoy it Not necessarily. There is no guarantee. |
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My goal is to not be in one. I'm with you on that one. Maybe one day, but definitely not now. |
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Why do you say this? If you are in a relationship with the right person, I bet you will enjoy it My parents have been married over 50 years. Do you think they were happily married all of those years? Hell no they weren't. |
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I agree
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Idk why. but im agree with u.
its happen to me once.  ️
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relationship goals... trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree Devil is in the details. I mean this can mean "I've been talking to someone online for 2 years and they live 5,000 miles away. We're trying to build a relationship. I need to trust them that they aren't dating someone local, better communication is needed so they need to contact me immediately after I text/call them and let me know what they're doing, but they need to respect my personal space and not call me every 10 minutes to ask what I'm doing and be all clingy," IOW I don't know what those relationship goals are in service to. What are they trying to change or fix or specifically develop. Other than that, "trust" is simply "realistic expectations based on observed and understood consistent historical behavior and outcomes." Which makes it a component of "communication." Or "better communication" begets "trust," unless what is meant by "communication" is just "more talky talky." And I am not sure I understand "freedom of personal space." Because that could be a reaction to someone being too "clingy," or it can be an unrealistic demand of "I want what I want when and how I want it without any real cost or consequence," or basically "I want you to go away and not exist unless I need you. But when I need you I want you to instantly appear and give me what I want from you. I have my space, you have yours, I'll deign to share mine when I need something from you, otherwise go away." So, I might agree with your relationship goals if they weren't just general buzzwords without context. * i do agree :) |
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trust, better communication, freedom of personal space is needed for long term of relationship... how many of you agree If that relationship is marriage my goal would be to make it work, not always possible divorce happens, but many marriages do last a lifetime and both having the same goals helps. |
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My goal is to not be in one. Same here |
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