You, nor anyone, knows the future. Things change and there is no guarantee you will enjoy your partner or relationship to the point you don't want to leave, or should leave. Pessimistic, but that's reality.

I m agree

In a relationship (the romantic partner kind) goals must be equally shared by both or they are expectations.
Expectations are unfair.

If you don't accept the other as they are, your relationship is doomed to failure.

The moment you try to change yourself to meet another's expectation is the moment you begin lying (not only to them but yourself as well).
If you try to make the other live to your expectations, you create someone other than the person you were attracted to in the first place.
Often you will resent them for it as well.

The greatest gift you can give to your relationship is to accept the other person as they are.
Embrace their unique qualities which allow you to exceed your own limitations.
Broaden each other's horizons to make both of you more than you were alone.

Its difficult to accept others as they are but it can be done.

52 years into life...
And, *SUDDENLY*, I gotsta have goals?

What kind of treachery is this?