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Topic: Being a woman is difficult
amy's photo
Sun 03/08/20 12:53 PM
I think men have it way easier in life than women. What do u think?

Rock's photo
Sun 03/08/20 01:17 PM
In some areas, yes.
In some areas, no.


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Sun 03/08/20 01:21 PM
I think amy should tell us why she has come to that conclusion bigsmile waving

amy's photo
Sun 03/08/20 01:43 PM
Cuz i have got enough of standards they set for women. Im sick of those men who takes advantage of women, women are sacrificing too much for men and the whole family

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Sun 03/08/20 02:03 PM

Cuz i have got enough of standards they set for women. Im sick of those men who takes advantage of women, women are sacrificing too much for men and the whole family
I think all individuals are subject to standards when it comes to dating and relationships . Also think men can easily be taken advantage of by women . The suicide rate for men is a telling picture (β€œ in 2018 men died by suicide 3.56x more often than womenβ€œ). Personally I think Both men and women are at the mercy of each other and how you approach life .. who takes advantage of you .. what standards you allow others to impose is all down to YOUwaving

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 03/08/20 02:09 PM
A lot depends on which country you live in. Some countries are much further than others when it comes to gender equality, although I do not think we have a single country yet where this has been reached.

I also know that many women in Asia and Middle East are very adamant and strong to change this and to be able to make the same choices in life as men.
I know this as I've worked with many from these areas in my coaching groups. I was pleasantly amazed by how strong they felt about it, something I feel we have lost in Western countries.


cajunman59's photo
Sun 03/08/20 02:37 PM
Both sexes have pluses and minuses. Tring to be something your just not doesn't sound like a very happy thing. Neither can fully understand the other side so seeing the other as having all sorts of advantages is just imaginings.

darkowl1's photo
Sun 03/08/20 03:22 PM
Over-all, I think personally, just my view, that women DO have a harder time than men... periods, cramps through the roof, man's ego, and double standards to deal with, unequal pay for the same damn job, and most human trafficking are women victims, just to name a few things.... I could list much more, but you get the point.

Men generally don't get raped... women do on a regular basis. stats are wrong, and will always be, because many women don't step forward out of fear. It's usually someone close to them which makes it even WORSE. They are also molested more.


I can go anywhere, any place in the world, and be feared to a degree (I travel in draped faded black rags for an excuse for clothes) and people won't mess with me for the most part.

Many Women have trouble walking down many streets, without getting harassed on a regular basis. and rarely, very rarely do I see a woman world traveling alone.

I met a Chinese woman in Bangalore, India that actually did. She wanted me to go to Nepal with her because she was tired of men bothering her. I didn't have enough cash or time, or I would have done that, and learned much from her, as her dissertation was about Nepal. I'll always regret that I didn't go, cash or time or not. I will always hope she's ok. She's a truly spectacular person. 20/20 hindsight is a bitter pill at times.

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 03/08/20 03:27 PM

Over-all, I think personally, just my view, that women DO have a harder time than men... periods, cramps through the roof, man's ego, and double standards to deal with, unequal pay for the same damn job, and most human trafficking are women victims, just to name a few things.... I could list much more, but you get the point.

Men generally don't get raped... women do on a regular basis. stats are wrong, and will always be, because many women don't step forward out of fear. It's usually someone close to them which makes it even WORSE. They are also molested more.


I can go anywhere, any place in the world, and be feared to a degree (I travel in draped faded black rags for an excuse for clothes) and people won't mess with me for the most part.

Many Women have trouble walking down many streets, without getting harassed on a regular basis. and rarely, very rarely do I see a woman world traveling alone.

I met a Chinese woman in Bangalore, India that actually did. She wanted me to go to Nepal with her because she was tired of men bothering her. I didn't have enough cash or time, or I would have done that, and learned much from her, as her dissertation was about Nepal. I'll always regret that I didn't go, cash or time or not. I will always hope she's ok. She's a truly spectacular person. 20/20 hindsight is a bitter pill at times.

Amen to that, Darkowl! You're a very wise man with insight.
Happy to see that there are men who understand all this.
flowerforyou waving

darkowl1's photo
Sun 03/08/20 03:32 PM
It's just the tip of a massive filthy iceburg.laugh drinker

There is so much more I could say, but it would be a ramble that nobody would read.

I'm honored that you acknowledge my thoughts, thank you.flowerforyou

LarchTree's photo
Sun 03/08/20 03:56 PM
If you’re looking for an easier life, just be single. That is the easier way both for men and for women.

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Sun 03/08/20 04:08 PM
I noticed something for women, you get pressure to have children. I always knew that I didn't want kids. I think there are people who think I'm weird because I don't have kids.

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 03/08/20 04:14 PM

It's just the tip of a massive filthy iceburg.laugh drinker

There is so much more I could say, but it would be a ramble that nobody would read.

I'm honored that you acknowledge my thoughts, thank you.flowerforyou

flowerforyou

Fiddlemaker's photo
Sun 03/08/20 05:05 PM

I noticed something for women, you get pressure to have children. I always knew that I didn't want kids. I think there are people who think I'm weird because I don't have kids.


That is a wise choice. Don't let anyone tell you different.

I have traveled extensively, I also have observed women get the short end of the stick. The worst offender is the church. JMHO.

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 03/08/20 08:50 PM
And they always have way longer lines at bathrooms:angry: tears

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Mon 03/09/20 12:16 AM
I think men have it way easier in life than women. What do u think?

For the sake of argument let's say that's true.
...So?
What are you going to do about it?
Is there something you can do?
Or do you expect others to do it for you?
Or can nothing be done?

i have got enough of standards they set for women. Im sick of those men who takes advantage of women, women are sacrificing too much for men and the whole family

Unless looking for another woman, I think it's ironic to be on a dating site.

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Mon 03/09/20 12:43 AM
great man

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Mon 03/09/20 12:45 AM
true but no men can live as an island

Chanel's photo
Mon 03/09/20 12:49 AM
True Woman pass through a lot from the hands of Men

Ankit Kumar 's photo
Mon 03/09/20 01:12 AM
hii

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