You have the power. They don’t - if they don’t like it, them not liking it is a problem they create for themselves and potentially others. Don’t let it bother you.

It is a noble choice either way, and it affects you more than it affects anyone else.

no not at all

no both faces difficulties in different manner

hi

being a woman is easy...all one must do is be born.
being the woman one wants to be may pose additional challenges.

these are issues common to men as well.

So?
Water is wet. The sky's blue....

It is easier to be a man than a woman.
We still live in a world geared to men.
While that world is changing, its gunna take time.

I highly doubt you are an Amazonian Princess suddenly thrust into this world.
You grew up in this world, this man's world.

The problem isn't the men.
It isn't the women either.
The problem is within you.
Its called expectations.

You were probably wronged by a man (or men) where you got hurt deeply.
Your reaction to that pain is to vilify men in general.
You expect men to live up to your idea of a perfect man 'you' created in your mind.
Since no man can live up to your fantasy, all men are the problem.
Your own expectations are setting you up to be lonely.

Sooner or later you will realize all people are unique. Some men and women are terrible people, most men and women are just people (like you).

By placing your expectations (created by your own pain) upon all men, you are cheating yourself from meeting and sharing something special with one man.
You have the cards stacked against him.

Perhaps you might consider being someone your man could love to find the man you love?
Building love requires being with that person, unscripted and unrehearsed.
It requires looking past your expectations to find the person they actually are.
You can't do that over a TCP/IP connection.