Is this a deal breaker for you?
Addictions to food, porno, drugs, alcohol, shopping, smoking etc.

Do you judge others, when you have your own weird comfort/addiction?

I married my first husband without him telling me he had an addiction to porn. Let me tell you, I was shocked by the fact he felt he could not tell me.
I guess it was shame.

I smoke myself, so I won't hold that against someone unless he lights one with the other.

Drugs NO freaking way
Porn NO freaking way
Alcohol NO freaking way

I don't think anyone will tell you about their addictions, so it's a matter of attracting the right one to begin with. Meaning you have to be at a healthy vibration, not needy, clingy, feeling unworthy of XYZ and whatever.

I smoke weed and have done for forty years or so but I don't think that I'm addicted to it, although giving up tobacco was the best thing. Now there's a fierce addiction.

Depends on what they're addicted to. It depends on how it affects their life.
Depends on if they're actually addicted, or just don't really see any reason to stop, and it's not really affecting their life in a negative way.
Some people are "cutesy" using the term "addiction." e.g. "OMG! I'm addicted to these taco's! I'm going to eat them everyday!" then for a month they do, then they get sick of them.

And there's a huge difference between someone that has to watch porn while having sex, and sneaking out in the middle of the night in order to have sex with strangers for money to score drugs because they lost their job due to a random drug test and are lying about it so they don't have to stop doing drugs.

If I'm emailing someone on a dating site and trying to go on a date with them and they say "I'm addicted to heroin" that's a deal breaker.

If I'm emailing someone on a dating site and trying to go on a date with them and they say "I'm addicted to baby yoda meme's and jiggly boob porn, I'll show you what I mean on our date," that's not a dealbreaker.


Of course. I judge people all the time. It effects/helps define "good judgment."

I agree with those... but I would also add "gambling" addiction...

I am addicted to coffee...

<~~~ addicted to wonderful wimmins

This is simple!

NO drugs
Limited gambling
Limited shopping
May not smoke in my presence

Most things from there we can deal with.

and me :) cheese as well. badly..

In a nut shell I wouldn't want to invite disfunction into my life
Or invite poverty or tragedy. thats where most addictions lead. some things more than others.

If my own wellbeing is not in danger, then to me it is not a big deal.

Someone with a self-destructing addiction, no.

This.
'Cept, change the gender pronoun in the
first part to 'she'.



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Hi!
I'm Rock, and I'm hooked on caffeine, nicotine,
and Pez candies.

Nicotine is an addictive drug.

The fact that it is legal in most (if not all) places doesn't change the fact that it is a drug.

I prefer not to be with a woman who is addicted to nicotine.