I am looking for a gf

Great go for it

What about if she were looking for a boyfriend?

She would still be cheating, but without the D..

Well, good luck

Get one that your partner likes too.

Legal Polyamory is the future.

Hi

aaaaannnnd there ya go. Yet another M2 success story.

Anyone in a 3-way relationship who is married rather
makes me sick. The reason is, SOMEone always pays a
higher price, could even be you.

Having said that, I know a couple who has been together
forever, each has their own (romantic) interest and it
seems to work just fine for them.

Ya, I'm with Soulfie for the most part. I wont tell anyone else how to conduct their marriage.

When I was a kid, there was talk of this idea they called "open marriage," which as I understand it, boiled down to the idea that both people said they were married, and paid taxes like they were married, and mostly lived together like they were married, but regularly had sex with other people.

Not my cup of vodka, but if the people doing that have a good time and don't interfere with others, I'm fine with it.

The one thing missing from this opening post,is whether or not this married woman looking for a "girlfriend" has a mate who knows she's doing that, and is okay with it.

I intensely despise all cheating. As long as that isn't involved, I'm fine with whatever you like. Mostly.

If you need some type of affirmation from total strangers, rather
than the other person who would be most impacted by the answer,
you pretty much already know it’s wrong.

As long as your husband gets exclusive rights
to market and profit from the video distribution.

I gave my wife a green light on getting a girlfriend LONG before we fully opened our marriage. Of course I hoped to watch.

More questions than comments.

I mean is she married to a guy and wants a gf, or is married to another woman and is looking for a 3rd woman?
Is she actually a lesbian?
Does she just fetishize women?
Does she want a gf? Or just sex/validating pleasure, but has to put it in a relationship to make it "ok?"

Is she trying to sabotage her marriage? Or add to it?
Does "gf" even mean a sexual partner? Or just an actual friend that is a girl?

What exactly and specifically does she think she wants or wants to happen?
Is this something new? Or something old and suppressed?

How is this "want" manifesting? Is it loneliness or unhappiness in her marriage and she's trying to fill a hole in her life/marriage?
Boredom, and wants to experiment to give her life meaning?
Spare time and a lack of meaningful hobbies?


Can't really comment on a "want."

For all I know that "want" was a moments thought or fantasy, rather than an ongoing pursuit. And I don't even know what that want is.
Based on how the OP is worded it could be anything from "I need a same sex sexual partner for a torrid affair!" to "my work schedule has normalized, and I wish I had a friend to hang out with or go do yoga on saturday afternoons while hubby watches football."

Am here

Hiii