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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. That sounds hateful. I am in graduate studies and will be earning a master's degree. Wanting a nice house for yourself and your children is a good thing, right? Graduate school? Where, Degrees-R-Us.com? |
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I think you are very traditional woman......I didn't realize that anyone would put up with mistresses on the side in this day and age....would you really be okay with that when it came down to the nitty gritty reality..... Men do this all time If my husband gives me a home and children and care, I don't have a problem granting him some liberty if he desires it. |
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Maybe she really is in grad school...It's just hard to picture an intelligent, ambitious woman wanting something like that for herself....
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Edited by
Hawaiigurl
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Wed 12/12/07 06:54 PM
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Honestly, men, your appearance isn't everything. Grooming and dress matter. You should be an affluent professional or successful business person, being able to afford a comfortable home and vacation retreats. Excessive lifestyle isn't necessary rather basic luxuries. MINE: This part confuses me..or maybe u are just confused your self....Excessive lifestyle isnt necessary? Yet you want vacation retreats? Hahahahahahaha....sorry that dont make sense to me |
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Maybe she really is in grad school...It's just hard to picture an intelligent, ambitious woman wanting something like that for herself.... That is why I am so skeptical. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Of course you wouldn't... |
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I think you are very traditional woman......I didn't realize that anyone would put up with mistresses on the side in this day and age....would you really be okay with that when it came down to the nitty gritty reality..... Men do this all time If my husband gives me a home and children and care, I don't have a problem granting him some liberty if he desires it. this is why there is so much aids and vd around, people spread it from to another because they are not faithful to each other. why would you want to put yourself and maybe kids through such stuff. sounds like you might need to see a counselor and see if they say what we are saying. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. thats because your a money hungry little girl looking for someone to give you everything. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Well good luck finding your man. A majority of us don't agree with you, but I'm sure there's some sleazebag sugar daddy businessman out there hoping for someone like you. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. sounds like a gold digger |
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I cant believe this thread.. lol wow! all i have to say.
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YOUR QUOTE: Honestly, men, your appearance isn't everything. Grooming and dress matter. You should be an affluent professional or successful business person, being able to afford a comfortable home and vacation retreats. Excessive lifestyle isn't necessary rather basic luxuries. MINE: This part confuses me..or maybe u are just confused your self....Excessive lifestyle isnt necessary? Yet you want vacation retreats? Hahahahahahaha....sorry that dont make sense to me I just mean we don't need his and her private jets or to own a yacht when you can charter. basic luxuries, like we both have our own car and maybe sinks in the bathroom. |
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I think you are very traditional woman......I didn't realize that anyone would put up with mistresses on the side in this day and age....would you really be okay with that when it came down to the nitty gritty reality..... Men do this all time If my husband gives me a home and children and care, I don't have a problem granting him some liberty if he desires it. this is why there is so much aids and vd around, people spread it from to another because they are not faithful to each other. why would you want to put yourself and maybe kids through such stuff. sounds like you might need to see a counselor and see if they say what we are saying. yeah, supposing your husband was screwing around, gave you herpes and then you passed it on to your children? I'm sure they'd thank you for the wonderful life you provided for them |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Well good luck finding your man. A majority of us don't agree with you, but I'm sure there's some sleazebag sugar daddy businessman out there hoping for someone like you. At least until the next plaything comes along. |
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. That sounds hateful. I am in graduate studies and will be earning a master's degree. Wanting a nice house for yourself and your children is a good thing, right? Graduate school? Where, Degrees-R-Us.com? I can't post that here, but the main point I'm making is that I'm not lazy and have my own career. I care about family |
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Edited by
Sumthingdifferent
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Wed 12/12/07 07:03 PM
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Look up "funches"!! He would be the PERFECT MAN for you! And you would be the PERFECT WOMAN for him!!!
A match made in....well let's not go there...but it's PERFECT!!! |
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Just wondering why you don't just want a man who will be honest and loyal to you? YEAH! I"m with you |
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I think its sad I guess I am just too much of a romantic to want any part of a man who's not monogamous......I could never be happy with such an arrangement.
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I cant believe this thread.. lol wow! all i have to say. With you on that one M...My grands have been married 60 years. I have this weird idea that you marry someone to be faithful FOREVER. But thats coming from me...still single at 31. |
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