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Topic: THIS IS THE DEAL
musclehd's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:14 PM

It seems to me the people replying do not believe a potential partner's financial status has any place in discussing marriage, family and home life?

That sounds a litle short sighted to me.

I think financial stress is a contributing factor in divorce.


oh i believe it has A TON TO DO WITH IT!!

but how you come off.. you could suck on my left tit.. lol you are very blunt about what you want.. i dont see you gettin any guy with how you worded things.. take a different approach next time thats it.. not tryiin to be a di*k but take it from a guy.. your not gonna get what your lookin for.

Kravynn's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:14 PM
No I discovered today (while hunting for job descriptions to juice up my resume) that there are jobs in FL, just not in Jacksonville. This city is doomed.

Reenie's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:16 PM

It seems to me the people replying do not believe a potential partner's financial status has any place in discussing marriage, family and home life?

That sounds a litle short sighted to me.

I think financial stress is a contributing factor in divorce.


I see you live in south carolina. From what I know, the cost of living isn't too high there. If you're getting a masters degree like you say you are, and you have your own career, it doesnt sound like you would be having much financial stress. As long as your husband had some kind of income and wasnt mooching off your money, I'm sure you would be able to at least afford a decent home and a healthy lifestyle for your children.

wmyers4u's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:16 PM
I just want to know if this girl even has a clue how much it costs to charter a jet.

brian325's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:16 PM

you could suck on my left tit..


laugh laugh laugh

musclehd's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:17 PM

I just want to know if this girl even has a clue how much it costs to charter a jet.



lmao!

wouldee's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:18 PM

It seems to me the people replying do not believe a potential partner's financial status has any place in discussing marriage, family and home life?

That sounds a litle short sighted to me.

I think financial stress is a contributing factor in divorce.




OK, you say, " no prenup"

You say, "sleep around and play"




You want a convenience, not a partner.

You want a leg up, not a life.


You want to have kids, but to what end?

So they can double your foolishness?


Live your own life, show your worth and look for a man that is looking for a woman who has done what he has done.


Live well, and do not seek a nightmare scenario.


You think on that, won't you?


huh brokenheart


no photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:18 PM



Are you writing all this down yet?

The ladies here are talking to you.

Us guys are dissin' you hard!!!!!

Listen to the ladies and get your head straight.


smokin drinker bigsmile


What is wrong with wanting a man that can provide financial security for his family? Why are you guys 'dissin' me?






Because it does not work like that!!!!!

We are not your Daddy, little girl.


We are MEN!!!!!! With morals and values and not boys with toys!!!!!!


Get a grip!!!!


:angry:


You seem angry about something in this post. I don't understand why. Isn't it moral to provide for your family? I don't consider a house and having a car to drive your kids to soccer and ballet to be having toys. It's not daddy, it's hubby:smile:

Kravynn's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:19 PM


It seems to me the people replying do not believe a potential partner's financial status has any place in discussing marriage, family and home life?

That sounds a litle short sighted to me.

I think financial stress is a contributing factor in divorce.


oh i believe it has A TON TO DO WITH IT!!

but how you come off.. you could suck on my left tit.. lol you are very blunt about what you want.. i dont see you gettin any guy with how you worded things.. take a different approach next time thats it.. not tryiin to be a di*k but take it from a guy.. your not gonna get what your lookin for.


Me, you and Lily...BFF. I tell ya what, I get little tinglies when I see someone throw down with the blunt truth. Its a turn on. Thank you for speaking your mind and not wasting my time. =)

unsure's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:20 PM
I think people can't believe that you are going to allow your "new husband" to seek other females for a sexual relationship. You stated that IF he had other desires, you wouldn't mind as long as he took care of you and your children?
WTH are you thinking? Either you want to be married to someone or you are going to allow them to live a life of Pologomy? Maybe you should move to AZ, I heard there is a huge town there that has lots of families that has men there that has many wives.
I guess when you are 23 you don't really think to far ahead? I guess this is why I don't mind being in my 40's...I think with age comes wisdom!! Girl you need to wise up!!!huh

wmyers4u's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:20 PM




Are you writing all this down yet?

The ladies here are talking to you.

Us guys are dissin' you hard!!!!!

Listen to the ladies and get your head straight.


smokin drinker bigsmile


What is wrong with wanting a man that can provide financial security for his family? Why are you guys 'dissin' me?






Because it does not work like that!!!!!

We are not your Daddy, little girl.


We are MEN!!!!!! With morals and values and not boys with toys!!!!!!


Get a grip!!!!


:angry:


You seem angry about something in this post. I don't understand why. Isn't it moral to provide for your family? I don't consider a house and having a car to drive your kids to soccer and ballet to be having toys. It's not daddy, it's hubby:smile:

So does this mean you are willing to give up on the chartered jet?

Reenie's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:20 PM




Are you writing all this down yet?

The ladies here are talking to you.

Us guys are dissin' you hard!!!!!

Listen to the ladies and get your head straight.


smokin drinker bigsmile


What is wrong with wanting a man that can provide financial security for his family? Why are you guys 'dissin' me?






Because it does not work like that!!!!!

We are not your Daddy, little girl.


We are MEN!!!!!! With morals and values and not boys with toys!!!!!!


Get a grip!!!!


:angry:


You seem angry about something in this post. I don't understand why. Isn't it moral to provide for your family? I don't consider a house and having a car to drive your kids to soccer and ballet to be having toys. It's not daddy, it's hubby:smile:



What we're trying to say is that a man doesnt have to be affluent in order to afford a house and a car for his children. And you both should be contributing to that expense.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:21 PM

I just want to know if this girl even has a clue how much it costs to charter a jet.


Of course she doesn't! Thats why she is looking for a man who will "pay for EVERYTHING". And in return he gets to screw EVERYTHING.

I know I said I was going to stay out of this thread..but it still boggles the mind.

She is actually right in one sense. Lots of people would mislead about monogamy (both men and women).

But just that "concept" ... it simply does not sit well with me.

musclehd's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:22 PM
im rich, bi*ch

charlie murphryy...

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:22 PM



would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed?


Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one.

Of course you wouldn't...


Are you smart enough to sign one:wink:

wmyers4u's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:23 PM




would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed?


Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one.

Of course you wouldn't...


Are you smart enough to sign one:wink:

I would.....she ain't getting my 15 year old truck or my 5 year old tvlaugh

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:24 PM
Finally!
A women that knows exactly what she wants....
and communicate it, clearly.
I'm in Love....:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
but wait....
what are you offering to me.....sweet smart loving...maternity...

But I am a affluent professional...or a successful businessman...
I can have my cake and eat it too....
but you my dear seem not to be "cake" but rather...

yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn yawn

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:24 PM

I just want to know if this girl even has a clue how much it costs to charter a jet.


Since you want to know, yes, I do. I also know how much my last boyfriend spent on an anchor for his yacht and the price tag on his car collection, but those things don't really matter to me.

I value home and family.

wouldee's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:24 PM




Are you writing all this down yet?

The ladies here are talking to you.

Us guys are dissin' you hard!!!!!

Listen to the ladies and get your head straight.


smokin drinker bigsmile


What is wrong with wanting a man that can provide financial security for his family? Why are you guys 'dissin' me?






Because it does not work like that!!!!!

We are not your Daddy, little girl.


We are MEN!!!!!! With morals and values and not boys with toys!!!!!!


Get a grip!!!!


:angry:


You seem angry about something in this post. I don't understand why. Isn't it moral to provide for your family? I don't consider a house and having a car to drive your kids to soccer and ballet to be having toys. It's not daddy, it's hubby:smile:




Look just above this post of yours that I am quoting.

You have asked for a man that is already given permission by you to treat you like a toy.

For crying out loud!!!!!

If you are that erotic and wildly passionate and bent on being used and tenderized with disengenuous emotion, then go ahead.

But you shouldn't do that.

Women are not toys, and you put out that you want to be a toy.

Show some dignity.

You might just find and make yourself a better lover.

Two tango better when in love.


smokin drinker bigsmile

Gustava's photo
Wed 12/12/07 07:26 PM




would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed?


Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one.

Of course you wouldn't...


Are you smart enough to sign one:wink:

I'd sign one because I actually have INTEGRITY.

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