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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? |
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You dont ask for much do ya? And while ur at it...post a pic so these men can see what they are getting... 
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Hawaii I would not care if she looked like your main pic sweetheart! Thats is a miserable and disasterous life waiting to happen! At least in my own widdle puppy opinion! 
I just have to do one thing with these types of people.... (lifts little puppy leg)...
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Perhaps you are coming across wrong.....
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WOW!!!!
Not one to "pick" but ummm..does anyone else pick up on some STRANGE (maybe unhealthy) attributes here???? Or maybe its just me....what the hell. Good luck in finding him...cause that's NOT this puppy! 
Unhealthy? I think I'm hearing people on this site have unhealthy ideas about relationships. What is unhealthy about wanting a good man for marriage? |
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define basic luxuries....
I know some basic ones...I'll have to check if they are the luxury models  
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. |
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You dont ask for much do ya? And while ur at it...post a pic so these men can see what they are getting...
LOL..
Hawaii I would not care if she looked like your main pic sweetheart! Thats is a miserable and disasterous life waiting to happen! At least in my own widdle puppy opinion!
I just have to do one thing with these types of people.... (lifts little puppy leg)...
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WOW!!!!
Not one to "pick" but ummm..does anyone else pick up on some STRANGE (maybe unhealthy) attributes here???? Or maybe its just me....what the hell. Good luck in finding him...cause that's NOT this puppy!
Unhealthy? I think I'm hearing people on this site have unhealthy ideas about relationships. What is unhealthy about wanting a good man for marriage? Nothing wrong with wanting a good man. I want a good man too. I'm not looking to get married anytime soon, but when I am, I hope to settle down with a good man. I just think your idea of a good man is warped...but then I guess thats your own opinion. If you want to marry a guy for his success and money, in exchange for being allowed to sleep with whomever he wants, I guess good luck to you if that's what will really make you happy. I just hope that there is more going for you in your life. |
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Maybe too much value placed in the material comforts...caring for someone is not about what they do for a living...
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Edited by
Gustava
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Wed 12/12/07 06:43 PM
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Talk to us when you are 40 and your husband decides to trade you in for a younger model. After all, any man who gets involved in this nonsense will regard you as nothing more than an object or a commodity.
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I think you're looking for the wrong things. I mean, if that's what you really want, I'm sorry to judge you. However, are you affluent yourself? Are you independent? Are you successful? A lot of successful men these days are weary of women who are just looking for someone to "take care" of them. Of course, there are men who like to take care of women, but do you really want to be under someone's thumb? If he makes all the money, he has all the control. If i'm wrong about you and you are a successful, independent woman, then you have every right to want the same in a man. However, it sounds like you're looking for superficial qualities. Make your own success, dont rely on someone else's. I'm interested in a family life together. I think having children and a marital union are commitments. How is it superficial to want a man who can provide? I have a career, but I don't plan on being a single parent or spending more time with my clients than I do with my children. |
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No comment anything I was going to say about this thread has been said already.
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed?
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If that's what you really want, I think you're going about it the wrong way. A lot of men get freaked out if a woman is looking for marriage. The key is to making men think it was THEIR idea to get married, not yours. And to do that, you have to be involved in your career and have a life of your own. If you want to give that up once you have kids, that's fine, but make it obvious that you're independent and capable of taking care of yourself.
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I think you are very traditional woman......I didn't realize that anyone would put up with mistresses on the side in this day and age....would you really be okay with that when it came down to the nitty gritty reality.....
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Just wondering why you don't just want a man who will be honest and loyal to you? I think it takes more than just honesty or just loyalty to run a household. I want to have children and be there to raise them without the ordinary, accepted, and ugly pressures of most american families. Commitment is important. Commitment means to the marriage or relationship and vows. to each other not every woman and man. sounds like you want a daddy and a sugar daddy. Think you might want to grow to love yourself more to want the person to be with only you and not possibly bring things to you that you DO NOT want. |
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can't we just have sex & call it a night?
j/k........... maybe |
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Edited by
Sumthingdifferent
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Wed 12/12/07 06:51 PM
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WOW!!!!
Not one to "pick" but ummm..does anyone else pick up on some STRANGE (maybe unhealthy) attributes here???? Or maybe its just me....what the hell. Good luck in finding him...cause that's NOT this puppy!
Unhealthy? I think I'm hearing people on this site have unhealthy ideas about relationships. What is unhealthy about wanting a good man for marriage? I honestly can't even begin to describe this one. It is obvious you come from a country (most likely Asian or Indian) where in that culture the man "pays" what he should to provide for the family, but then goes and screws anything that moves...and as long as he "provides" for you and the family, everything is "ok" with you. Without getting MAJOR typing cramps..just know this.. women CAN and SHOULD be treated with DIGNITY, HONOR & RESPECT..among many other things. And you should have that same RESPECT for YOURSELF. What you describe in your wants, at least to me, is no "marriage" or even a "healthy relationship" at all. You can also term "unhealthy" as what your husband brings home and gives to you after he has screwed everything that walks. Too much for me on this one folks.... this puppy is outta this thread! |
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. That sounds hateful. I am in graduate studies and will be earning a master's degree. Wanting a nice house for yourself and your children is a good thing, right? |
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Are you writing all this down yet?
The ladies here are talking to you. Us guys are dissin' you hard!!!!! Listen to the ladies and get your head straight.  
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