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Is it acceptable for a man to have an affair if his wife has completely lost her libido?
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Yes
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Cheers mate. I don’t feel as guilty now
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No. It is never okay to cheat on someone.
You can talk to your wife. There may very well be a reason she lost interest. For women sex and intimacy are closely related to how they feel about their man and the relationship, and thus also how the man treats her. I think one of the main reasons a woman loses interest is something about the way the man treats her and/or relationship is off. If a man doesn't treat her right anymore, if the love has gone, a woman usually doesn't want to be intimate with that man anymore either. So see if there's still something to save. Otherwise get a divorce. Don't ever cheat. Not right by your woman, yourself and the woman your cheating with. |
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Too late now damage is done. I have needs and regular good sex is high on the list
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Lol
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Obviously you don't love your wife or you wouldn't cheat on her. Why do you stay with her???
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If the missus doesn’t put out there is plenty out there that will
 
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Wow. Truly a disgusting man who cheats on his wife.
Doubt you even talk to your wife on why shes not interested. Its probably a health issue or too tired at the end of the days work. The marriage is over when the man cheats. There is no loyalty or trust. |
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It’s only sex
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No. It is never okay to cheat on someone. You can talk to your wife. There may very well be a reason she lost interest. For women sex and intimacy are closely related to how they feel about their man and the relationship, and thus also how the man treats her. I think one of the main reasons a woman loses interest is something about the way the man treats her and/or relationship is off. If a man doesn't treat her right anymore, if the love has gone, a woman usually doesn't want to be intimate with that man anymore either. So see if there's still something to save. Otherwise get a divorce. Don't ever cheat. Not right by your woman, yourself and the woman your cheating with. I agree with Crystal... also a woman is very intuitive, she will sense something is going on or that there are others you are rolling in the hay with. That in itself would turn a woman off and cause her to not want to touch you with a ten foot pole! I wonder how okay you'd think it would be if she were out there having sex with other men because she felt you weren't doing your part in satisfying her? It's never okay, imo! |
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Your wife is the only one that needs to be okay with it.
If you haven’t told her, then you already know the answer. |
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If the missus doesn’t put out there is plenty out there that will WOW JUST WOW~~~~ True there is but in the mean time be a man and be honest with your intentions, if she is not okay with it at least then she has a choice to either keep you around or move on before you cause more damage... |
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Oh another fake thread started by a basement dwelling virgin, how nice. By wife he really means his daddys old blow up doll, and by lost her libido he really means he popped a hole in it.
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Wow just wow since I don't know how to be polite to someone like this that is all I can say
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Or has brush burns on his hand
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The fact that you are posting this here means that you are dimly aware that it might not be ok..
and the realization that it wan't ok will probably blind side you some rainy Wednesday afternoon while opening a tin of beans with in a crummy room staring at a financial order and decree nici. Live and learn. |
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Been there, understand that. In my opinion, you need to take several steps to deal with the problem:
1. A long discussion with your wife about the WHY! 2. Time spent with a counselor for you, your wife, and as a couple. 3. Giving time, more than a couple months, to see change. 4. If all else fails, you need to be honest with her that you are going to seek your sexual satisfaction elsewhere. It is then up to her if she wants a divorce or to accept your decision. Sneaking around for some stray isn't the best answer to your problem. |
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Is it acceptable for a man to have an affair if his wife has completely lost her libido? Not really. But, I think it's awesome, that you've voluntarily given your wife's divorce attorney enough evidence, to thoroughly ramrod your azz, in divorce court. Cheers! 
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Obviously you don't love your wife or you wouldn't cheat on her. Why do you stay with her??? The answer to that is , he's a cheater , instead of seeking counseling he let his "needs" ( I'm so sick of hearing that) rule over the needs of his wife. And why ask since you already cheated , trying to justify your actions? |
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