Topic: You Nice Guys Out There....
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Sun 12/09/07 10:04 PM


to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.

its late can someone read it to me?

if u shoot me ur phone # i actually will lol
im very awake right now

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Sun 12/09/07 10:04 PM


to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.


I would but man - I don't have enough computer screen laugh

19 inch widescreen!

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Sun 12/09/07 10:05 PM


to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.

its late can someone read it to me?


Read it to me Duckie.....I'm not your b****


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Sun 12/09/07 10:06 PM
WOW? Guys dogging guys here? And hmmm what is up with adolescent lesson on napkin giving? Geez! Opie, have another talk with Aunt Bea! Your dying out there and you wonder why? And all you other underelders actually taking that advice...take from a woman, a prof, a actually sanely normal person with humanistic values...
SOMEBODY is way overthinking out there or watching too much live drama.

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Sun 12/09/07 10:06 PM


Next time you're talking to a girl you like, try to control yourself from being a "nice guy." Say to yourself, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" if you have to. Just be yourself. Act around her as you would around all your other friends. Joke with her freely, jovially tease her. If you do this effectively, you should get more positive results.

And remember, "Nice Guys Finish Last."


*If you would like to study the psychology of why this is so, I suggest www.doubleyourdating.com or any book on gender differences such as "Why Men Don't Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes" by Barbara and Allan Pease.


haha, no self respecting woman tolerates this crap, unless you want a low self esteemed woman, who will in the end cheat on you, or take you for granted, go ahead and try this. I don't even know why I am trying to educate you?? It's as useless as teaching a pig to sing, It only frustrates you and irritates the pig.

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Sun 12/09/07 10:07 PM
i'll read it to you but i'm a very animated public speaker so you'll have to come over. and if i hear any lip out comes the ugly shovel.

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Sun 12/09/07 10:07 PM



to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.

its late can someone read it to me?


Read it to me Duckie.....I'm not your b****



no youre right you aren't but i think i would have a hell of a fun time trying to make you my b*itch!happy

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Sun 12/09/07 10:07 PM
there too much drama out there cant please everyone just gotta make urself happy before everything else

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Sun 12/09/07 10:08 PM
hi passi you look great, if i knew you i could be your superman you know it

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Sun 12/09/07 10:08 PM
Maybe All these nice guys are just trying to be themselves, and if people are going to choose to walk all over someone just because they can Than maybe they just arent worth knowing, some people just have no desire to be a macho ass and sure it might make it a little more difficult to get that hot girl or the "cool" friends but at least your being yourself. i have seen the jerk walk away with the girl numerous times but im yet to see one of those relationships actually last. sure you need to be able to stand up for yourself but no need to go overboard.
'be who you are and see how you feel cause those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind.'

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Sun 12/09/07 10:09 PM

i'll read it to you but i'm a very animated public speaker so you'll have to come over. and if i hear any lip out comes the ugly shovel.

i would love to hear your version

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Sun 12/09/07 10:09 PM



to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.

its late can someone read it to me?

if u shoot me ur phone # i actually will lol
im very awake right now

laugh that was slick

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Sun 12/09/07 10:09 PM

Stop being such Push-Overs in front of the Women you like.

Seriously Man the **** Up.



cuz im really tired of all the ones who keep whining about how the nice guy always gets screwed. How the jerk always gets the girl. stop whining and step up to the "NOW".

Yea, ive been used, Yea it hurts, But guess what, I havent let it happen since.

Have some self-respect and dignity. <<< You can have that and still be a Gentlemen but jeez stop laying yourself out for girls, especially when you're just getting to know them.

Here's a scenerio:
A girl you like and is sitting beside you and their are napkins closer to her than you, within a hands reach of her. She asks for a napkin, what do you do...?

I'll tell you what I do. I tell her straight up and my words exactly. "I aint your *****." <<< That right there sets the tone. now dont say it all grouchy and ****, but show her you got Balls and your not going to give them to her whenever she calls. This way too, you present that challenge! and girls love that challenge, because most guys are that push-over I'll do whatever you want type.


Men if you feel you are being used and passed over, well do something about it, seriously.




ha, is someone just expressing the way they feel about themself? no sympathy here. ha I got an idea. u man up!

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Sun 12/09/07 10:10 PM

haha, no self respecting woman tolerates this crap, unless you want a low self esteemed woman, who will in the end cheat on you, or take you for granted, go ahead and try this. I don't even know why I am trying to educate you?? It's as useless as teaching a pig to sing, It only frustrates you and irritates the pig.

uhhh im confused
grammatically speaking, you are agreeing with me
but the tone of your writing says otherwise huh

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Sun 12/09/07 10:10 PM




to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.

its late can someone read it to me?


Read it to me Duckie.....I'm not your b****



no youre right you aren't but i think i would have a hell of a fun time trying to make you my b*itch!happy


Ahhh - the hell with it....I don't care about getting respect.....Duckie, make me your b*tch now. :wink:

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Sun 12/09/07 10:12 PM
i always though that guys have to be arrogant to make up for small penis size

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Sun 12/09/07 10:12 PM
duckie sure is the popular one

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Sun 12/09/07 10:12 PM




to all you people disagreeing with edukated, read my article thing.

its late can someone read it to me?

if u shoot me ur phone # i actually will lol
im very awake right now

laugh that was slick

slickness aside, im actually serious haha (as long as you dont call me back later)
if u want, u can speak to me on a private line
i SHOULD be studying for finals laugh

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Sun 12/09/07 10:13 PM
Ok here we go again. Why is it that when ever the words nice guy or good guy comes up everyone thinks they are just geeky whimps that can't stick up for themselves. LOL This just cracks me up.

Let me tell you a scenerio myself. A guy picks on people that are less fortunate as him. He treats girls as a piece of meat. Having sex with 2 or 3 girls in one night (not at the sametime) basically cheating on them. Then one day he gets a girl pregnant and then figures out the hard way it's time to grow up and become a real man. So this man then decides to completely change his ways and values on how he treats other people. Now mind you he still can kick others ass but instead of starting fights he tries to walk away. Instead of trying to use a woman for sex he insteads trys to get to know them and learn about them and who they really are.

Now the asshole has now turned into the good guy but how is this possible. Because they are one and the same. It's a choice to what they want to be in life and how they want to treat people. This is also the the same for the people deciding to be with jerks. They are always going to choose jerks unless they decide they don't want to be treated like crap anymore. I have posted a thread about good guys before but I was trying to get answers why women can be ok with someone treating them like crap. My advice to you is stop being an asshole or you will end up like me.

I was that guy above. I became a man real fast because I was stupid and got a girl pregnant by using them. Then I basically was punished later in life being married to the woman I got pregnant. She and I never got along and never should have even thought about getting married. So now I am divorced, have kids that live with me, and it is even harder to get someone to go out with me because of this. Women being affraid of someone with kids. But do I care know I keep on trucking along knowing that someday. I will find someone that is to my own standards and will love me for myself without me having to treat them like crap or letting them treat me like crap too. Good luck everyone trying to find their own mate.

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Sun 12/09/07 10:13 PM
what i lack in penis size i make up for in completely make up for in smart ass remarks