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Topic: Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles?
CM9999's photo
Sat 09/19/20 09:21 AM
My pet peeves (in no particular order):

1. People who demand that you go to some web site in order to chat to them; I block them immediately.
2. People who totally ignore what you write and just say that they want sex.
3. People who post fake pics. Nowadays I always check pictures on Google to see if they are just copied from the internet.
4. People who demand money. I always report them to the site admin as scammers.
5. people who cannot write proper English. The most common one is when they mean "you're" but write "your". As a writer myself, that really annoys me!
6. People who say they are in England on their profile, but when you get chatting it turns out that they are in the USA or Ghana or somewhere.
7. People whose entire profile consists of "No answer".

I think that just about covers it!

no photo
Sat 09/19/20 08:00 PM
Old men shirtless!

cityblues21's photo
Sun 09/20/20 10:07 AM
Tell you Later

Just ask me

Poor grammar

Any one shirtless..

Stating you live in one place, but then message saying you are somewhere else..

Latinqueen171's photo
Mon 09/21/20 06:04 PM
All of those plus not reading my profile

mysticalview21's photo
Mon 09/21/20 07:19 PM
I agree with a lot of what others say ... 1 I don't like i will tell you later profile ... or shirtless or others exposing way to show their bodies ...

a know it all ... and mail that is once they message u... their profile is deleted ... have not figure that one out :>) and a lot of what others are saying about people ... but good thing is there is always block ...

ctr916's photo
Tue 09/22/20 07:41 AM
Overly conservative women in modern times.

TallPisces's photo
Wed 09/23/20 04:53 PM
if they cant cook,it means big sdining bills.it can add up fast,lol

Devo1974's photo
Wed 09/23/20 05:07 PM
Someone saying they want to be spoiled. It just tells me their a golddigger wanting to spend your money.

CraigJ's photo
Thu 09/24/20 12:46 PM
In my experience, it doesn't matter what you say in the first message, what your profile says, what your picture is like - you still get ignored!

no photo
Fri 10/02/20 10:53 AM
Edited by Seamus on Fri 10/02/20 10:54 AM
What puts me off most is the usual problem of people not reading my profile and realising that they are completely outside my consideration. The other thing (and this is largely my own fault) is when I politely message someone (usually plausible seeming people) saying 'Thank you but...' and they completely ignore this and reply with whatever scripted message they use.

teckelandtortie's photo
Mon 10/12/20 02:29 PM
-mirror selfies, especially if in the bathroom and no shirt on
-guys who frown, don't smile in photos
-guys who are unshaven, messy looking, wearing undershirts etc
-those who don't read my profiles to see what I am seeking
-perverted profile names, or too many sexual innuendos in their profile. I always say, act like you are meeting someone in a grocery store, would you say something crude then?

teckelandtortie's photo
Mon 10/12/20 02:31 PM
I should have added all your points to mine....lol, you are not the only one getting these scammers, it is ridiculous and kudos to you for doing your research and smoking them off this site.

Aldtrao's photo
Tue 10/13/20 04:49 PM
Edited by Aldtrao on Tue 10/13/20 04:50 PM
Profiles with multiple people in the picture, so you can’t tell which person it belongs to.
Profiles that make it clear the dog is the most important “person” in their life.
Profiles with mirror selfies designed to put the butt on display.
Profiles with more than three selfies (makes me wonder if they might be a narcissist).
Profiles with pictures that have dog ears and nose superimposed.
And this is a weird one for me but... belly button rings. Yuck.

no photo
Thu 10/15/20 12:16 PM
Shirtless pictures.

LightVoice's photo
Fri 10/16/20 09:38 AM
YES! The "unnatural ones".. if it's a random beach picture, fine.. but to take a shirtless selfie.. where I can see your bathroom or bedroom... uck! 🤢

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Tue 10/20/20 03:34 PM

When viewing a profile male or female, what things would make you think twice when looking for a potential partner/relationship or friend?

Here are one or two of my put offs ~

1. They show the top half of their body, naked.
2. They are laying on a bed or couch in a seductive way
3. They are holding an alcoholic drink or cigarette in their hand or are surrounded by
alcohol.
4. Misspelt words.
5. They are clearly lying about their age.
6. They are 30 years your junior and their starting line is "Hey Babe"?

Do you have any pet peeves?



I hate all the spamming, scamming, prostituting, etc. I already know the uber-hotties barely dressed (or not at all) are not real.

Jim's photo
Wed 10/21/20 05:57 AM
I agree totally

no photo
Wed 10/21/20 02:06 PM
1. A profile name that let's you know they are only interested in sex.
2. No picture or a picture that's older than 5 years.
3. No info in the profile, a lot of "tell you later"s, no hobbies or interest.
4. Posting children in your profile. It's creeps out here, protect the babies!
5. Profiles only looking for hook ups or friends with benefits.
6. Lying about your age. If your profile says you're 39 and you look like you've lived 39 years old twice....hard and fast, that's a no go.
7. Saying you live in one area but you actually live in another area. I have seen profile where men say they live in Georgia, USA and in the profile it says they live in Guam but will be moving to Georgia in 6 months.

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Wed 10/21/20 06:57 PM

-mirror selfies, especially if in the bathroom and no shirt on
-guys who frown, don't smile in photos
-guys who are unshaven, messy looking, wearing undershirts etc
-those who don't read my profiles to see what I am seeking
-perverted profile names, or too many sexual innuendos in their profile. I always say, act like you are meeting someone in a grocery store, would you say something crude then?



What? So I'm the grocery store, and the woman had just put two cantaloupes in her car, and I said "You've got some nice cataloupes there, lady", and she got all upset! Damn Karens!

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 10/22/20 09:25 AM
Stating the obvious or not giving the reader some credit.

NO...when we are on a date...ALL EYES ON ME!
The kids can stay home and play with kitchen knives.

Pfff! "Your kids come first."......Really?!?!?

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