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Topic: How long till you live together?
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Wed 12/12/18 08:12 PM
Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?

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Wed 12/12/18 08:34 PM
The best test of a relationship and compatibility is living together... the sooner the better biggrin waving

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Wed 12/12/18 08:49 PM
10 years.

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Wed 12/12/18 08:55 PM
Best test yes put both in the ole cage and close door rofl
10 yrs mmmmm Yea I have noticed a trend where each lives in their own homes and just mingles during the time they can spare.

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Wed 12/12/18 09:21 PM
Only after she passes the audition.


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Thu 12/13/18 12:44 AM
I guess it depends first on why you two are together?
It could be anytime from the day you meet to never.
There is no actual standard time for such a decision.

I moved in with a woman I met online and had a LDR relationship via the dating site we were using till we decided to move in together and I relocated.
I physically met her and we moved in together the next day.
That relationship lasted around a year and a half.
I returned to Mississippi and she returned to Ohio.
I chose poorly and living together helped me realize that.

The woman I am seeing right now (I met on Mingle 2) spends weekends with me at my house. She also comes here during the week.
She has clothes here, toiletries and helps keep it clean.
She tells me she feels at home here and wants to move in but I am holding off till I know her better. I don't really have a time frame in mind but if I proclaim my love for her, it will probably be that day.
If she turns out to be a wrong choice, Oh well ~ Live and Learn...
I do know I miss her presence now when she isn't here.

Whatever you choose to do, choose wisely.

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Thu 12/13/18 02:15 AM
I'm always inclined to move fast, I'm passionate. Because of that I have moved too fast before, and found myself stuck. Literally but also emotionally.
It isn't easy to get a council house these days, can easily take 3-5 years, so leaving if it doesn't work out won't be easy.
Also, the cost of decorating a new home...
And... if you move in together both have to decide what furniture goes and what stays.
I'd rather take my time. But it does depend on how it feels, how he makes me feel.

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Thu 12/13/18 02:48 AM

Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?


When both it feels right for the both of you.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 12/13/18 04:40 AM

Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?


Right after the wedding.

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 12/13/18 07:23 AM



Not interested in Men shackles to Livins.




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Thu 12/13/18 07:24 AM


Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?


Right after the wedding.


What if there is no wedding happening? I have no intention of getting married again.

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Thu 12/13/18 07:44 AM




Not interested in Men shackles to Livins.






I must ask what are men shackles?

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Thu 12/13/18 07:48 AM


Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?


Right after the wedding.



Explains so much :yum:

Asap

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Thu 12/13/18 07:49 AM





Not interested in Men shackles to Livins.






I must ask what are men shackles?


Men who livin with Women. No real commitment. Shackles Means ball and chain with no marriage.License.


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Thu 12/13/18 07:55 AM






Not interested in Men shackles to Livins.






I must ask what are men shackles?


Men who livin with Women. No real commitment. Shackles Means ball and chain with no marriage.License.


Ah yes Kewl. so no marriage no move in together got it. shades


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Thu 12/13/18 08:09 AM
Too funny,

Iā€™m the opposite, no marriage, just live together.

flowers

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Fri 12/14/18 03:53 AM

Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?


Don't be too hastey, at least a year before even thinking about moving in together. Think about what it would mean for you in those circumstances if the relationship were to fail, it happens.

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Fri 12/14/18 04:10 AM

Say you have found what you seek. How long before you move in together?


Never. You just visit for a few days every week. whoa
That way they can never claim common law marriage.shocked


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Fri 12/14/18 04:24 AM
After the 6th hour of the 6th day of the 6th month.

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Fri 12/14/18 06:54 AM
Everyone is different you really don't get to know the true person till you live with them..

Heck I only dated my ex for about 3 months before we got married an moved in together lasted 10 years and 2 great kids..

Then I have dated a guy for 12 years after my divorce we had our own places and stayed at each others from time to time.. Awesome set up actually... we parted our ways but still talk to each other from time to time..

It all depends on what works for each...

I have lived so long alone now that I would even admit it would be hard for me to just move someone in I kind of like my space.. but it is never out of the question..

Humm even meet one guy and less then a month he was living with me lasted 6 months before I told him it was not working...,

Then dated a guy for over a year before he moved in, it last about 2 months. Before I told him to pack his stuff and get out..

Honestly I don't see there is a time limit...it all depends on what you want, take chances at times who knows what will happen..

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