Not trying to be judgemental, but you're still married! Maybe the sites that support extra-marital affairs would be a better fit for you. Most of the woman here are not interested in married men, whether they are separated or not.

Most white women in the USA are crazy...Sorry....

And some of us have papers to prove it

I know and I don't doubt it..

Yes. And the dance continues.

Truthfully, I'm sure in many instances it is looks based. Not everyone is wired that way. If a woman is kind enough to pay attention to me then I am grateful.

How ya doin Von?

Nope Not Married. Just live together and yes she knows and approves. Polygamy is real. I have friends that live this life style. This site is just like all the rest. You just have a forum where people can visit.

But I do thank you one and all. And wish you the best holiday season. Gots to go wash dishes. BB later. LMAO

I'm alright...and you..

Yes, everyone is welcome in the forums. And some meet and date, and some have even gotten married. And others just hang out in the forums to socialize.

Your profile says your married... hence my comment.

If you have friends that live that lifestyle, surely they would know where you might find a second or third wife/live in.

Good luck!

It honestly depends on the individuals

I have a note from Sheldon's mother, she had me tested...

Personally, have nothing against polygamy. Personally, I choose to enter into a monogamous arrangement.

The topic of this thread is how men react to a woman that is 'forward'.
So, on topic, how has your 'open' lifestyle been affected by women making the first move?

Considering that you are an established polygamist, are the women openly pursuing you or are women a target of your intentions?
Knowing what I know about the values of women, I believe not many actually approach you to be 'part' of your...'harem'?
However, having never attempted to have more that one woman at any given time, I do not know?
Please enlighten us?

I keep looking for my soul mate... no one accept me because I am black

And most white men in the US are boorish and uncultured and simple(minded)..

See how ridiculous that sounds?

And, no..I do not think that way....just saying that to show Von Schulten how silly his comment was...

My reaction is I like it. I think it helps them weed out the ones they don't want. It has a positive effect with this life style. It has made me more aware of women, like in check out lines. I tend to notice more indicators better now. I do like them to make the 1st move. But no I don't just go out on the prowl. I really don't like chasing, but I am not afraid to ask, get answer "ya" "na" and either continue interaction or move on. If I see a woman that is interested in me I will ask. I have had actually mmmm quite a few pursue me and some stalkers too LOL. Lots of hate mail along the way. But no this is not for everyone and there is nothing easy about it. Jealousy can and will arise. But.... That being said.
You would be surprised at how many women that will live this life style. Economics will play a big role in it. In most cases it is out of love for each other. But splitting the household expenses between all helps all. Leads to more money to put in savings accounts of their own. Something I insist on. While splitting the household chores makes life easier for all too. But remember this life style is NOT about sex. You will go weeks without it. Contrary to popular beliefs. While being the only man in the household you still get opinions from everyone before any major decisions are made.
Been a few yrs ago, before late wife passed and I relocated. But there were 4 of us living as a family in the same house. That went on for 7 years. Fantastic times! But as fate would have it. The 1st one " fell in love " with one of my band mates and left the household. No hard feelings, no regrets about it. That's life. Things and people change. Still friends. 2nd one left to take care of her parents. So wife then passed... anyway it hit me really hard ... I will leave that there.