Topic: How do you Men feel about women...
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Wed 01/02/19 07:33 PM

Interesting comment... Why are you here if you feel that way?

And if you stuck around the forums you would find your statement to be wrong!
The options are limited. I have yet to find an actual dating site. You either get hook-up sites, social sites, or marriage hunter sites but no dating sites!! I expect nothing from most of the sites so I'm not disappointed!! As for the forums, there are maybe 20 women who regularly post, that does not make for much of a group to consider.

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Thu 01/03/19 01:41 AM
A valid point Oldkid, but of all the sites, I believe Mingle to be the best. Social interaction with the potential of meeting someone that becomes that special one. I've seen it happen for a few in the last year, so I believe it is possible.


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Thu 01/03/19 08:49 AM

A valid point Oldkid, but of all the sites, I believe Mingle to be the best. Social interaction with the potential of meeting someone that becomes that special one. I've seen it happen for a few in the last year, so I believe it is possible.


and that doesn't find someone for the theater on Friday night or dancing on Saturday night! That is why I say there are no real dating sites that I have found. For me, Mingle is mostly a social site as there are no active members to even chat with other than in the forums.

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Thu 01/03/19 08:51 AM

A valid point Oldkid, but of all the sites, I believe Mingle to be the best. Social interaction with the potential of meeting someone that becomes that special one. I've seen it happen for a few in the last year, so I believe it is possible.




That's true, to a *degree*...
But, as he says..if the pool of people who are actually *on* the Forums is small...the likelyhood of meeting someone you have anything in common with is unlikely.

Some topics in the Forum haven't had anyone post in months/ weeks...
Some have only had one or two replies.



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Thu 01/03/19 09:10 AM
We all have the option of creating threads if there is a lack of active forums. And we all have the option of using other means of meeting people, like the traditional way of going out in society... at least a lot of us do, some are home bound and can't.

But that is a topic for another discussion. This topic is about how men feel about woman initiating the first date or being the one to pursue the man.

Thank you both for sharing flowerforyou waving

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Thu 01/03/19 09:35 AM


If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.

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Thu 01/03/19 09:43 AM



If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.

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Thu 01/03/19 12:22 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Thu 01/03/19 12:26 PM




If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should be flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and they might run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile

P.S. I walk around with an oxygen tank so it might take time to find them, ok?


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Thu 01/03/19 12:25 PM





If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile





I like the sound of that. What do you use for hunting them down?

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Thu 01/03/19 12:28 PM






If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile





I like the sound of that. What do you use for hunting them down?


I have friends in the CIA... so they tell me. laugh

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Thu 01/03/19 12:32 PM







If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile





I like the sound of that. What do you use for hunting them down?


I have friends in the CIA... so they tell me. laugh


I prefer a more personal approach......a big club and some rope

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Thu 01/03/19 12:45 PM








If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile





I like the sound of that. What do you use for hunting them down?


I have friends in the CIA... so they tell me. laugh


I prefer a more personal approach......a big club and some rope


laugh JBH, wouldn't it be better if they were conscious? laugh

Thanks rosie laugh flowerforyou Are the CIA friends the kind that use slow torture? pitchfork bigsmile

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Thu 01/03/19 04:16 PM
Edited by eric22t on Thu 01/03/19 04:17 PM








If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile






I like the sound of that. What do you use for hunting them down?


I have friends in the CIA... so they tell me. laugh


I prefer a more personal approach......a big club and some rope

hey now that is my best neanderthal pick up line

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Thu 01/03/19 04:50 PM









If a man is secure within himself, he would be flattered. That’s my experience.


Sounds like you've had positive results JBH and from what other men have said here, they are indeed flattered.



I agree with you and JBH, they should flattered... unless of course it turns into stalking and that might be a little uncomfortable and run away from us. But don't worry, I promise to find them for you.

bigsmile





I like the sound of that. What do you use for hunting them down?


I have friends in the CIA... so they tell me. laugh


I prefer a more personal approach......a big club and some rope


laugh JBH, wouldn't it be better if they were conscious? laugh

Thanks rosie laugh flowerforyou Are the CIA friends the kind that use slow torture? pitchfork bigsmile


@JBH, I like your personal approach laugh

@River, they could if we ask them nicely I suppose laugh

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Thu 01/03/19 04:52 PM
laugh

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Thu 01/03/19 04:52 PM
now isn't jbh's way soooo much better than shoving them off a cliff????tongue2

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Thu 01/03/19 04:53 PM
whoa

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Thu 01/03/19 05:16 PM

now isn't jbh's way soooo much better than shoving them off a cliff????tongue2


eric, the people who annoy us we push off the cliff. The guys we like but seem to not realize yet they like us back, we use JBH's approach.

bigsmile

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Thu 01/03/19 05:18 PM
:thumbsup: Love that plan rosie bigsmile

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Thu 01/03/19 05:20 PM
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