Topic: How do I handle this one? (Girls ONLY)
longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 08:07 PM
If you are only going to listen to what you want to hear which is sympathy for self inflicted drama why bother? Especially if you don't care for us in the first place.

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 08:16 PM


Jayme, the wiccan boyfriend, the pregnancy scare, the online love affair, and marriage proposal, the exes getting married, without you...

All in the last four months....and the one who was having an affair by text with his ex, not ex....was that the wiccan boyfriend, and now this one....


Where do you find time to raise your nephew? huh
once again I rest my case your honor.
ladies and gentleman please support mental health.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 12/08/07 08:26 PM


I am a clinical microbiologist and totally agree. I'm curious if the free clinic she is going to for testing is doing a thorough workup for STD. AIDS is not the only thing there is to worry about. Chlamydia, Syphillis, GC, Herpes, Genital Warts, Hepatisis B and C are only a few off the top of my head.


As I said in this previous post. Just make sure it is a comprehensive "testing". Also know that HIV can be dormant for years before you/he tests positive. So even if you/he test negative, the virus can still be transmitted.


NOW she is speechless???

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/08/07 08:29 PM
i dont know about her but i'm getting measured for a body condom.....grumble

Jess642's photo
Sat 12/08/07 08:47 PM
laugh laugh laugh

Tibetan None, (Nun) is looking better and better.:wink:

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 11:40 AM


Jayme, the wiccan boyfriend, the pregnancy scare, the online love affair, and marriage proposal, the exes getting married, without you...

All in the last four months....and the one who was having an affair by text with his ex, not ex....was that the wiccan boyfriend, and now this one....


Where do you find time to raise your nephew? huh
once again I rest my case your honor.


I already answered this... and you know NOTHING about my nephew so do NOT start that one...

And no, I wasn't speechless, I just wasn't here. I spent time with my nephew then when he went to bed I called the guy I've been speaking of and he came over so we could talk. I AM a civil person, we are still friends as of the moment. I do not bring my drama around my nephew. HOW DARE ANY OF YOU QUESTION OR ASSUME YOU KNOW A DAMN THING ABOUT MY NEPHEW OR HOW WELL I TAKE CARE OF HIM!!!!! HE'S A HAPPY HEALTHY 9 YEAR OLD BOY AND HE IS MY WHOLE WORLD SO YA'LL MIGHT WANNA STOP ACTIN LIKE YOU KNOW SOMETHIN ABOUT THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gustava's photo
Sun 12/09/07 11:41 AM
HIV is the least of your worries. Hep C and HPV* are more prevalent and just as deadly---or more so.


*HPV is the number one cause of cervical cancer, a notoriously deadly form of cancer.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 11:47 AM



I am a clinical microbiologist and totally agree. I'm curious if the free clinic she is going to for testing is doing a thorough workup for STD. AIDS is not the only thing there is to worry about. Chlamydia, Syphillis, GC, Herpes, Genital Warts, Hepatisis B and C are only a few off the top of my head.


As I said in this previous post. Just make sure it is a comprehensive "testing". Also know that HIV can be dormant for years before you/he tests positive. So even if you/he test negative, the virus can still be transmitted.


NOW she is speechless???


I took health class in school thank you very much... I know how to take care of my self, not to mention the fact he might be one of 2 or 3 I've NOT used condoms AND VCFs with. I usually use BOTH even after they've been tested. Wow, you people really are tryin to act like you know somethin about me. I've DATED A LOT more guys than I've slept with. I'm not promiscuous, I'm not a dumb little hoe who's tryin to catch anything, I'm not tryin to trap anybody with anything, and I'm sure as hell not stupid when it comes to takin care of my sister's son. That boy is all we got left of her and he is cherished and loved by me and my mother more than any of you can possibly imagine!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 11:49 AM

HIV is the least of your worries. Hep C and HPV* are more prevalent and just as deadly---or more so.


*HPV is the number one cause of cervical cancer, a notoriously deadly form of cancer.


I get tested for EVERYTHING when I go... why the hell must ya'll insist on thinking I'm some dumb little girl who don't know right from wrong? I KNOW I'm good person, I KNOW I'm not ignorant about a damn thing. I'm really starting to get irritated with the fact that no matter how many times I answer the same f*cking questions ya'll just keep at it.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:56 AM
so are you pregnant???huh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 12:02 PM

so are you pregnant???huh


I'm pretty sure I'm not...lol, but I will go tomorrow to get a test. Its been busy around here doin stuff decorating for christmas and I haven't had time to get to the store. I was gonna go this morning, I'm not in a big hurry since I dont' think I am and I've got him calmed down for at least a day or two, so it'll be alright till I get to the store. I think he just doesnt' want to be there when I take it... which you'd think he would, but oh wellies.

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Sun 12/09/07 12:03 PM
Id go to the store now.......indifferent

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 12:06 PM

Id go to the store now.......indifferent


I don't have way there right now and plus I won't have enough money til tomorrow. This whole christmas thing drained me this week...I could get the dollar store brand, but I want him to know I got one of the most reliable brands so that when it says no he can be sure its right.

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Sun 12/09/07 12:11 PM

::Wears a wig::

Men are afraid of having children, espeically if we are not ready, most of the time when women say thier not its generally a cover-up. "Im not pregnant", means to men "i hope im not pregnant" so we wait for the next period and worry about it every day. I used to think my X was and it would freak me out, i wasnt ready for a family. I however wasnt as incosiderate as this man.


Please point me in the direction of these men, because every guy I meet wants to be a daddy. :P

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Sun 12/09/07 12:12 PM
well lets hope youre not because, A) you have no car......B) you cant afford a preg test right now. Just a thought, if you were to have a baby, and it got sick, how would you be able to afford the meds and how would you get to the doc???? I know you could get a bus etc but its really hard to financially care for them alone and harder if you cant manage your money. You will have to become a financial wizard to be able to care for a child if anything goes wrong.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sun 12/09/07 12:14 PM
personally i dont know why you post your sexual problems here when you know it all.By the way people who arent promiscuous all the time dont need to get tested every year for anything.Maybe you should abstain for awhile so the free clinic can treat other patients.

kidatheart70's photo
Sun 12/09/07 12:15 PM
Jaxlaugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 12:17 PM

well lets hope youre not because, A) you have no car......B) you cant afford a preg test right now. Just a thought, if you were to have a baby, and it got sick, how would you be able to afford the meds and how would you get to the doc???? I know you could get a bus etc but its really hard to financially care for them alone and harder if you cant manage your money. You will have to become a financial wizard to be able to care for a child if anything goes wrong.


I've asked this before, who has money right now? I just spent all kinds of money on my nephew for christmas, so yeah, I'm running a little thin this week. In this state you can get medicaid for children until they are 19 if you can't afford medical care. As for the transportation, well, I, up to this point have preferred walking and never really cared if I had a car. I can't walk to the store this very moment b/c I got my nephew with me and its like 5 miles away. Fine for me, but he'd get awfully cold and tired... plus its raining.

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Sun 12/09/07 12:18 PM

What I wanna know is if she's gonna raise the children on the internet.


LMAO!!!! Erm....

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 12/09/07 12:21 PM

personally i dont know why you post your sexual problems here when you know it all.By the way people who arent promiscuous all the time dont need to get tested every year for anything.Maybe you should abstain for awhile so the free clinic can treat other patients.



You're making it sound like I sleep with every person who walks by me, if you've been reading my posts that is so far beyond the case... Isn't it SMART to get tested two times a year? I was always told by health teachers that it was and I've just always done that. I didn't post a sexual problem, I posted wanting to know how to clam him down and now I have so wtf are you ppl still doing talkin crap about me like I'm some idiotic little 12 y/o girl?