I've known this girl for a year now we have been pretty wide open and talked and became good friends, She is going through and is pretty much done with a divorce, Last night we went out for the first time by ourselves, had a wonderful time. (I'm not her rebound), after last night it just clicked I'm crazy about her , so how do I seem interested and not come off as being pushy?

My advice, wait until she is completly divorced and then ask her out for a "real" date. If she says yes, the she is probably interested too. Good Luck!

Just LIKE-YOU-HAVE-BEEN!!!!

Open, honest, and TALK,,,,TALK,,,TALK,,,lol

Let her know how you feel, and see if she feels the same way.
Then go very slow as SHE is still carring in her heart her ex's love....EVEN if she says SHE HATES HIM, wink,wink..

If she WANTS to SPEED her and you up,,,PLEASE, SLOW HER DOWN.
Your of clear mind and thoughts and FULLY open to LOVE, she is still going through her own pains right now...

GOOD LUCK, to your CLICKING and falling into each others HEARTS and souls....

Dude she came out of a long term relationship, you ARE the rebound like it or not. She will say that your not and that all is well but trust me give her time to completely get over her current situation before you go any further. and when that is through take her out and show her how a lady needs to be treated and just be honest and everything will work out :]


Good luck .

ugh
u guys dont get it...
why are yall so desperate in communicating interest? it does nothing to appeal to a woman's emotional brain and does nothing to ATTRACT her.

i agree with this!!

WOW, if ONLY I had ALL your wisdom when I was just 18...lol

I NEVER WOULD OF FOUND MY WIFE THEN!!!!

The only problem is that SOMEONE could lose MAYBE there ONLY chance at the RIGHT ONE FOR THEM..if they WAIT OUT a YEAR or more..
Some States have a law making the COUPLE wait A YEAR, before they can divorce..

oh no not another one lol
by the way, it's "would have" not "would of"
I'm not trying to preach WISDOM, per say. I'm trying to inform people of a technical SYSTEM which I have learned using intelligence, which is kinda different from wisdom.

Be yourself. If you are a pushy person, then you will appear pushy. If your not, you won't. Take your time to learn 1)who she is 2)if she will bring something positive to your life 3)at what level the 'click' is (so many ppl feel because it happens with the opposite sex and it MUST be romantic when it would've been more meaningful at a different level). You owe it to yourself to handle it in a way that you are comfortable with and that brings meaning into your life. Good luck to you!

You will probably not take this advise from me because you already said you are interested in her to much.
Women who are not divorced are not emotionally ready for a new guy. Yes they want to get out and have fun but not with a guy who is at a different stage of his life than her.
Trust me I have done this with three girls as of late and it is going to hurt you in the long run.
You are going to go out with her some more then you will catch her in a sexual moment and you will proably have sex. You may date for a bit but she will eventually pull away.

Remember this, change your reality. Frame yourself as the prize and do not be needy. She will push you away if you seem too into her as you are too easily gotten. Be fun but be distant as well. Do not try hard to spend time with her. Give her the sizzle and not the steak.

Use some push pull techniques. Research this if you are not aware what this is. If you want it to be a long term thing you need to understand this stuff.

SIZZLE, BUT NOT THE STEAK??

Jim

this has red flags all over it why do you want to get involved with some one coming out of a divorce just because she is done with it doesn't mean She is over it. don't become the "Transition Guy" . Just be her friend for say ......if you really like Her just back off for a few months.

Agree w/Quake

agree with quake too

Like David D. says, most guys just don't get it. But it's true. The system does work. It's a combination of things a man can do to trigger a woman's emotional circuitry that makes her attracted to him.

Holy crap another PUA!
Wasup man!

Remember this, change your reality. Frame yourself as the prize and do not be needy. She will push you away if you seem too into her as you are too easily gotten. Be fun but be distant as well. Do not try hard to spend time with her. Give her the sizzle and not the steak.

Hey Kycat that is very good advice, see I'm not that blinded. See I think my problem is that I fall to fast but I'm getting better at it.

you wait till she compleatly divorced she will be with another man my advise be her friend ask her to lunch a movie or something go slow dont be trying any moves shes not ready for that if she still going through a divorce, but make sure she has fun when she is with you thats the most important thing, you me come show you how its done

I have no idea, of the push/pull technique what is it?