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Topic: Please help need advice.
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Mon 12/03/07 12:04 PM

I have no idea, of the push/pull technique what is it?

I was sleeping one day and one of my PUA buddies called me and was asking me for some examples of push/pull.
Of course, I was only half-conscious and groggy so I only gave a few vague examples, but they sufficed. I told him:
One great way to do push/pull is to say one thing but do another. For example, say "you're such a brat; I hate you" while smiling and pulling her closer to you with your arm. Probably the most common form of push/pull is to combine an Indicator of Interest and an Indicator of Disinterest (girls call this "sending mixed signals"), such as saying "You're from RUSSIA? that's so cool... my first girlfriend was from Russia OMG i can't even talk to you right now."
It's all about teasing.

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Mon 12/03/07 12:11 PM
ok listen you dont want to do things that will push her away like just comeing on strong an makeing her think you only want whats in her paints. its ok to show her you intrested even if at first she doesnt seem intrested in you, dont go away, dont be a pest but dont go away she going through a rough time right now and isnt thinking to clearly ok. no when your around her at work or at a park or outside or where ever make sure she is haveing fun around you then she will get to a point where she looks forward to seeing you or hearing from you cause all she knows is she has fun when she is with you. dont try no kissy kissy stuff yet its way to early for that, im telling you if you want this girl you can get her you got to be smart and patient.

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