Topic: The right person
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Thu 01/18/18 06:59 AM

it's all 3 rolled up together ss and each person you meet the balance is different.


well said stu well said

Well wouldn’t you prefer that one of those are more than the other? Like the mental side which carries both the physical and emotional in stride?

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Thu 01/18/18 07:01 AM
I wish that with this thread I am not scaring my future right person lol

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Thu 01/18/18 07:05 AM

The rules are simple. The one you're with is the only one period. You don't lie, cheat in any form, and lift each other up when one is down. You listen to their problems, concerns and fears without judging or telling them their feeling is invalid. You listen and either give helpful advise, or you just hold them and let them know that together the two of you will figure it out together if you don't have any usable advise.

I want someone that likes some of things I do, but not necessarily all of them, but are open to trying it and in turn I would do the same. Of course being with someone that enjoys all the same things might sound good, but there isn't anything wrong with having some differences in things you like to do or opinions on certain topics. However, you have to keep that open mind and not tell the other person that their opinion is wrong, that leads to hurt feelings and arguments.

Now, I'm sure I haven't covered everything, but trying to type on a phone is a pita.. so I'll just leave it at that for now since I'm still trying to wake up..




:thumbsup: Nice!

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Thu 01/18/18 07:06 AM
Oh, good morning SS, good to see you..

Morning P.. flowers

Morning Eric drinker

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Thu 01/18/18 07:06 AM
I agree very nice Stu :thumbsup:

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Thu 01/18/18 07:07 AM

Oh, good morning SS, good to see you..

Morning P.. flowers

Morning Eric drinker


Morning Stu flowers

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Thu 01/18/18 07:07 AM
no one is only one of them ss

1) beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we all have certain stronger likes.

2)brains come in all different sizes and we all have our own cut as to too much or not enough

3)emotional is felt not measured. there is no scale.

stronger in any of them overcomes the shortfalls of the others.

it's how they balance out in you that would ultimately determine how attracted i am to you. and there is no magic formula

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Thu 01/18/18 07:08 AM

I wish that with this thread I am not scaring my future right person lol


if you are he isn't!!!

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Thu 01/18/18 07:09 AM

no one is only one of them ss

1) beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we all have certain stronger likes.

2)brains come in all different sizes and we all have our own cut as to too much or not enough

3)emotional is felt not measured. there is no scale.

stronger in any of them overcomes the shortfalls of the others.

it's how they balance out in you that would ultimately determine how attracted i am to you. and there is no magic formula

I retreat lol ... you are right

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Thu 01/18/18 07:10 AM

no one is only one of them ss

1) beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we all have certain stronger likes.

2)brains come in all different sizes and we all have our own cut as to too much or not enough

3)emotional is felt not measured. there is no scale.

stronger in any of them overcomes the shortfalls of the others.

it's how they balance out in you that would ultimately determine how attracted i am to you. and there is no magic formula



Very well said!

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Thu 01/18/18 07:10 AM


I wish that with this thread I am not scaring my future right person lol


if you are he isn't!!!

I haven’t even started lol... he might just be. Seeing as I’m too complicated and nosey hahhaha

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Thu 01/18/18 07:11 AM
hey stu have you tried playing with the voice to text on the phone?

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Thu 01/18/18 07:11 AM
I am truly glad I am in the company of smart and sensitive people here.flowersflowersflowers for you guys

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Thu 01/18/18 07:12 AM



I wish that with this thread I am not scaring my future right person lol


if you are he isn't!!!

I haven’t even started lol... he might just be. Seeing as I’m too complicated and nosey hahhaha

and i repeat then he isn't the right onetongue2

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Thu 01/18/18 07:13 AM
Me too Sis flowers to you too

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Thu 01/18/18 07:13 AM
We can talk and talk about the right person for hours I guess lol but still will not find them in our own preferred time

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Thu 01/18/18 07:15 AM




I wish that with this thread I am not scaring my future right person lol


if you are he isn't!!!

I haven’t even started lol... he might just be. Seeing as I’m too complicated and nosey hahhaha

and i repeat then he isn't the right onetongue2

But I want him to be the one... tom cruise (the one) love

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Thu 01/18/18 07:16 AM
yep you stumble on them or vice versa.
the trick is to keep meeting peeps.
without building an insurmountable list of requirements.

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Thu 01/18/18 07:16 AM
When you guys find him pls point him in my direction ok lol

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Thu 01/18/18 07:17 AM





I wish that with this thread I am not scaring my future right person lol


if you are he isn't!!!

I haven’t even started lol... he might just be. Seeing as I’m too complicated and nosey hahhaha

and i repeat then he isn't the right onetongue2

But I want him to be the one... tom cruise (the one) love


i'll send tom the memobigsmile