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Topic: The right person
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Fri 01/19/18 10:47 PM

Hi sceptical ..

mr right .. often he exists in your imagination .. but reality and imagination are so very different .

I think men and women approach dating from quite different perspectives .. someone told me he joined a dating site to meet women and that is what he does .. he has no expectations other than meeting and enjoying a coffee together ., if there is no romantic interest he has just made a new friend .. he prefers not to chat too long before meeting as he felt this contributes to expectations and prejudgment .

many women on the other hand are much more cautious . They will only meet someone they have chatted with and feel that they know ., this often involves a tick list of requirements that must be met first .
Expectations are seldom met in the online world . . We build a picture in our minds of the "right person" but often this picture is flawed ...

As for 'nice" girls not making the first move .. this has nothing to do with ethics .. it has to do with beliefs and confidence level ... I would not hesitate to initiate contact with a man if I was attracted to him .

Feel the fear and do it away .. is a great book if you are reluctant to take chances .. usually it is fear that holds you back . .. whether that be fear of rejection .. or fear of how others will perceive you etc ...
Don't wait for him to find you ... be empowered and .actively find him :heart: waving

Blondeyflowers you are such a boost to womens’ confidence love I wish I could be half the woman you are. It might be my age or upbringing but it’s really hard for me to let go of the dream of my prince, the guy who would treat me like a princess You are so right and Eric too in the way that he’s not going to find me soon if I don’t help him, that’s why I joined dating sites. I have been in failed relationships and someway somehow I haven’t given up. It’s not to late to start with a different plan and approach I guess. I am going to be THE woman for this special man soon smitten I am so looking forward to meeting HIM. Excited to know who he is and where he’s from....thanks for the positive energy Blondeyflowers

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Fri 01/19/18 10:54 PM

"It's true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder." -Margaret Wolfe Hungerford

I agree we are as beautiful as we see ourselves but more so to the ones who believe how dear we are in their eyes.:thumbsup:

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Sun 01/21/18 03:00 AM
Your happiness will be the right persons happiness ... your smile makes him smile...your tears are like a knife to his heart smitten

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Mon 01/22/18 07:00 AM
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Mon 01/22/18 03:38 PM
Edited by andybroadbent on Mon 01/22/18 04:01 PM
I think you can't expect the other person to see you as perfect or the right straight away. We should always try to improve ourselves and make us better people.

Other than that, picking the right person is also very important.
I would recommend the following article: http://amanpov.com/what_should_i_look_for_in_a_man

Good luck!

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Mon 01/22/18 03:46 PM
We should love ourselves and get with someone, who loves us for ourselves!

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Mon 01/22/18 03:49 PM

I think you can't expect the other person to see you as perfect or the right away. We should always try to improve ourselves and make us better people.

Other than that picking the right person is very important.
I would recommend the following article: http://amanpov.com/what_should_i_look_for_in_a_man

Good luck!


Yes that is so true . Expecting something from someone is always a good recipe for hurt as we can only control ourselves and not others. Thanks for that article :thumbsup:

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Mon 01/22/18 03:50 PM

We should love ourselves and get with someone, who loves us for ourselves!

Yes love starts from within flowerforyou we cannot expect others to love us if we ourselves don’t flowers

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Mon 01/22/18 03:50 PM

We should love ourselves and get with someone, who loves us for ourselves!

Yes love starts from within flowerforyou we cannot expect others to love us if we ourselves don’t flowers

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Fri 01/26/18 01:28 AM
I just looked Angel

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Fri 01/26/18 05:39 AM

I just looked Angel

I do think you’re talking about angelhappiness who’s one of the kindest and real girl here in the forums :thumbsup:

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Fri 01/26/18 06:06 AM
see ss another mr rightbigsmile

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Fri 01/26/18 06:11 AM
He’s looking left Eric :laughing:

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Fri 01/26/18 06:11 AM

He’s looking left Eric :laughing:


:thumbsup: rofl

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Fri 01/26/18 06:15 AM
slaphead rofl

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Fri 01/26/18 06:18 AM
wavingwavingflowerforyou for you two

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Fri 01/26/18 06:19 AM

wavingwavingflowerforyou for you two


waving flowerforyou

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Fri 01/26/18 06:20 AM
waving flowers

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Tue 01/30/18 05:00 AM
if your heart tells you to greet him, go for it, he might be shy to start the convo,and you might be surprised of the outcome

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Tue 01/30/18 05:12 AM

if your heart tells you to greet him, go for it, he might be shy to start the convo,and you might be surprised of the outcome

Thanks... I shall look for my heart and guard it with my mind. Welcome to mingle

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