Oh I see... hhhmmm

you got it p!
try being less subtle in the things you do to let him know you are interested.
i say go find blondey's thread on it and keep it at the top of the page

Eric it’s what makes us different from each other It’s what makes each and everyone of us unique

Which of Blondey's thread?

I wish I could be more courageous and ask a guy if he likes me but I am just not that way....maybe sis is too?

I would like to thank you Eric for being brave and making us see a male point of view.

i don't remember the title p but it was how to be less subtle
or how to let him know you like him

yep we are all different ss that's why i poke so hard at da rulzs

they can't fit all of us

just find and use what is in your comfort zone ss

If for example I say hello first to a guy would that not mean I am kinda liberated and easy? What would the right person do? Well at least for you?

me? i'd definitely respond. how much or how far would depend on how attracted i was by what i saw, felt or knew about you.

I'm more apt to wait until he shows a little interest before I respond back. And it's a lot easier if I already know the guy for some time. I'm less likely to ask a guy I don't know well if he likes me or not.

Oh ok but most men pls admit will have that idea that well she’s an easy girl. Easy peasy

How much time is some time sis?

The rules are simple. The one you're with is the only one period. You don't lie, cheat in any form, and lift each other up when one is down. You listen to their problems, concerns and fears without judging or telling them their feeling is invalid. You listen and either give helpful advise, or you just hold them and let them know that together the two of you will figure it out together if you don't have any usable advise.

I want someone that likes some of things I do, but not necessarily all of them, but are open to trying it and in turn I would do the same. Of course being with someone that enjoys all the same things might sound good, but there isn't anything wrong with having some differences in things you like to do or opinions on certain topics. However, you have to keep that open mind and not tell the other person that their opinion is wrong, that leads to hurt feelings and arguments.

Now, I'm sure I haven't covered everything, but trying to type on a phone is a pita.. so I'll just leave it at that for now since I'm still trying to wake up..

And going back to the right person what are the dynamics and chemistry do you think happens? Would it be more physical? Emotional? Intellectual?

i think most peeps are that way p guys included.

no way ss not for just starting a conversation!!!!!

now if you opened with take me home and let's get to know each other...

That's always what I'm thinking they will think. I guess it's the way I was raised and what was programmed into my head.

"Nice girls don't ask guys out, they wait and get asked out"

But you know what Sis, I'm not a teenager anymore. I'm 55 and there comes a time when "waiting" gets really old. So maybe it's time to initiate instead of waiting.

Wow hello Stu what you said were all true for you and how the right person would be for you. Thanks for sharing. Good morning :

it's all 3 rolled up together ss and each person you meet the balance is different.


well said stu well said

Well that does makes sense Sis

As much time as it takes to feel comfortable, lol.