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Topic: The right person
scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:14 AM
I am a hopeless sceptical soul lol

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 01/18/18 06:16 AM
The right person would never need to chase the right person for them... don’t you think so Sis? Well in my romantic mind at least even in the fairy tales the chasing happens ss

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:16 AM
Uhm ok guys and girls are hit hard specially when they feel they are right for each other but just cannot be together IMHO

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 01/18/18 06:18 AM
no argument there ss. there are how many of us? and we all are looking that's an awful lot of misses to find just one.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:18 AM
The right person would never need to chase the right person for them... don’t you think so Sis? Well in my romantic mind at least even in the fairy tales the chasing happens ss Well yes I agree there are horses and fire breathing dragons chasing the fairy tale away and even then they all lived happily ever after lol. I guess it should just be the right fairy tale

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:21 AM
no argument there ss. there are how many of us? and we all are looking that's an awful lot of misses to find just one. There is quite a lot here in mingle land I do agree Eric... a lot of toads and Cinderella’s. gawd what’s happening to me lol

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Thu 01/18/18 06:23 AM
and you don't think it hits guys less hard do you? and if we do all the pursuing and asking how many times more rejection do you think we get to endure? I'm sure it hurts you just as much. And I'm talking about initially doing the pursuing. Then it becomes more equal. Actually it becomes more a process of getting to know each other. But I do see your point. It should be perfectly fine for a woman to pursue a man and let them know you're interested. It just doesn't feel right to me. And I'm not sure there are many men out there that want a woman to "pursue" them. Most have that innate Neanderthal part of them that wants to do the hunting and gathering. Grab her and drag her home to his cave....not the other way around!

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:23 AM
I do believe this is all due to the blue moon

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 01/18/18 06:24 AM
methinks you are beginning to see the light the misses are going to happen no matter what. the trick is not letting the misses get you to give up on finding what you seek

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:26 AM
Sometimes better things come when we don’t seek? Oh well

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Thu 01/18/18 06:26 AM
no argument there ss. there are how many of us? and we all are looking that's an awful lot of misses to find just one. There is quite a lot here in mingle land I do agree Eric... a lot of toads and Cinderella’s. gawd what’s happening to me lol I kissed a frog once Sis, he still ribbited afterwards I do believe the key thing is to meet face to face. Unless or until that happens, there is no way for sure to tell is any of us are the "right one" for each other.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:27 AM
Too many misses = too many heartaches

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 01/18/18 06:28 AM
and you don't think it hits guys less hard do you? and if we do all the pursuing and asking how many times more rejection do you think we get to endure? I'm sure it hurts you just as much. And I'm talking about initially doing the pursuing. Then it becomes more equal. Actually it becomes more a process of getting to know each other. But I do see your point. It should be perfectly fine for a woman to pursue a man and let them know you're interested. It just doesn't feel right to me. And I'm not sure there are many men out there that want a woman to "pursue" them. Most have that innate Neanderthal part of them that wants to do the hunting and gathering. Grab her and drag her home to his cave....not the other way around! i'll give you that p i offer this. you gurls can pursue without bruising the neanderthals ego. mostly by remembering most of the neanderthals don't get subtle well. sometimes you need a bigger stick like "when are you gonna ask me out"

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:28 AM
Sis ... the frog should be Kermit I think

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:30 AM
We should ask the guy out ? We will take the stick and do the smack? Well that’s easy to do in chat but scary in real life.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 01/18/18 06:30 AM
Too many misses = too many heartaches there it is. right there. the misses had good in them even if they were good. keep the good bits in mind not the bad.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:32 AM
We could type will you have coffee with me but actually doing it? Hhhmmm

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 01/18/18 06:32 AM
We should ask the guy out ? We will take the stick and do the smack? Well that’s easy to do in chat but scary in real life. that i not what i said at all i suggested finding out when he intended to ask you out

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 01/18/18 06:33 AM
Too many misses = too many heartaches there it is. right there. the misses had good in them even if they were good. keep the good bits in mind not the bad. Well yes not every toad is green and yes Kermit can always be in any toad

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Thu 01/18/18 06:33 AM
We should ask the guy out ? We will take the stick and do the smack? Well that’s easy to do in chat but scary in real life. No sis, we say to them, "Hey, when are you going to ask Me out"