Does LOVE really exist or should it comes with PLEASURE and MONEY? 99% woman turn down dated when guy mention that he is not rich. But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money. Actually they do have money, it's just not a wealthy one. Only average on what I usually know. But still, woman are often looking rich men because they believe in security yet time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship. Plus, they teach the non rich to do the same because this rich want a on and off Pleasure not LOVE. Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life? What do you think?

I am sure there are some 'golddiggers' who only look at 'wealth'

but I am not sure if that is most women. I do believe most women seek someone who is financially able to support himself, or having a plan to, at the least.

There are plenty of good women out there who will love you for who you are and not what you have, But they may not appear at your door. You might have to look for them :)

Next time give them taxi fair

Hey not every woman is interesred in money. Even though it didn't wirk out, Christie Brinkley married Billy Joel.
Anyway, every person wants something different.
Yes. There are women who equate money with security.
There are others who see and value a person for what they are. I hope you meet one who matches your interests and goals.
That being sai, the issue of money, job, does come into the picture as far as what meets both your values. In general, it's expected that a man will work. There are some households where the woman works, there are some where the woman stays home. That's something to work out between you both.
If you both work, hopefully you encourage each other to grow in yoyr endeavors and ut doesn't become a competition about who should matter more.
Also, some women might look for a man who matches their earnings. Sometimes men aren't always comfortable when the woman earns more and that can cause problems.
Good luck on your search

I am rich

(Jk, waits for the inbox to go into meltdown)

Your name is Richard? Is Joe your alias?

Your name is Richard? Is Joe your alias?

You mean Branson, Richard Branson of Virgin fame. Don't tell anyone please.

Don't worry. Yoyr secret is safe

Errr... why tell someone "I'm not rich."???
YOU make it a negative. So if you get negative response, it's your own doing.
How about just saying you have a job when asked or when it comes up. And let the girl know you want to take her on a date.
That will tell her you do have enough money to treat her.

99.9999 percent of ppl aren't rich, yet many of those DO date. So it is not a problem at all. You create it yourself.

Good point. By telling them "I'm not rich" you are basically projecting the attitude that you think woman are just interested in money, thus the negative response.

Agree on all these statements

Only 99%? I thought it would be much higher than that

Just kidding. Many women today are very independent and don't need riches from a man to be happy and live a wonderful life. Guys who flash their riches around are a big turn off to me. I am much more interested in the character and morals of man rather than what he has in his bank account.

These are just my opinions. Good luck

Try, "I'm not wealthy but I am very ambitious about my goals without compromising my compassion or ideals."

"I can lick my own eyebrows."

money? mehhh
i can do without new shoes if i am with my love.

i am buying new shoes because i am not with my love.
sounds very fair lol

I've never worn this pair of red shoes

They are heading for McDonald's..one last good meal.

Well, whenever I tell women I'm not rich, I just show them my penis.
"I may not be rich, but lookit this!"

Then they run away a few feet, trip over me, then get up and keep running.
(as a side, I always wear blue pants and call them loch ness)


Hell yeah love "should" come with pleasure and money.
Available at all walmarts, without a prescription or having to show i.d.
Plus kung fu grip and a side of fries.


Are 99% of women asking? Or is the guy(s) just telling?


That makes sense.
The majority of people on dating sites have a bunch of failed relationships and/or dating experiences.
Most people you date it will just not work out.
The majority of people you try to pick up or talk to or feel attraction towards just won't pan out.

If the odds are that it's going to fail no matter what, why not choose the one with money?


Other than that let's say your observation about women is true.
That 99%+ only want to date rich men.
What do you think is going to ultimately be easier:
- convincing all or a significant enough percentage of women to change their behavior?
- you change your behavior and get more money so women will find you attractive?