Topic: Why Do Women Run Away When You Say I Am Not Rich?
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Mon 03/27/17 02:49 PM


Does LOVE really exist or should it comes with PLEASURE and MONEY? 99% woman turn down dated when guy mention that he is not rich. But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money. Actually they do have money, it's just not a wealthy one. Only average on what I usually know. But still, woman are often looking rich men because they believe in security yet time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship. Plus, they teach the non rich to do the same because this rich want a on and off Pleasure not LOVE. Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life? What do you think?

Errr... why tell someone "I'm not rich."???
YOU make it a negative. So if you get negative response, it's your own doing.
How about just saying you have a job when asked or when it comes up. And let the girl know you want to take her on a date.
That will tell her you do have enough money to treat her.

99.9999 percent of ppl aren't rich, yet many of those DO date. So it is not a problem at all. You create it yourself.



very well said.

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Mon 03/27/17 03:21 PM

Does LOVE really exist or should it comes with PLEASURE and MONEY? 99% woman turn down dated when guy mention that he is not rich. But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money. Actually they do have money, it's just not a wealthy one. Only average on what I usually know. But still, woman are often looking rich men because they believe in security yet time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship. Plus, they teach the non rich to do the same because this rich want a on and off Pleasure not LOVE. Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life? What do you think?
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Lots of gold diggers out there unfortunately.

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Mon 03/27/17 03:29 PM

money? mehhh
i can do without new shoes if i am with my love.


Foot massage anybody?

bigsmile

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Mon 03/27/17 04:03 PM

Does LOVE really exist or should it comes with PLEASURE and MONEY? 99% woman turn down dated when guy mention that he is not rich. But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money. Actually they do have money, it's just not a wealthy one. Only average on what I usually know. But still, woman are often looking rich men because they believe in security yet time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship. Plus, they teach the non rich to do the same because this rich want a on and off Pleasure not LOVE. Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life? What do you think?


Because it sounds like you are setting them up to pick up the tab.. that's why

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Mon 03/27/17 04:11 PM

Try, "I'm not wealthy but I am very ambitious about my goals without compromising my compassion or ideals."

"I can lick my own eyebrows."

laugh laugh laugh

drinker

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Mon 03/27/17 04:55 PM

There are plenty of good women out there who will love you for who you are and not what you have, But they may not appear at your door. You might have to look for them :)
Maybe send a cab so they can meet you somewhere for a free dinner too lol

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Tue 03/28/17 06:58 PM
Many good women do not care if you are rich or not. In my opinion the time and effort you put in, is priceless. That's where I run into alot of my dating issues. The men dont tend to show much effort because I always put in 100%. so they feel they don't have to. ugh

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Tue 03/28/17 07:42 PM
I told my wife that I don't believe in 50-50 I told her that I'm greedy. If she will put in a 100% that I will give her a 110%

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Tue 03/28/17 10:17 PM
thats pretty bad,though you cant blame most girls,how can a guy be broke all the time

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Tue 03/28/17 11:09 PM

Topic: Why Do Women Run Away When You Say I Am Not Rich?


Then don't say you are not rich. Don't even mention it. Women won't usually ask if you are rich or not... they would know by the car you are driving. biggrin

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Tue 03/28/17 11:27 PM
Love is real. You see it when your EX loves to take all your money!!!

laugh




So never say you are rich, just say you have sufficient for you needs and hers...

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Wed 03/29/17 12:40 AM


Topic: Why Do Women Run Away When You Say I Am Not Rich?


Then don't say you are not rich. Don't even mention it. Women won't usually ask if you are rich or not... they would know by the car you are driving. biggrin


Last time I was dating a guy, who said he doesn't have a car. I almost gave up on him... But then he said he can drop me home on his helicopter.

But if seriously, there is special name for people who give their "love" for money. Do you really want a woman like this or rather will wait for someone who will accept you for yourself?

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Wed 03/29/17 01:15 AM
haha

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Wed 03/29/17 02:28 AM
Yes u r right

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Thu 03/30/17 08:16 AM
Exactly dear

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Thu 03/30/17 10:09 AM
Why Do Women Run Away When You Say I Am Not Rich?


Did you brush your teeth before you said it? Rich or not, women don't like stank-breath...

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Thu 03/30/17 10:57 AM
That's not a conversation starter to begin with. I think it's in poor
tasted to discuss finances on dates anyway. If you are weeding out the
"GOLD DIGGERS" Be grateful. A true love won't care if you ride the bus
or drive a Lexus. Be yourself. Either she will be into you or not!

But don't tell someone your not rich. That's a bad idea in any
dating or introduction situation. Remember first impressions
are lasting. Put your yourself out there in a positive light!!

Good luck:smile:

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Thu 03/30/17 01:20 PM

Does LOVE really exist

Yes

or should

Careful here comes the shoulds; put on your BD esfders on

it comes with PLEASURE

Yea sometimes sometimes not

and MONEY?
Again sometimes and sometimes not; with whinner's and those who want to blame their failure on others usually if there I'd money it melts away.


99% woman

Wow you have actually known 99% of the women? I'm aweed and that is not easy.

turn down dated

Sorry I admit I turn down "dated"; kind of sounds too much like spoiled meat

when guy

"Guy" is that a guy, a little guy, a good guy, or bad guy; generally I am looking for a man not just any guy


mention that he is not rich.

As others have mentioned talking money with casual acquaintances is really tacky and sends me running because I don't need someone obsessed about money; his or mine.


But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money.

Yea he may have money but clearly if he is worrying about it on a date he must be poor at managing his budget

Actually they do have money,

Then why you pleading poverty; or is deceat a "guy" well more specifically your thing?


it's just not a wealthy one.

Well that's the majority I know and I am betting you know. Probably just spouting classest rhetoric to cover the other inaccuracies


Only average on what I usually know.

Again vast experience I am sure.


But still, woman are often looking rich men

I'm not so the theroychas a flaw


because they believe in security


Hate to break it to you women have many reasons to seek a man besides security. Especially when Marriage rarely results in any great wealth or security for women.

time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship.

And how many wealthy couples do you know to come to that conclusion? The ones I have known have been married decades and happily.

Plus, they teach the non rich

They do? Where? You learn what you choose.

to do the same because this rich want a on and off not LOVE.

And what rich person told you anything?


Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life?

So jaded by negativity.

What do you think?

Clearly the op is a lot of bunk.
Is there any cheese served with th this whine?

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 03/30/17 01:20 PM

Does LOVE really exist

Yes

or should

Careful here comes the shoulds; put on your BD esfders on

it comes with PLEASURE

Yea sometimes sometimes not

and MONEY?
Again sometimes and sometimes not; with whinner's and those who want to blame their failure on others usually if there I'd money it melts away.


99% woman

Wow you have actually known 99% of the women? I'm aweed and that is not easy.

turn down dated

Sorry I admit I turn down "dated"; kind of sounds too much like spoiled meat

when guy

"Guy" is that a guy, a little guy, a good guy, or bad guy; generally I am looking for a man not just any guy


mention that he is not rich.

As others have mentioned talking money with casual acquaintances is really tacky and sends me running because I don't need someone obsessed about money; his or mine.


But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money.

Yea he may have money but clearly if he is worrying about it on a date he must be poor at managing his budget

Actually they do have money,

Then why you pleading poverty; or is deceat a "guy" well more specifically your thing?


it's just not a wealthy one.

Well that's the majority I know and I am betting you know. Probably just spouting classest rhetoric to cover the other inaccuracies


Only average on what I usually know.

Again vast experience I am sure.


But still, woman are often looking rich men

I'm not so the theroychas a flaw


because they believe in security


Hate to break it to you women have many reasons to seek a man besides security. Especially when Marriage rarely results in any great wealth or security for women.

time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship.

And how many wealthy couples do you know to come to that conclusion? The ones I have known have been married decades and happily.

Plus, they teach the non rich

They do? Where? You learn what you choose.

to do the same because this rich want a on and off not LOVE.

And what rich person told you anything?


Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life?

So jaded by negativity.

What do you think?

Clearly the op is a lot of bunk.
Is there any cheese served with th this whine?

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Thu 03/30/17 01:56 PM

Does LOVE really exist or should it comes with PLEASURE and MONEY? 99% woman turn down dated when guy mention that he is not rich. But that does not mean that they(guys) have no money. Actually they do have money, it's just not a wealthy one. Only average on what I usually know. But still, woman are often looking rich men because they believe in security yet time fall out when most rich are not honest in relationship. Plus, they teach the non rich to do the same because this rich want a on and off Pleasure not LOVE. Is LOVE for real or just like a myth, risking in real life? What do you think?



your not rich forget about u then ... I want rich! laugh I have been looking for Rich for awhile now ...know one seems to know where he is ...
oh wait I forgot that was my friends husband Rich ... hahahahaha
my bad laugh

as others have said their are lots of gold diggers on sites to scam ... and also men to scam ... when you have love ...you know how that makes you feel ... money or not ... good luck drinker