I meet this awesome girl. we talk on the phone and when we are together we flirt like crazy. u know touch each others arm and hair u know flirtin. i have never met anyone like her we like the same movies the same sports we were both at one time athletic. but anyways the other day we go for a drive and we are talking and stuff and u know touching each others arm and stuff grabben hands. but anyways i thought ok this is the best time to say 'i like u and wanna go out with u' but she says oh we are going to be the best of friends. so i say ok but am hurt. waaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!! lol so what is going on? should I have not said anything? was it wrong? and what now?

who knows. You might have got stuck in the friend zone. And then again, she may not want to move too fast. If you like her a lot, give it some time to develop. If a long time goes by and you're still just friends, you may want to just ask her if being more than friends is a possibility or not.

oooo sounds like you're being chucked in the friends box.
not good.
she flirted with you so, i dont see how she couldnt LIKE you.
maybe she is waiting for a kiss?

It's hard to tell. You guys seemed to have the chemistry happening, but that might be all it was – hormones. I would approach here again when the physical attraction is not in the foreground and tell her how you feel. Maybe she felt cornered and wasn’t sure how to handle it. Maybe she had time to think about it. Anyhow you seem to enjoy each other, so why just not keep going and see where it leads anyway. You can’t force it neither can she.

She just want a play friend...

yea do what they said.. or just show up on her doorstep but arse naked.. lol

o wait.. too many laws against that now a days..

definately dont rush things..

actions speak louder then words most of the time.. see how far a kiss gets you the next time all the flirting is going on..

what?--**scratching self butt**

no one knows but her
maybe she just wants to be friends, maybe she wants to take it slow and work up to a relationship

Someone that is very special in my life right now said...

"Friends first, then let it breathe...."

It seems to be working for us. Take your time but don't shut out other opportunities.

M

My guess is that you are a nice self esteem boost for her but she doesn't like you as more than a friend or a "buddy"

Could be way off, but that is my opinion.

How many times have you been out with her...is this the first?

If the first meeting? Where's the "Fire"? Maybe she is simply a realist and wants to get to know you and you her before launching into "A THING"! just a thought

See her a few more times, then begin speculating.

If your already talking...ask her if there is a chance to move forward...truth may hurt, but at least you will have an answer. Why dance around it and keep wondering...it just makes things worse.

If you want the honest route, just talk to her and ask her where its leading too. Tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't feel the same way, cut your losses and move on.


Or

The dishonest way...

If shes playing a game, just act indifferent. Act like you don't care either way about anything.

First rule. Women want what they cant have. If they think they cant obtain you, then they will fight for you for no apparent reason.

nailed it mimx.

The best way to win at the game is to not play at all.

thank you every one for your advice.

man you messed up saying ok. i wish. not to give my advice out in the open about this if you want you can email me. and it wont happen another time

Maybe you need to grow some balls and take an action that will tell her what you think about her - that you want her as something more than a friend.

I don't mean anything bad, I mean TALK to her in a serious way.

It is possible she is just teasing you for the heck of it - there are women players out there too who mess with guys

hmm, flirting and best friends? She wants something but it may not be a relationship..Besides i wana go out with you has no origanality? Not an interesting invite,and don't risk too much right now. Find out her true motives before you dive into a relationship. Nomatter how it seems your connecting, it takes more than just flirting and common interests. My two cents....

Maybe she's just a tactile girl who doesn't want to ruin the friendship by committing any further...there's nothing wrong with being flirtatious with your friends. On the other hand she may see you as the safe option, the fall back guy in which case you are better off keeping your distance and finding some-one else

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maybe SHE is afraid YOU re not interested and being your friend is better than not seeing you at all?? go for it .. ask her
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