if anyone finds the perfect guy, let me know! lol. the perfect guy doesn't exist! we are all human and we all have our flaws!

try being the perfect woman and you will find the perfect guy

i do not want someone perfect-- lived with a perfectionist
perfer to go through life with someone who makes mistakes like me and we can learn from them and from each other.

Perfection is boring anyway.

I prefer to have "little surprises everywhere, but nothing dangerous"... to sorta quote Willy Wonka.

I'm with Joyce....

I would never want anyone who is "perfect", to me that sounds toooo boring. I want to LIVE and LOVE life now, that's for sure.

The perfect guy..

how boring...

the man I found isn't perfect but he suits me fine

New here but thought I'd toss a few words in. Married a guy who was perfect for me. Stuck together for 25 years until he died. He'd been married before and they were not perfect for each other. The big thing is DON'T SETTLE. It might take time to find the guy that will not only love the mother but embrace the child (ren). We all have to "grow into" our relationships. Sometimes what seems perfect at first fizzles out and what seems like a nice friendship grows into more.
I know some pretty great guys who have dated single moms and adopted their kids. They took the time to learn to be a couple within a family.
Instead of focusing on whether they would want you with your child, maybe focus on whether you like them, what you like about them, etc. They'll feel that and look at you through the glass half full rather than half empty.

"perfect guy"..................
Ya'll are sure beating that word perfect up.

Perfect is a perception, there is no scale out here to measure who is perfect and who is not. This is not a baseball game and we are not pitchers throwing a ball.

perfect in the term used here is the man/women that just fits your lifestyle and you can grow old together and be happy. of coarse there will be ups and downs but he/she will be standing at you side regaurdless.

Nothing in the universe is PERFECT.
One of the true TESTS of LOVE, is over looking a person's IMPERFECTIONS. Loving what is real, not a dream.

I don't want to find the perfect guy because I'm not perfect. Imagine how boring life would be if everyone was the same. That would be perfection in some points of views.

Instead I hope you find the guy that will grow with you, accept you for who you are, have enough differences to make life interesting yet have enough likes to make life rewarding......Someone to grow old with, to be able to sit quietly with, to laugh with, to cry with....Now that would be the perfect guy.

And I thought I was PERFECT




I am Perfect at being not perfect

If everyone was perfect

WE than

1) Can have sex on the first date
2) know what we are getting involved in
3) not expect anything different
4) no mind games

if thats the case Mike...maybe i do want perfect!!

just kidding

I'm finding this all so amusing. Keep going. I'm understanding more and more why I'm single. And that's a good thing! I am 42, not married and no kids. I am educated. I have been at my employment for 15 hard years and worked my way to the top. I live in the middle of nowhere where there are no singles. I date a lot. I find it hard to find quality singles that are responsible and well planned and organized. I gave up years ago on finding someone. It has been amusing finding "perfect" much less "average" or "ok" or "tolerable". All I see is irresponsible and delusional. I read through this and to me its been basically a largely dilusional thread. I demand a perfect man. I demand a perfect man with a job. I demand a perfect man with a job that will love me forever. I demand a perfect man with a job that will love me forever and love my kids and support them forever. I demand a prefect man. Whose tall, dark, and handsome and rich and who is between the ages of 21 to 27 and lives within 20 miles of me that will love me forever and love my kids and support them forever and treat me like a princess and take me for long walks on the beach and build me a castle with a white picket fence and never gets angry or upset with the bad decisions I've made in my life because I am not responsible for my actions, or misgivings and have the right to blame everyone else for my actions because I am above the law, and not acountable for my actions and I make the rules and determine my own morality and if you don't like it I don't care because I'm the queen of the trailer park and you should bow to me! That's what I'm hearing.

Not sure about this one but, I think its hard for a man to find a woemn to date when he has a kid,,, But I would date a women with kids

Would you like fries with that o queen? (bows gracefully)

New here but thought i would say something...If the guy already has kids or the girl already has kids it should not matter. When you find someone that loves you for who you really are...then they will not only accept the fact that you already brought beautifil children into this world...but they will love those children as well. Sure, love is hard to find...sometimes it seems like it is impossible. But when you do find it, they will not only make the world for you...but for your kids as well. In my eyes, if I ever found a girl who already had kids and I LOVED her...then I would do as much for the kids as I would for that girl...to help prove my love!

Perfection is a perception. Who may be perfect for you is not perfect for another. I have the "perfect" man. Just for me however. I am perfect "for" him.

I have 9 children so please do not believe that a man won't date you because of children. Men I have dated have used their relationship with my children to get to me. Sometimes they wanted me and not the kids. There has to be a balance and equality for all of us. It's not easy, but it can happen.

You've just got to keep searching.

The reality is that only real men date ladies with children. I think that the only set back would be if the woman was looking to use a man to get things. Most women are not about all that and are on the up and up . I date women with kids and its fine.

My question is why so many women start their ad off with "my children are my world and no one can change that..." There are many levels of love. A true man will understand the obligations of a single mom. Seeing that in an ad is a big turn off for me though. It makes me feel as though I would have no importance in their life. I can be wrong about that.