i agree gams..makes perfect sense..lol..my only point was a pragmatic one...she needs to get their attention and they tend to be a bit chicken lol

i luv kids i have a 16 yr old son myself and if a woman doesnt want to be with me because of my son well then she just missed out on two great guys with one rejection..her loss

see your issue is your not looking in the right places. I too am a single mom, I know what you're going through, but trust me if a guy balks cause you have kids you wouldn't want to be with him anyway, so that being said. They're are a ton of guys out there that are cool and even great about you having children, the hard part is finding the particular cave they all hide in and falling in love. My guy (we're getting married in 7 days!) crawled outta that cave and found me, which made my search a heck of alot easier But you'll find him, take a deep breath, and just enjoy your children, let him come to you

what cave was he in

Congrats!!! I was dating a guy for about a year that I thought was great and suddenly said that my daughter needed him more than he felt like I did. I guess it is bad to be independent in his eyes.

See he escaped from the cave, and was sworn to secrecy regarding it's location I wish I could mapquest it for you girl, but that's beyone me

maybe that is my problem i am an independent person and i dont like to be controlled but what else can single moms do

well that really sux

well before you tell the guy you have kiddos tie him down,lol

I honestly believe there are men who are accepting of my daughter and I. Just haven't found him. Hardest part is I feel like I am repeating my mother's history

yes but there are single men with children , and single woman with children , both lookin for a partner its tuff with blended families but it does work.!!

there is nothing wrong with being independent, in fact most guys like that. But they have to feel like you need them too. I find just reassuring my man for less than 5 minutes per day how proud I am of him, and how glad I am that he is in my life, makes the rest of the day so much easier, I can go out shopping, he stays home and does laundry No seriously though, you'll both find someone who appreciates you and your children for who you are

The right guy is out there for you, Sweetheart. I guarantee it. I took care of a little girl that wasn't mine for 5 years. I don't like to talk about it much, cuz I don't get to see the little girl, but... I just know there's guys out there that will love you no matter how many kids you have. I promise! Have faith!

Like Seahawks! Hiya friend!

if a girl isn't independant and doesn't have her own views i'm not interested. on the other hand i don't like a girl who tries to tell me what my views are either..but that's pretty rare.

If I was interested in a lady and she had kids, I would still want to get to know her.

Personally I would date a man with kids. There are women out there that won't though. So it is a two way street.

thats not true, i dated several men and i have 2 kids

hiya rosey.!!!!!!!

that it is, I'm glad you see that Dragon... alot of girls don't, but like seahawks said, blending families can be tough at first, but it can also be so beneficial for ALL involved...