{{{Sage}}}

Hate to come back to the old cliche, but you know she is with you.

Share a fun Gwen story with us?

M

I still & always will miss my little one
not a day goes by that I don't think of her
some sad thoughts but also how wonderfully special she was

{{{Kater}}}

For once I am without words....

M

((((Sage)))) my heart feels that sadness for my son, gone now 6 years. We never forget, but the hurt does ease up, then when you hear something as simple as a familiar song that hurt comes flooding back (but not as intense) does that make any sense????
We just keep going on............

Awwwwww Sage Hugs friend!

Yes I know what you mean.
Marvin's and my songs (there were two) sometimes make
me cry. Sometimes they make me happy too.
Its hard to be the one left behind from death sometimes.
Been fouteen years for me.
Sometimes it seems like it was just yesterday.
This time of year is allways hard for me without Him and
my Mom. They are allways in our hearts...

(((( Don ))))

In your soul she lives in your heart she sings,,, Oh my sweet friend Hugs to you

My grandpa died on January 1, 1984, and he was the only person who cared about me when I was growing up. I wouldn't have survived growing up if it weren't for him. Every year as Christmas approaches I feel the sadness start to close in on me, and I still miss him so much. He was an incredible man.

Michele reread who wrote what you thought I said..look at who wrote it


(((((((((((Jessie))))))))))))I know you will always hold her in your heart. At least we have pics of her that you can always look at.

my twins that i lost 2 weeks apart....they will be in my heart forever

I know just what you mean...

Her eyes,
held me captive,
for years.

They reflected to me,
images of unborn lives.
They showed me,
myself,
As a whole.

I shall never look into
another`s,
the same.

For fear they will show me,
as I truly am...

Every Memorial day rips me apart... my grandfather, and childhood best friend, died 17 years ago this past May... and it alway hits me as if it just happened on his birth day- Sept 9th and on May 30 his death date.... and anytime "GRANDPA" by the Judds is playing.

<<-- newg = gwen

a baby

ya..........Peaceful easy feeling.......that song reminds me of my friend leonard who was killed by being hit by a 16 yr old kid......in a car........

it wasnt the kid's fault......leonard was a crazy old musician.....a bit ADD i think but what a heart and what a musician.........sad.......but he left a mark on everyone!!!! I will miss our jam sessions!

you made me think about Hannah... now I'm gonna be pining for her for the next couple hours...

Oh well.

I lost my dear friend Kathryn to suicide in early 2005.
She was 15.
Everytime I hear "Beautiful" by Christina Aguilera, I can still see her standing on the stage singing it.

God Bless and Rest In Peace My Angel.

(((((((((((((Don)))))))))))))


I feel your pain mine is my Dad will be 4 years Jan and the other is my granny has bee 25 years and there are still times it hits and I sit and cry.

We no longer can touch or feel them but they will live on in our hearts forever.

When I lost Dottie our song sung by George Strait, Keeper of the Stars really got to me where if I hear it now I just have to turn it off and I have always thought it was a beautiful song.

Memories

Hair of brown with eyes so blue,
You're gone so long, yet I still miss you.
We laughed together and we cried,
I truly loved you, it can't be denied.
You brought joy to my life when you were near.
Now only memories get me through the years.

We were lovers and you were my friend.
I promised to love you until the end,
But for our feelings the time wasn't right.
For you, in my heart, there's still a little light.
I think about you each night with love
And for having known you, I thank God above!

{{{Sage}}}
I lost my hubby of 23 yrs in 2003 and there is never a day goes by that I don't feel like crying because I miss him so much. He was a part of my heart that can never be replaced...even though our time together is over, I am so happy and thankful that we had that time to make all those memories together...memories that always keep him alive in my heart.

Here's a flower for everyone who has lost, or let slip by, that one and only. Keep them in your hearts, just remember there is room for other people as well. I left someone two years ago this month. I am still very good friends with him, in fact I consider him to be my best friend. But there are nights, usually when I'm by myself and haven't even had a fling in awhile much less some real affection, that I remember how things were when we were together and things were good. It hurts, damn it hurts bad, but people have to move on. Sometime it helps, that we are still friends, other times it makes things harder than if we had just parted or if he had died.
I may not have lost someone forever, but loss is still hard.

There is some good advice here. Unfortunately there is so much loss out there. I lost my fiance almost 2 years ago in a car accident. Since Matt was taken from me it has been hard to go on thats for sure. One of the hardest things is that it was my fault. I caused the accident by falling asleep while driving home. I spent several months in and out of the hospital for my injuries. Matt died at the scene. I did not even get to go to his funeral and say my goodbyes. I carry the guilt with me all the time. I just wish I could tell him the I am so sorry and wish I could change what happened. I know that is impossible. I just wish I could get rid of the guilt so I can deal with Matt not being here. Thank you for listening.