please I seriously needa know whart ya'all think about this? esp for those whose been through it?

To me it would not matter , if my ex is with another person gay or not it would be time to move on. Best wishes to you.

that's a very very good reply. I wish I could think like that -.-

I've never been through it but i did once date a girl whos ex turned out to be gay...& then she met me with my high sex drive and....

yeeees you have drifted waaay of course dear!

I've heard about women who had bad relationships, and end up so,but I can't judge them or nothing,but it just seems that they've just given up on men,that's as about far as I can rap my mind around it,that chit's to deep for me!!

Too many bad relations can make a girl think there's no decent guy around.So they end up with their kind.

Many times it is due to they were always that way. Just never went there due to what either family/friends would think.

Believe it or not many do not come out in the open for those reasons..

Does it really matter which way they choose to go with after?

No one really knows but that person.

We can speculate all we want too and will never know the truth.

Maybe it is cause they finally found someone that understands them, maybe it is something they have always wanted to try and found the right person that will not judge them..

Regardless of the reason unless you ask that person you will never know why they switched.

I'd like to think that after me, no other man could match up.....but yah, pretty much what TG3333 said.

I think I could be okay with one of my exes "going gay" after breaking up (or breaking up because they determined they were "going gay") as long as I didn't feel like I was being toyed with while we were in the relationship. As long as I wasn't "the last hurrah", or the guy she picked just to make sure she didn't like any kind of guy/male.
She can not like my gender all she wants (after all, I like women, so I couldn't really blame her, could I?), but if she doesn't like me individually just because she isn't physically attracted to men generally, that seems kind of shallow. There should still be the possibility of us being friends.

Though it would be even weirder to see her with her new beau (belle?) if we met on the street or went out as a group.

My gay cousin only dated women, he was a guy.
Married a good friend of mine.
After they divorced he realized he was gay.

He would say, "Why did no one tell me?"
We are all like, "We thought you knew."
It was so obvious.
But he seriously was unaware, though probably
wondered since childhood.

But it was a bad thing then, so twas never
brought up.
He died of AIDS in 1990.

this,, if we werent right together,, Im not worried about who else is,,,

at the end of the day, we choose an individual,, society puts too much pressure on labeling the gender of who we choose at different times in our lives

once they chose you and now they choose someone else,, the gender is really not relevant,,,

It means either your ex was confused while with you or that you confused the hell out of your ex.

lol

I think its more that you were two incompatible humans

and they found someone they believe is more compatible

BAN SEXUAL PREFERENCE LABELS, ITS NOT IN STONE, WE LIKE WHO WE LIKE WHEN WE LIKE THEM

who cares?? they're ex's...

liberals answer to everything...ban it...

probably were gay from the get go.

hope I never have to find out.

after I'm done with them..
.. its straight, to the nunnery for them....
.. because once you've had PhD..
... no other mortal being....ohh. Who am I kidding.... even the big guy upstairs . can't.. satisfy the way PhD can..lmao...jk..