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Oh I WILL....you won't last a day over 88.
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Oh I WILL....you won't last a day over 88.
Ohhh the flesh is weak on this one... 
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Actually it's the least complicated route...I lay my cards on the table either you deal or gtfo.....how easy is that..... Absolutely :) At last someone gets it.....I'm control of my future and definitely my body and who gets access to it.... 
Never loose that mindset there :). Your body is a temple, don't let people ruin it or make it any less of value. Save it for the one that deserves it. What a smart man.... 
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The flesh is STRONG depending on where you're looking.
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The flesh is STRONG depending on where you're looking.
Damn you are good...I can play with you all day but I have to go to work.... 
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Gotta limp that way myself.
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Have a good day then....I'm off to my annoying job...
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So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply...... That's fair..... 
Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break.... Have fun Minglers...... 
A question Tanzy, So for a guy to last 90 days, he would most likely have to really like you and see and feel a special chemistry as well as you feeling it too right? So you put the brakes on when you get to each light? Which is fine. Its your choice. But would it be ok, if a Man had a 90 day rule on spending money to take you out for at least 10 dates within 90 days? and No I'm not cheap, just making a point, though it may take 90 days to do so...
Summer time sadness, Now I remember why i hate rules My bad I work for a living.....first off are you kidding me....isn't part of dating to get to know someone if he doesn't want to do that I'm cool.....neeeeeext Easiest thing in my life is getting a man.. Well yes, its kinda of a joke and kinda not. Its cool if you have a timeline, but how does his relationship naturally come about with a rule like yours. So I was posing the question as this...He likes you, You like him. You tell him you have a 90 day rule. and he has one as well. So now what hun....Green light, Red light, green light, red light. Oh what joy... Yep, Im sure you can get em, but how about keep em? Your not the only one who can get what ya like sister...Enjoy! 
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if youre trying to get to know someone it should take as little or as long as it takes. when it feels right is when sex should take place not because you have a 90 day rule. if its strictly sex then why are you even bothering with the rule? technically you could screwing a guy every day depending on the day that you met him in reference to the 90 days. if you meet 4 different guys 4 days apart you could be screwing a different guy every 4 days if you met the next guys a day after the last etc.. im not trying to insult you. im just trying to show you the flaw in your 90 day rule. its a bogus rule if its meant to show you are dignified. |
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No matter your perception it's my rule and I'm sticking to it....
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So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply...... That's fair.....
Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break.... Have fun Minglers......
being that this is a personal choice.. you are not wrong.. for YOU.. however that doesn't mean it applies to everyone.. we all make our choices according to our own moral compasses.. personally.. I look at each encounter on it's own merits.. some relationships excel faster than others while some never make it to first base.. a lot of it has to do with chemistry of course... and personality.. that said.. there are ALWAYS exceptions to EVERY rule.. and perhaps if you're TOO set in your ways.. you may miss out on an aMAZing adventure.. IMO, being open to possibilities, works best |
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Tanzy14
good luck dear 
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if youre trying to get to know someone it should take as little or as long as it takes. when it feels right is when sex should take place not because you have a 90 day rule. if its strictly sex then why are you even bothering with the rule? technically you could screwing a guy every day depending on the day that you met him in reference to the 90 days. if you meet 4 different guys 4 days apart you could be screwing a different guy every 4 days if you met the next guys a day after the last etc.. im not trying to insult you. im just trying to show you the flaw in your 90 day rule. its a bogus rule if its meant to show you are dignified. Don't think she specifically tells them 90 days right off the bat. Think that's more of a sub conscious thought or a countdown in her head so to speak. To pace herself and keep from just jumping in bed with him, then he leaves shortly after. To test what he seeks, if it's physical or truly her that he seeks. |
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It's quite difficult to get me into bed. So if a guy manages to, it means I must like him a lot. A whole lot.
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if youre trying to get to know someone it should take as little or as long as it takes. when it feels right is when sex should take place not because you have a 90 day rule. This is more along with my way of thinking. There is a timeframe in mind but it is flexible depending on the person. 90 days is a long time to wait for what could potentially be bad sex. |
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!   
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates a "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!.... 
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS IS WISDOM!! All you men out thrre read this, and remember it. You may avoid the feeling of total emasculation. Thank you, Leigh.
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates a "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!....
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS IS WISDOM!! All you men out thrre read this, and remember it. You may avoid the feeling of total emasculation. Thank you, Leigh.
 You're welcome (((((( Pancho ))))))
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The flesh is STRONG depending on where you're looking.
Damn you are good...I can play with you all day but I have to go to work....
...and I will break you in 88 |
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates a "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!....
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS IS WISDOM!! All you men out thrre read this, and remember it. You may avoid the feeling of total emasculation. Thank you, Leigh.
Definitely! Always a pleasure to read and learn from her articulate perspective. |
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Sorry....I am only into chicks with an 89 day rule.
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