Topic: 90 Day Rule
panchovanilla's photo
Tue 06/17/14 06:49 PM
My ex had a 24 month rule.
I lasted 23.
BUT I'M NOT BITTER......much.
grumble rofl grumble

0ldhag's photo
Tue 06/17/14 06:53 PM
^^^^^^

I hope she didn't withhold the cherry?????????

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Tue 06/17/14 06:55 PM

My ex had a 24 month rule.
I lasted 23.
BUT I'M NOT BITTER......much.
grumble rofl grumble


Lol wow did heads roll....flowers

smartwithsparks's photo
Tue 06/17/14 07:06 PM



If I Cant Have Cake..

I Wont Consider The Date...lol

smartwithsparks's photo
Tue 06/17/14 07:07 PM



We are in 2014 we call it goods........goodies...cookies....ice cream......all that.....stay calm...rofl



No Cake????:banana:


Too much cake can clog the arteries (which in turn can addle the brain), it can also cause unsightly cellulite, AND....it can lead to type 2 diabetes...:wink:

Good morning SmartSpark!flowerforyou love :banana: smooched



Hi,,Leigh...
Hope You Had A Great Day

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Tue 06/17/14 08:05 PM
Mmmmm cake.......drool

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 06/17/14 09:43 PM

^^^^^^

I hope she didn't withhold the cherry?????????

She would have just wanted it back anyway.:wink: laugh

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 06/18/14 03:30 AM
I have no rules. I don't even follow the usual one's, when it comes to dating. Just want to enjoy the date without having expectations.

HeadnHeart's photo
Wed 06/18/14 04:48 AM

So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply......

That's fair.....flowers

Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break....

Have fun Minglers......smitten


A question Tanzy,

So for a guy to last 90 days, he would most likely have to really like you and see and feel a special chemistry as well as you feeling it too right? So you put the brakes on when you get to each light? Which is fine. Its your choice. But would it be ok, if a Man had a 90 day rule on spending money to take you out for at least 10 dates within 90 days? and No I'm not cheap, just making a point, though it may take 90 days to do so...bigsmile

Summer time sadness, Now I remember why i hate rules

HeadnHeart's photo
Wed 06/18/14 06:31 AM


So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply......

That's fair.....flowers

Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break....

Have fun Minglers......smitten


A question Tanzy,

So for a guy to last 90 days, he would most likely have to really like you and see and feel a special chemistry as well as you feeling it too right? So you put the brakes on when you get to each light? Which is fine. Its your choice. But would it be ok, if a Man had a 90 day rule on spending money to take you out for at least 10 dates within 90 days? and No I'm not cheap, just making a point, though it may take 90 days to do so...bigsmile

Summer time sadness, Now I remember why i hate rules



Oh come on, indulge me? not even any smartazz comments?

playingindirt's photo
Wed 06/18/14 08:36 AM
im sorry but i think thats ridiculous

yall talk about how the art of courting seems to have been lost. it takes time to get to know people. its very simple. dont rush it.

only people make rules like that when they havent got the good common sense to know when the time is right.

you dont have the self control to wait until you know the time is right that you have to actually have rules like that?

replace them rules with some self respect and respect for others and add the love for life.

yall are making your lives complicated.

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Wed 06/18/14 09:03 AM
Actually it's the least complicated route...I lay my cards on the table either you deal or gtfo.....how easy is that.....

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Wed 06/18/14 09:06 AM
No your not wrong, I agree men should have enough internal restrant and there is nothing wrong with waiting 90 days. I believe in holding a women in high regard and respect, as the queen that she is. I believe and know that it is a two way street and God is and should be the only one held higher then the women or Man. Soooo Good for you.

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/18/14 09:08 AM

Actually it's the least complicated route...I lay my cards on the table either you deal or gtfo.....how easy is that.....


Absolutely :)

playingindirt's photo
Wed 06/18/14 09:13 AM
Tanzy14

sounds more like an ultimatum to me. im just saying when youre taking things slow there shouldnt be a need to that rule hun.

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Wed 06/18/14 09:14 AM


Actually it's the least complicated route...I lay my cards on the table either you deal or gtfo.....how easy is that.....


Absolutely :)



At last someone gets it.....I'm control of my future and definitely my body and who gets access to it....drool

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Wed 06/18/14 09:15 AM

Tanzy14

sounds more like an ultimatum to me. im just saying when youre taking things slow there shouldnt be a need to that rule hun.


I know but not every man gets that so they have to be told....I don't want someone to get misled.....

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/18/14 09:19 AM



Actually it's the least complicated route...I lay my cards on the table either you deal or gtfo.....how easy is that.....


Absolutely :)



At last someone gets it.....I'm control of my future and definitely my body and who gets access to it....drool


Never loose that mindset there :). Your body is a temple, don't let people ruin it or make it any less of value. Save it for the one that deserves it.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 06/18/14 09:22 AM
You're not going to tell me what you are or are not going to do with me after 3 months....

grumble Geez...I'm not just a piece of meat, I have a mind too!

blushing Now objectify me some more.

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Wed 06/18/14 09:23 AM

You're not going to tell me what you are or are not going to do with me after 3 months....

grumble Geez...I'm not just a piece of meat, I have a mind too!

blushing Now objectify me some more.


Don't tempt me.....pitchfork