The consequences that I would be concerned about if I was to have sex with a stranger would be how I felt about it afterwards. Also, I would be thinking about whether I wanted to see her again.

If I was to meet someone from the internet, for instance, maybe we have sex on the first date or the second or third or whatever. No guarantees that it's going to be anything more than a one night stand, even if the person tells you that they're not into one night stands. I haven't had a one night stand for years but I have had sex with women that I've dated and hoped that it was going to lead to a relationship. I could go out to the pub tomorrow night and maybe go home with someone and it's no different really. I click with someone and I've maybe got a new girlfriend. People do it all the time.

This here's the twenty first century. Now, I'm kind of old fashioned and I don't date multiple people at the same time or date different people just to "test ride" them but many do and that's just the way that it is these days. I'm not looking for a one night stand but I wouldn't be on here if I wasn't looking for a woman and I'm going to need a better reason to turn a woman down than someone on the internet trying to say that you can get AIDS even if you use a flunky.

Really??? Good luck with that and have at it! This speaks volumes! Pick the meal of the day! Well doesn't that say who you are and what you are really about! Almost like a cafeteria style menu and you are making light of it??? But then, you are what you are, and since you stated you're into budget menus, you'll probably get just that!

It wouldn't work for me because I would probably get emotionally involved.

Plus my charge nurse advised me to quit taking in strays.

.. a little too much a little too far you think..hmm. I thought so too.
. I was going to come back in and delete... but here we are...lol.
. well they say you are what you eat.
.. oh no I just did it again.. sorry I have been out in the Sun all day..
. it must have scrambled my brain.
... I could use a happy meal..
. they still, come with toys inside..
. sorry. Missy.. poor taste on my part.
.mmm.. no I won't go there..
I did it again.. I need to stop now..

No need for the angel emoticon...you've pretty much established in your joking or non-joking ways, what and who you are. Sometimes it is best to think before you speak or post for that matter. Sorry you missed the opportunity but that was YOUR choice.

yes it is very much my choice.
the same as it was my choice to try to make amends with you.
I do not wish to go down this road with you.. as I stated.. too much Sun.
A. simple post in poor taste..
I she'll leave it at that..hmm.

No amends are necessary to me. Your choices are your choices and mine are mine! I am just surprised that someone who is my friend would even dare to compare a woman to something he could order up as a dollar menu item from a fast food menu! Just shocking to me that's all! Not at all what I would have expected from you whether or not you had been out in the sun too long. I have been out in the sun too long many times and I have never lost respect for others in the process. Sorry but I don't believe in excuses and I am not afraid to say so! That's just me! You can be you and say or do whatever you wish! Just be aware that who you are will be evident by what you post or say. Carry on as you will.

I think both of us know he wasn't talking about food Blondey. He was talking about one night stands and if that's what you or him is into, that's your choice. It does not happen to be mine and that is where I stand whether anyone else agrees or not. If that is your choice, it is your right to choose what you will !

Distasteful and dangerous. Not for me.

Neither do I Blondey! My self respect is more valuable to me than other's opinions! Best wishes in your choices!

well unfortunately as I have discovered this weekend.. some women are precisely like fast food restaurants.. and I did not have you in mind when I posted.. my off colored comment.. apparently I had no mind at all.... and what you! are anyone else thinks of me.. Are does not think of me.. does not keep me up at night..
. what I choose to post. is entirely up to me.. how anyone. internalize it.
is completely up to them.. if what I post . sometimes offends the odd person... oh well so be it... I have learned a long time ago.. I cannot be everything to everyone.. I Try to post things I think the majority will appreciate.. but at the end of the day.
. if 85 percent of what I say. makes sense great.. if 75% of my jokes.
makes them laugh. even better..
. I can't hit a hundred %. all the time.
. if I could. I would be on my own sitcom.. and not posting this right now..lmao.. but as always... if someone makes me aware of something I have posted.. that offends thy.eye.. I tend to try to correct it.
. it does not mean I bow down to the will of others.. but this is such a trivial thing.. that if it makes them happy..
. and they can continue to proseive.
themselves as righteous.. well then so be it.

.

He himself used the excuse that he had been in the sun too long and admitted he was distasteful in his comments. Is that childish to you? He admitted he was not acting tastefully. Who exactly was being childish Blondey? As I said before he and you are entitled to choices, as I am. I have never said he was not entitled to that. What was stated by him comparing women to eating at a fast food restaurant at times was his statement, and it was a shock to me that he would even see women in that light; but it is totally within his right to think of any woman as he pleases and it is totally within my right to take exception to his opinion. It is not a chastisement but an assessment of how he is portraying himself to others who thought much better of his posts. He apologized and he felt that he was wrong but now he seems to have retracted that.

Okk.. enough of this nonsense..
. it wasn't an excuse it's a fact.
.. I was out all day helping a friend re shingle his house.. and it was bloody hot.. not out in the garden hot.. but cook your brains hot.. I edited my. post.. too.. a piece. Missy..
. but now I realize.. if it was such an offensive post.. why not just ignore it.. why continue. bringing attention.
to a topic or post that irritates you.
.. or perhaps its I who irritates you..
. but either way.. this is not something.. that should be continued. being discussed..... it was simply a poor post.. that is it.. it wasn't a reflection on my . personal feelings..
. it was just a. off colored joke..
. do not read into things that are not there... do not assume you know who I am.. you only know of me! what I have let you know ... I can be a angel one day.. and the Prince of Darkness the next... the choice is mine.. you either get me or you don't... and that's all I have to say about that..lmao..

it's piled higher and deeper in here lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Its like my dear old dad once told me when I was just a teenager, " Boy when you have so much of that stuff that you can start turning it down, send her my way!"

as for 1 niters, no not interested and no, clearly from the responses in here, it is NOT something everyone would enjoy. methinks the OP has left to go do his 10th grade homework..lol