Well angel one day and Prince of Darlness another day. You said it not me.

It happens... The memories from my early 20s and closing time.. I'm amazed its still hanging down there to be honest...

Remember, if its that easy for you, probably that easy for everyone...

I generally don't eat it the first day if its the first date

Exactly, that's the main reason I don't participate in this form of "activity" to say the least lol. Who know's how many men are there before you. If it's that easy to get her for the night, imagine how frequently she does that and remember that semen will remain alive in a woman's vagina for 7 days. Little food for thought before you go sticking "it" somewhere someone else has been, possibly recently if she's that easy.

I agree that it can happen to anyone once or twice...kinda by accident....so it doesn't necessarily mean that person does that kind of thing all the time....like a "playah" (IMO)

But I think that is what the OP is advocating, so no thanks. A slip up once or twice I get....1 niters as an intentional practice, I don;t get.

I don;t date men who do that...never have (to my knowledge) not even if they "reform." too much baggage potential

Hi.. Missy..

Hi. blondie..

. please do not argue anymore..
.. I feel bad enough as it is..ok...
.. I cannot say anymore than I already have.. I can only apologize one time..

I have no issues with your choices No1. I do have an issue with someone defending an act for which you have already apologized. I do however stand my ground on my opinions as that is all they are and I will stand my ground to defend them despite who tries to get me to acquiesce. I believe in standing for something otherwise I could fall for anything! Don't you think that's better in the long run?

I have never intentionally set out to have a one niter, but have probably been the cause of it being a one niter by not pursuing a second date out of pure disgust in myself for what the hell just happened.. And vise versa, have had it happen to me.

Fact is, it happens like life happens.. For anyone to act like they are beyond such behaviors is silly. We never know what solution we will turn to to supress what we are feeling. May be sex and one niters, may be Jesus, may be drugs, may be alcohol, and may be all the above... We are all fallible, thats what makes us human..

.. yes I am well aware..
of what you're capable of..
I appreciate your concern..
but this is a non issue issue..
.. I am just really tired and really hot.
.hmm.. and hungry... I just wish this not to Escalade any further.. .
that is all... you two ladies mean a lot to.me.... and Missy has often.. had to slap my hands.. to remind me to be a gentleman.. and I have always been in her debt for this.. she is sometimes.
everyone's better conscious...
. she is the good natured lady..
that tells you to tuck your shirt in.
and to sit up straight...
.. so if she feels she needs to slap my hands... she is in most cases always right... I respect and care for you.
both... I feel like a complete . imbecile.. right now.. as I said earlier.
I was on my way back to delete.
my posting.. well alter it.. make it a little less offensive.. but oh well.
what is done is done.. but I honestly do not wish.. to cause ill feelings between.. members...ok.. goodnight.

Sinners galore. Not shocking.

Ahh that's where wisdom and maturity come into play. When you quit using people for self gratifying purposes you begin to see a person for the value and character within which makes for a richer relationship than one who is here tonight but won't be here tomorrow! Physical interaction is much to be desired but how long will it last if someone considers you only as a fast food order item on a menu???

Ummmm.
It's kind of funny, how I quit having one night stands,
about the same time I gave up drinking,
some 25 years ago.
Coincidence??

Totally!

Hey, if all else fails, could rate them 1 to 10 like the combo menu! More than 10 you say, lets try the menu from any local mexican restaurant! :-/

Thought so.

Your words were very kindly appreciated No1. Thank you! I hope all will return to normal as before. Thank you for stating your respect for me. It means a lot!

Order as you wish! It's still just a take out menu! Regardless of the type of food you choose! I prefer quality even if it means I cook the meal myself! Only the best for the best! JMHO!

Certainly we are all fallible, each in our own way. We love others despite their fallibility. We can also love ourselves Thomas. we all deserve to be loved

I don;t think ,however, that it is wise to presume to speak for, or assume things about others. Or accuse others of being silly because we say we do not participate in 1 nite stands. I know I have always had more control over my choices when it comes to sex, and I still do. Along with the ability to accept responsibility for my actions. sex is not a "solution" (???) to me. It is a way to express love for someone. It is neither right or wrong and folk do get too wrapped up in judgement. it's a choice to share and for me that sharing has to have intimacy that is not possible in a one night arrangement.

But to think that means I will act like I am "above" someone who makes a different moral choice is simply your perception, not the reality.

There are some things, however, that I find distasteful (and so I tend to be quite cautious)

I would not ignore someone after sex, a 1 night stand, or feel "disgust". I don;t think sex and disgust are words that combine in my vocabulary. That reflects a strange morality that has little meaning to me (but I hear such opinions frequently). I see some genuine issues there.

But men who ignore women after sleeping with them are cowards or predators. (as are women who do the same) And that is quite distasteful in my way of thinking.

namaste

It's take much

Hi would u please be my friend