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yea, but being friends first, you know what to expect and limitations of each other.. when I love someone, I don't want to say hurtful things Why do you think that if it doesn't start as friends first, they won't find out what each other expects and what the limitations are? |
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yea, but being friends first, you know what to expect and limitations of each other.. when I love someone, I don't want to say hurtful things Why do you think that if it doesn't start as friends first, they won't find out what each other expects and what the limitations are? I thought that's what I was saying... |
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. Self control goes beyond the choice between cheating or not. Self control goes into all facets of ones life. Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation? |
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No not all men are like that. I worked out of town alot the last 15 years doing commerical fishing 350miles from home. I dont cheat. As for my ex of 35 years she was cheating every time i was away. She left her diary laying on the table and i started to read it(i think it was left for me to find) well my gut fealing was right. in that 15 years and probally before that.. when we didnt have sex which was often... on her call. well there are 4 different boy friends she gets very graphic in there... no wonder she was doing them as much as she could and not me.. hey im good at alot of things and i always pampered her, flowers, cards, calls... i mean i do things like cover the floor to the bedroom in rose pettles from the front door... candels burning, soft music.. and that is just 1 of the romantic things i have done, she was a lier and a cheet.. with that proof i ended it. I asked her if any of it was ture... she looked me in the eyes and said no... i pulled out her diary and asked her again..... she looked me in the eyes again and said that nothing in that diary was real.... she said it was fantasy... it was all true...and the guys ran like scard children when i confronted some of them... they all used her than kicked her to the curb.... With the truth at hand she still tried to lie her way out of it..... I wasnt having any of that.....so after 35 years and a tear in my eye I ended it for good.... Now im single and scaired... i know she was just a bad apple.... but our 3 kids and 3 grand kids wont have any thing too do with there mom... she has thrown her life away for the things she has done.... me i was loyal and very passionate about her..... but im here to live a better way of life and love ond to move on... so no not all men..... and im sure not all women are that way.....if you are honest and wanting to be pampered email me and lets move on together.. oh ya that heart i am holding i had made for her... one of the many sweet things id do for her.... im very talented at many things even passionate about life..there is a paint job in my profile that i did, it took a first place out of 500 entries abd won a 5' trophy..just 1 of those many talents.
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to cheat is to be a dog in my eyes
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A true person with morals doesnt funtion like that... be it man or woman... you have to live with your self...stay true to yourself?
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to cheat is to be a dog in my eyes Well, there are a lot of dogs in the world, some on four legs and some on two.... 
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its all about morals. some have them and a few dont have a clue... or just dont care who they hurt....you still have to live with yourself...i say that is for the birds
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is sex more imortant that true love.... i say not... sure its great.... but warm fuzzy love is better
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. Self control goes beyond the choice between cheating or not. Self control goes into all facets of ones life. Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation? My parents named me after the pope I think in hopes I would become a priest. But to answer the question about the preisthood. Hell no! I am no longer a practicing catholic or christian for that matter. I enjoy my life and love living in sin to much for that chit.   
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. It's OK to praise people for following the rules even when they don't want to, but your point is taken with a smile because you are absolutely right and the post is totally sexy....I want a man who doesn't cheat, physically or mentally....
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. Self control goes beyond the choice between cheating or not. Self control goes into all facets of ones life. Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation? "Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation?" he asked one of the most attractive, together men on Mingle, pmsl. If men like L�wenbr�u were to be found in a monastery, a great many women would become nuns. |
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. Self control goes beyond the choice between cheating or not. Self control goes into all facets of ones life. Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation? "Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation?" he asked one of the most attractive, together men on Mingle, pmsl. If men like L�wenbr�u were to be found in a monastery, a great many women would become nuns. The guy says that he's celibate and doesn't even want a woman. What's so sexy about that? I asked him that question because it was quite preachy what he said and the disclaimers about being a lapsed catholic don't make it any less so. Two thousand years of Christianity and people still trying to justify Christian morality without the supernatural mumbo jumbo that was its foundation. Nietzsche said that the man of knowledge should be prepared to live dangerously and create new values. The "good man" is a pitiful herd animal. Let us abolish this morality and bury it with the dead God. |
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Edited by
lionsbrew
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Thu 02/13/14 06:51 AM
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. Self control goes beyond the choice between cheating or not. Self control goes into all facets of ones life. Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation? "Did you ever consider the priesthood as a vocation?" he asked one of the most attractive, together men on Mingle, pmsl. If men like L�wenbr�u were to be found in a monastery, a great many women would become nuns. The guy says that he's celibate and doesn't even want a woman. What's so sexy about that? I asked him that question because it was quite preachy what he said and the disclaimers about being a lapsed catholic don't make it any less so. Two thousand years of Christianity and people still trying to justify Christian morality without the supernatural mumbo jumbo that was its foundation. Nietzsche said that the man of knowledge should be prepared to live dangerously and create new values. The "good man" is a pitiful herd animal. Let us abolish this morality and bury it with the dead God. Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self. 
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Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self.
 Morning hot sauce! ...I'm reminded of the fairytale..."Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?".... 
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Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self.
Morning hot sauce! ...I'm reminded of the fairytale..."Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?"....
(((( ))))
Aloha ((((Leigh)))) And how might you be this morning? |
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Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self.
Morning hot sauce! ...I'm reminded of the fairytale..."Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?"....
(((( ))))
Aloha ((((Leigh)))) And how might you be this morning? Bonjour �l�gant, je suis bon!
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Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self.
Lol, guess I kinda put you on the spot. Wasn't my intention, sorry for that! In spite of that I'd like to react to what Painte said, that men like you are a dying breed. I beg to differ. Younger men often are erm ... let's just say different, so I don't get into an entire debate about this. The type of man that can let a woman be a woman without feeling emasculated. So not a dying breed, the start of a new breed so to speak. And I think it's wonderful to see :) My own boy (23) is like that as well. I know I'm goofing around a bit at times when it comes to Lion, but it's just goofing around. Like I'm too old for him, he's too young for me. I just respect him, and any man with his kind of views and wisdom. So I simply enjoy pretending to be a cougar, lol, which I'm not. (Don't tell anyone, might ruin my image  )
Think the dying breed is the type that Steve Harvey describes. And thank god for that!
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Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self.
Morning hot sauce! ...I'm reminded of the fairytale..."Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?"....
(((( ))))
Aloha ((((Leigh)))) And how might you be this morning? Bonjour �l�gant, je suis bon!
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Hold on a second. I said I was single not celibate. Big difference. Just because finding a partner isn't in my top priorities doesn't mean I don't enjoy being with a woman. I just have a different set of priorities than anyone else. As well I should for they are not me, they aren't living my life, and therefore do not matter. Not my fault if you don't like that I still get attention because I am who I am. Or you can't understand why I get attention. Your not me stop worrying about me and get down with your own bad self.
Lol, guess I kinda put you on the spot. Wasn't my intention, sorry for that! In spite of that I'd like to react to what Painte said, that men like you are a dying breed. I beg to differ. Younger men often are erm ... let's just say different, so I don't get into an entire debate about this. The type of man that can let a woman be a woman without feeling emasculated. So not a dying breed, the start of a new breed so to speak. And I think it's wonderful to see :) My own boy (23) is like that as well. I know I'm goofing around a bit at times when it comes to Lion, but it's just goofing around. Like I'm too old for him, he's too young for me. I just respect him, and any man with his kind of views and wisdom. So I simply enjoy pretending to be a cougar, lol, which I'm not. (Don't tell anyone, might ruin my image )
Think the dying breed is the type that Steve Harvey describes. And thank god for that!
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