THIS

A real man indeed

We already know everyone is different.

But this is straight talk ladies and I don't know why I'm doing it.

There are basically 4 types of relationship men. In general of course.

You have ***** boy, who does everything you say and your opinion is his opinion.

Then there is the insecure unfaithful guy. Hes good looking, nice job, has it all. But doesn't really feel good about himself unless hes screwing around. This guy wont tell you, but someone knows because that's part of his trip. His trip is to pretend hes a player.

Then you have loyal family good guy. Which is 95% of us if you would give it chance and stop with the lists of, height-weight. Job. Money. Blood line. What, am I at the combine again.

Then there is the Alpha male. Maybe .5% of men fall here. These are your pro athletes, musicians, Steve Jobs type and top surgeons. These cats can do anything if they want. And if you are on this site, I hates to say, no of us are in this category

Also, I didn't think support, loyalty and sex were bad things. If two people click and have chemistry, neither one would stray. I think too often one or the other wants the person to fit their mold instead of just letting them go and look else where.

And you got that right sweetestgirl!!! My thought exactly

Being honest?

What is the difference between a Girlfriend and Just a female friend?

It's that one is more intimate than the other, that is the SINGLE difference, I'm not kissing my Female friends, I'm not having sex with them, I'm not being intimate with them at all.

Sometimes when a woman gets into a relationship, generally it starts out very intimate and then may fade...but if it ever dies off completely, and there is no longer an intimate relationship, then what is the difference between her and one of the guys female friends? They both can be loyal, and honest, and both may care for the guy...but honestly what is the difference between the two now?

So while if the guy has integrity, he would tell his girl, really being intimate with each other is really the only difference between gf and friend, and if you're not intimate than I now you see you as just a friend, and I'm going to look for another girlfriend. I have enough friends, I didn't go into a relationship without intimacy and I'm not going to stay in one without it either, I won't cheat, but you bet you bottom dollar, if that aspect didn't change, I wouldn't feel bad about leaving...because after all, she is one who changed the relationship dynamic from girlfriend to friend by taking sex off the table.

ok for me if we are not adult enough to say what we want we had all better grow up yes i find with a lot of women to many issues from their past and i personally dont have time nor the space for it in my life , yes do what you want and if you respect one another ans COMMUNICATE yes i will Say it AGAIN COMMUNICATE to what are each others needs their should be no problem , but than again do we honestly do it . For me i will tell you the truth but you had better be ready to hear and handle it ,just sayin

a man will stray only if the relationship has no meaning an is not going anywhere,in marrage if you aren,t open with each other an you have know communication between each other an you have tried seeking professional help then you should each go your seperate ways. i was married 13 yr to a wonderful woman an cancer took her away from me.

See, this is exactly why I like hoe's. they like sex alot, no question about it. unfortunatly, their is no future with a hoe :-(

there is a whole lotta messed up shyte on here...no future wid a hoe??? who would want a future with one? lol

Red6mist, would Sweetest? Ha ha. Any port in a storm for him, eh?

so it would seem

though I will say that " any port in a storm" is a place where many of us have been at one time or another

perhaps do not want to return to

but it makes us grown, who we are, understanding of a sense

as tho' I really can't deal with those who have not been to that point at some time....

even if a woman is pregnant or on her period,she can always do butt stuff

Ok hold on now... that could not possibly be true...

First off I have never slept with a married or widowed woman ( theres only one woman I have slept with that I am not pretty certain that she was not married and really not sure one way or the other )

Even though this is not the same as getting sex elsewhere it's making a point that most men do sleep with married woman ...

some men there is no way they'd pass it up... as a matter of fact some would sleep with a woman because the fact she is married and would not sleep with her other wise..

If I was in a serious relationswhip and she stopped abruptly in the bedroom I would definetly had my eye brow lifted but no way could you say this would be automatic grounds for sleeping with her friend at the office at work...

the fact you would say that men require support, loyalty and sex does have alot of truth to it in a stereo typical kind of way but the other statement is not true.. some do not require sex as much as others... others will be more loyal ect..

But to answer your question many to most will if their cut off in the bed room all of a sudden if given the opertunity to do so...

This is in response to the second part of the original post.

"HOLDING OUT"????

Really??? I have no idea where kids are raised these days.

Wow!!! U know your 40 when you start referring to people younger than u as kids.

Anyway. The term/phrase HOLDING OUT implies a power move. If a woman feels the need to play the "***** power" card, obviously gentleman the lady feels her voice or opinion is not being herd.

Cue to men: when a woman pull that card, that is not the time to have pride and show her your nutt card. Unless of course you're in the top .5% of Alpha males. As stated before, you can do what you want when u want then. Whole different ball game.

WOW Jr!!!! No filter for you.

Love it. Not my thang, but hey....put it in where it fits.

Amazing, is that advice or ex price Jt?

Serious talk, this is a cat I want on my team. Just for the fact I don't want o face him. LOL

Rather judgmental, dont you think? Every individual is different, with unique circumstances. There is no one truly qualified to judge someone else's "morality" except that individual. Is cheating on your partner a rather heinous act? I think it is, but I will not judge the alleged lack of morality. Curious as to where you get your guidance or insight on this.