Topic: Men really function like this?? Be honest! | |
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sparkyae5
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Wed 02/12/14 10:27 AM
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i have a question--what if i said ''all woman are xoxo and will oxox'' we know all woman are not and will not---is it not fair or realistic to group everyone the same ????--however there are patterns to behavior of both sides to reinforce there belief system and recycle there favorite feelings and emotions ---that being said ---steve harvey is right on---
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My answer...No I will not stray I'd break it off if I were thinking of going elsewhere. I have self control. I expect the same from my S.O. as well though. But I wouldn't hold on sex for any reason and she better have one hell of a reason for holding out on me.
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My answer...No I will not stray I'd break it off if I were thinking of going elsewhere. I have self control. I expect the same from my S.O. as well though. But I wouldn't hold on sex for any reason and she better have one hell of a reason for holding out on me. You're the last of the good men.... |
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My answer...No I will not stray I'd break it off if I were thinking of going elsewhere. I have self control. I expect the same from my S.O. as well though. But I wouldn't hold on sex for any reason and she better have one hell of a reason for holding out on me. You're the last of the good men.... No I'm not my son is growing into a fine young man as we speak. |
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My answer...No I will not stray I'd break it off if I were thinking of going elsewhere. I have self control. I expect the same from my S.O. as well though. But I wouldn't hold on sex for any reason and she better have one hell of a reason for holding out on me. You're the last of the good men.... No I'm not my son is growing into a fine young man as we speak. Well, one of the last then. |
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My answer...No I will not stray I'd break it off if I were thinking of going elsewhere. I have self control. I expect the same from my S.O. as well though. But I wouldn't hold on sex for any reason and she better have one hell of a reason for holding out on me. You're the last of the good men.... No I'm not my son is growing into a fine young man as we speak. Well, one of the last then. |
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Pseudoscience is where you take anthropology which only applies to groups, and you apply these gross generalizations to individuals, which by scientific ethic is a big no-no. This is pseudoscientific journalism, not behavioural science. Men (nor Women) do not have any collective personality. Any group of men (or women) consists of very different varieties which comprise what is called a normal variation. Thus it is impossible to predict individual behaviour. You can only suggest likelihoods of group behaviour because it falls within variations you can map and deal with majorities. Clinical psychologists cannot predict individual behaviour. Neurologists definitely can't. The only science that even tries to is criminology. And then it's very general, like look in a shopping mall for the paedophile. Not what he had for lunch or which Mall. I think you mean Sociology as a study of group behavior. Individual behavior can be predicted, it is however nothing more than a prediction....no matter how good the factual foundation with human behavior there is a huge random factor. For example violent treatment of animals in children is a predictor of later criminal behavior because violence toward animals (household pets for example) was found as something that a lot of incarcerated violent offenders had in common. not a sure thing one way or the other though. I could go to the bank every Friday at the same time for years .... so when you go to meet me and I change my mind and go an hour earlier or a day later....just that ONE time...all of the prediction is for naught. It's called free will. Humans got it and we aint given it up for science |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. |
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do.
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk |
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What's better? Having "self control", or just not wanting to cheat? I've never cheated on a woman in my life and have never even wanted to. Why praise people for being taught rules of morality by parents or society and not someone that doesn't particularly care about that and just does what he just feels is right for him? Personal integrity surely isn't about doing what other people say that you should do. Self control goes beyond the choice between cheating or not. Self control goes into all facets of ones life. |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk If they're scared to talk to the person they're in a relationship with, that person isn't for them. |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk If they're scared to talk to the person they're in a relationship with, that person isn't for them. yes.. most people now jump into a relationship because of looks and sex, IMO, instead of being friends first |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk If they're scared to talk to the person they're in a relationship with, that person isn't for them. yes.. most people now jump into a relationship because of looks and sex, IMO, instead of being friends first Just because it doesn't start as friends first doesn't mean it's only based on looks and sex alone. What I said still stands whether they were friends first or not. |
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both men and women can stray,i would suggest that if both people in the relationship are content they should be able to discuss why theyre not in the mood for sex...besides theres always oral and toys..
Besides if a man had a choice of a quickie with a stranger to get get it off[so to speak] or having his genitles sucked and licked for half hour by his loved one i reckon i know which one he would prefer. |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk If they're scared to talk to the person they're in a relationship with, that person isn't for them. yes.. most people now jump into a relationship because of looks and sex, IMO, instead of being friends first I think the relationship stands a better chance it they are friends first, but if too many negatives happen one or both can lose, over time, the will to talk it out....like they are just putting in time I can't imagine a relationship not starting as friends but it is no guarantee because hurtful words and deeds can erode even the strongest love over time... |
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Reading that basically all men want in a relationship is support, loyalty and sex. And they can do without sex occasionally, i.e. if the wife is preggers or having her period etc. But if it happens too often or with no 'valid' reason, the man will get sex elsewhere. No matter how much he might love his wife, no matter how much support and loyalty he gets from his wife, he will get it elsewhere. Because he needs it. Men that say they don't, lie. Mind you, HIS words, not mine, haha. (I must admit I cannot believe some of the things this Steve Harvey writes, hence the question) Now the big question: Do you men agree? Will you indeed stray if she's holding out on you for whatever reason (which can also be a so called valid reason)? If the couple is not having sex, for whatever reason, hopefully they will try to work that issue out, rather than cheating on each other. talking is always better than cheating... some people get scared to talk If they're scared to talk to the person they're in a relationship with, that person isn't for them. yes.. most people now jump into a relationship because of looks and sex, IMO, instead of being friends first I think the relationship stands a better chance it they are friends first, but if too many negatives happen one or both can lose, over time, the will to talk it out....like they are just putting in time I can't imagine a relationship not starting as friends but it is no guarantee because hurtful words and deeds can erode even the strongest love over time... yea, but being friends first, you know what to expect and limitations of each other.. when I love someone, I don't want to say hurtful things |
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Arrrrrrrghhhhhh I agree lol |
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both men and women can stray,i would suggest that if both people in the relationship are content they should be able to discuss why theyre not in the mood for sex...besides theres always oral and toys.. Besides if a man had a choice of a quickie with a stranger to get get it off[so to speak] or having his genitles sucked and licked for half hour by his loved one i reckon i know which one he would prefer. [/quote lmfao i like the way you think! |
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