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Edited by
BEZAX
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Fri 12/20/13 04:50 AM
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Which of the genders have more of Self control in terms of sex; Male or Female?
With reasons... |
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I don't know if is about self control as much as it is identity
I think women are more likely to value themselves in terms of what they do for others,,,, ; motherhood/wifedom/charity/housekeeping/cooking,,,,etc,, and men are more likely to value themselves in terms of what they get from people or what they acquire ..money, cars, women, sex,,,,etc |
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Which of the genders have more of Self control in terms of sex; Male or Female? With reasons... Ms Harmony has a very good point. Your question is somewhat vague. In general, in a relationship??? In general I'd say women as there's still stigma to women indulging in sex whereas men are considered to be super-sex-gods if they indulge. |
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If you love someone there is no such thing as self control imo...
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If you love someone there is no such thing as self control imo... Oh. So you'd force yourself upon someone? I know you wouldn't, but that's what this suggests?  Self-control usually has to do with not the right time or place, not the right person, or the right person not being in the mood for whatever reason. So even if you love that person, you still might need to have self-control |
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I am talking about when the two of you are in the bedroom loving on each other. Sex is a private matter...
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I am talking about when the two of you are in the bedroom loving on each other. Sex is a private matter... Ah, okay. Well, guess it would help if Bezax would elaborate a bit more on what he/she means. In general, in a relationship, in the bedroom (added that one to it, lol) 
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I took it to mean two lovers....but if just talking about sex, period, women have more control than men, imo.
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If you love someone there is no such thing as self control imo... Oh. So you'd force yourself upon someone? I know you wouldn't, but that's what this suggests? Self-control usually has to do with not the right time or place, not the right person, or the right person not being in the mood for whatever reason. So even if you love that person, you still might need to have self-control that's it! Even when you're in love you still need self control. |
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that's it! Even when you're in love you still need self control. Why?  |
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Edited by
BEZAX
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Fri 12/20/13 10:52 AM
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..money, cars, women, sex,,,,etc thats gospel according to msharmony... When your man says; "Please my dear I'm not in the mood now" how do you react, do you control the feeling at that moment... how? |
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Which of the genders have more of Self control in terms of sex; Male or Female? With reasons... Doesn't that depend on motivation? |
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..money, cars, women, sex,,,,etc When your man says; "Please my dear I'm not in the mood now" how do you react, do you control the feeling at that moment... how? I would most likely try to communicate and find out if there is something troubling him, if he is sick, exhausted,,etc,, |
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Edited by
BEZAX
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Fri 12/20/13 11:22 AM
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that's it! Even when you're in love you still need self control. Why? Yes, you need self control mostly when you are in love, because you've got to respect the mood of that person you say you love, you can't force your lover just to satisfy your sexual feeling not minding what he/she is emotionaly passing through, weak, or not well at the moment |
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I once had two pretty friends that can't control themselves whenever we are alone...
the first girl fled to the arms of my friend who after 3 months accused her of cheating... So, I wonder why? |
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If you love someone there is no such thing as self control imo... Oh. So you'd force yourself upon someone? I know you wouldn't, but that's what this suggests? Self-control usually has to do with not the right time or place, not the right person, or the right person not being in the mood for whatever reason. So even if you love that person, you still might need to have self-control this is where understanding comes in, self control works with understanding your partner very well... |
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Edited by
Ɔʎɹɐx
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Fri 12/20/13 12:32 PM
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i guess females , cause most of them can't make love without having feelings towards the partner , so they can control their sexual needs by an emotional "valve" that only opens when heart beats ...
males , on the contrary , most of them are able to have a sexual relationship regardless to the feelings , so their control over sexual desire is limited . |
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i guess females , cause most of them can't make love without having feelings towards the partner , so they can control their sexual needs by an emotional "valve" that only opens when heart beats ... males , on the contrary , most of them are able to have a sexual relationship regardless to the feelings , so their control over sexual desire is limited . yes, they can as well have sex without feelings, but when the feeling comes, they find it difficult to control... The worst thing you can do to a woman is to deny her sex when she needs it... |
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The worst thing you can do to a woman is to deny her sex when she needs it... same applies to men , but why would you deny her need for heaven's sake ? 
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Well, guys cannot hide it when they are
really turned on, gals can. |
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