Topic: Self Control in terms of sex.
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Fri 12/20/13 02:12 PM


The worst thing you can do to a woman is to deny her sex when she needs it...

same applies to men , but why would you deny her need for heaven's sake ?huh

hmm...
Will you force yourself when you are not in the mood for that?huh

willing2's photo
Fri 12/20/13 02:19 PM
For me, it's more about rhythm than self control.

Rhythm can help me last as long as the woman needs me to.

If my rhythm is off, my tongue can do wonders.

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Fri 12/20/13 02:19 PM

Well, guys cannot hide it when they are
really turned on, gals can.

no my dear, guys can perfectly hide the feeling, calm themselves when the woman says no...

willing2's photo
Fri 12/20/13 02:22 PM
She say no, the others won't.

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Fri 12/20/13 04:17 PM
I would say neither has more self control over any other by everything you see and hear, both here in places such as the forum, and in everyday life. Sex is no longer the private thing it used to be, but has become for so many just something to do to have a fun.


When your man says; "Please my dear I'm not in the mood now" how do you react, do you control the feeling at that moment... how?


Well, if my woman said that, that would be that. That does not mean I cannot hold her, comfort her and spend time with her letting her know I care. Love and togetherness is more than just physical.

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Fri 12/20/13 09:46 PM
Edited by BEZAX on Fri 12/20/13 09:49 PM

When your man says; "Please my dear I'm not in the mood now" how do you react, do you control the feeling at that moment... how?

Well, if my woman said that, that would be that. That does not mean I cannot hold her, comfort her and spend time with her letting her know I care. Love and togetherness is more than just physical.

that's it, by so doing you've shown respect to her mood, and feelings that moment, and control your own feeling aswel

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Fri 12/20/13 09:52 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Fri 12/20/13 09:54 PM

Well, guys cannot hide it when they are
really turned on, gals can.



{dry humping the air}
noway
AHHhhhh RiGGggghht !

smitten

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 12/21/13 11:51 AM

Well, guys cannot hide it when they are
really turned on, gals can.


Just having an erection is not always a sign he is "turned on" anymore than a woman having a reaction say to being cold or scared.

I think which gender has more self control is more related to the person involved.

And the situation. If you have ever watched a dock full of wives charge their husbands after a long deployment you would wonder who is the lesson controlled. lol

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Sat 12/21/13 11:53 AM



The worst thing you can do to a woman is to deny her sex when she needs it...

same applies to men , but why would you deny her need for heaven's sake ?huh

hmm...
Will you force yourself when you are not in the mood for that?huh


Would hope there was never "Force" from either side but a little persuasion allowed in grace often results in great gratitude and memorable passion.

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Sat 12/21/13 12:27 PM




The worst thing you can do to a woman is to deny her sex when she needs it...

same applies to men , but why would you deny her need for heaven's sake ?huh

hmm...
Will you force yourself when you are not in the mood for that?huh


Would hope there was never "Force" from either side but a little persuasion allowed in grace often results in great gratitude and memorable passion.

hmm...

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Wed 06/11/14 10:16 PM





The worst thing you can do to a woman is to deny her sex when she needs it...

same applies to men , but why would you deny her need for heaven's sake ?huh

hmm...
Will you force yourself when you are not in the mood for that?huh


Would hope there was never "Force" from either side but a little persuasion allowed in grace often results in great gratitude and memorable passion.

flowerforyou

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/12/14 05:29 PM
The man when he pull out

mikey5360's photo
Thu 06/12/14 05:39 PM
Its all a state of mind, as you grow older and learn a few of life's lessons you learn that a little self control can be very rewarding. If you can master it, it spills over into other areas of your life as well.

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Thu 06/12/14 05:47 PM

Its all a state of mind, as you grow older and learn a few of life's lessons you learn that a little self control can be very rewarding. If you can master it, it spills over into other areas of your life as well.



"Spills over into other areas" I have seen that happen!

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/12/14 05:48 PM

The woman when she tells him not to come :-)


The man when he come on demand :)

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Thu 06/12/14 05:57 PM
Edited by 2LESBIANS on Thu 06/12/14 06:03 PM
I HAVE TO AGREE WITH MSHARMONY AND CRYSTALFAIRY ON THIS, AS CRYSTALFAIRY SAID, MSHARMONY HAS A GOOD POINT, BUT ER ANSWER IS VAGVUE, AND CRYSTALFAIRY IS CORRECT IN THE FACT THAT IT IS WOMEN WHO ARE MORE IN CONTROL WHEN IT COMES TO SEX, ALL MEN THINK ABOUT IS RIPPING THE WOMAN'S CLOTHES OFF AND SCREWING HER, WOMEN LIKE IT TO LAST, MEN DONT, AND THE WORST THING A MAN CAN DO TO A WOMAN IS DENY HER SEX WHEN SHE NEEDS IT BADLY, SHVE WAITS FOR VYOU TO COME HOME TO GIVE HER SOME LOVING AND SOME SEX, FOR GOD SAKES, GIVE IT TO VHER, DONT DENY HER, SHE IS WILLING, READY, AND WAITING,GIVE HER THE SEX SHE WANTS, IF YOU DONT, YOU'RE NO MAN!

Seakolony's photo
Thu 06/12/14 06:03 PM
I do agree that men and women have different se@ual turn on etc., but as for controlling my orgasm yeah I can do that. Then again, there are times they control me as well. Depends.

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/12/14 06:05 PM

I HAVE TO AGREE WITH MSHARMONY AND CRYSTALFAIRY ON THIS, AS CRYSTALFAIRY SAID, MSHARMONY HAS A GOOD POINT, BUT ER ANSWER IS VAGVUE, AND CRYSTALFAIRY IS CORRECT IN THE FACT THAT IT IS WOMEN WHO ARE MORE IN CONTROL WHEN IT COMES TO SEX, ALL MEN THINK ABOUT IS RIPPING THE WOMAN'S CLOTHES OFF AND SCREWING HER, WOMEN LIKE IT TO LAST, MEN DONT


Please do not speak for all men ....

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Thu 06/12/14 06:37 PM

I HAVE TO AGREE WITH MSHARMONY AND CRYSTALFAIRY ON THIS, AS CRYSTALFAIRY SAID, MSHARMONY HAS A GOOD POINT, BUT ER ANSWER IS VAGVUE, AND CRYSTALFAIRY IS CORRECT IN THE FACT THAT IT IS WOMEN WHO ARE MORE IN CONTROL WHEN IT COMES TO SEX, ALL MEN THINK ABOUT IS RIPPING THE WOMAN'S CLOTHES OFF AND SCREWING HER, WOMEN LIKE IT TO LAST, MEN DONT, AND THE WORST THING A MAN CAN DO TO A WOMAN IS DENY HER SEX WHEN SHE NEEDS IT BADLY, SHVE WAITS FOR VYOU TO COME HOME TO GIVE HER SOME LOVING AND SOME SEX, FOR GOD SAKES, GIVE IT TO VHER, DONT DENY HER, SHE IS WILLING, READY, AND WAITING,GIVE HER THE SEX SHE WANTS, IF YOU DONT, YOU'RE NO MAN!


Why are you yelling? Using all capital letters is the online equivalent of yelling.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 06/12/14 07:01 PM
Hmm I don't know, could be whoever is withholding it best.