What's your idea of a perfect date ?

good conversation and a fun or romantic setting

I like to know and be committed to a person before sex enters the equation though,,,

Someone who manages not to piss me off right away :-)

Sharing a meal together with great conversation. Maybe a show afterwards. I don't even kiss on the first date. Especially not ***.

This.

Someone who makes me feel like I want to have sex with her on the first date.

Well if we don't like each other, then going Dutch on the bill and sex in the can would be a good date.


If I know I don't want her for a gf then
am going to play offence and if I score then
that was a good date.

If we like each other a lot and the right time presents itself I'm going to play offence and hopefully she plays good defence beyond kising, then that's a good date

What's that about the Dutch? They are here monitoring any insults, so don't speak ill of us, respect our wooden footwear, windmills and tulips! If not you may suffer the same fate as the English. They thought they could take the p*$$ out of us, and we sailed up to Chatham, made them trash their own navy and we nicked their flagship to finish it off. Only to destroy it by the way, as we had no use for it.
Canada ain't that far away ... Thou hast been warned

Yea six roses, six ounces of top shelf champagne, six piece band playing softly in the background, sixty minutes of high caliber conversation, six crab stuffed lettuce rolls, six bacon wrapped green beans and a six ounce petite sirloin, and six luxury chocolates to share. Six nice slow dances, and counting six memorable moments walking hand in hand looking forward to my sixties with Someone who has spent sixty years becoming the person in my future.

Anything could be a good date. As long as both of us have a good time I don't think the details really matter. Sex on the first date has happened to me a few times. Being a good kisser has its advantages.

Anything that turns out to be good for both of us...

OMG you meant SEX? On a first date? Oh man with what six life threatening STD's in epidemic status not even six condoms laid up on a guy would not be enough for me to jump bones on a first date. At six grand a day for a hospital room, sixty grand a year for trying to get the aids cocktail, close to six years on dialysis for a kidney if you are lucky enough to catch Hep C early enough? And maybe sixteen years in a six bed ward in a state hospital maybe with six convicts strolling up and down the halls at 6am because tax payers refuse to pay for your six minutes of foolishness nah that is not happening to my six.

Pacific thats way too much... give me a breath

OMG Wisdom personified!! This is the truth. I totally agree. Those who play with fire will eventually get burned, in spades.

I need a tall drink of water after reading this lol ....

Missy but why will someone

love and sex r both diffrent things..love should b spuritual and sex should b rare..frnds i thing this place is just fun not for life

anything that does not involve answering back to back questions, and no meals....I don't like eating in front of a stranger and I am a very very very picky eater. let;s just not have to deal with all that. nothing too long or too far away from home in case I wanna leave. shopping sounds like a good plan :)

or maybe a hike in the country or a gym workout....or to sit and talk dockside at a lake, taking in the beauty if the spot..but all of that hinges on meeting someone that I want to sit dockside and absorb ambience with.....

Yea a date where I feel I want them is awesome; I probably would not go out with someone I didn't; just doesn't mean I act on every pleasant possibility immediately.

At least I am going to have a pretty good idea what I am getting myself into. Then it is a lot more fun.