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| Topic: Why is it so hard to find a nice, genuine guy? | |
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There are many "levels" of relationships. As a single 43 year old guy I can say that what turns me on the most about a woman in not her picture. To me there are much more important attributes that physical appearance. The one thing that turns me on the most about a woman is one word...HONESTY. Tell me what you are looking for in a man/relationship. Honesty or integrity seem to be lost in our society. Why do you think that is? Is it easier to hide behind your avatar life than to face reality? Perfection does not exist, but love does. Love comes first by honestly loving yourself first |
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My kids mum was always honest with me on my wages day! Aye, honest that she wanted the lot!
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To me the right person its not looks a lot of men go for looks I say its atraction period.;)
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Edited by
mccdijon
on
Mon 10/07/13 11:32 PM
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It is hard to find genuine guys that are not taken, not fake, speak English and respect their bodies physically, spiritually and emotionally and know how to treat the women as they would treat themselves. It REALLY IS. Your gender is just too damn picky. Why do you think we are picky? You obviously are, don't you want only white women? Why shouldn't a woman have the right to decide the type of man she wants? Aren't you doing the same? Some women will not date or even remotely be involved with a person who has a "double standard". Some women have experienced the worse relationships they could have every imagined. Do you honestly think they want to go there again? I for one would rather be single than to settle! It's all about attitudes-everyone's attitudes, not just women! Care to comment?  Sure sweatheart, I'd love to ;), but first, I never said being picky was a crime, but i'll elaborate for you. You see, it's mainly Because a man knows when to stfu. Women can never be satisfied. A man can wait for a woman he PREFERS over a cold beer and call of duty. A woman will nag about "no good guys out there" and turn around and reject the ones who look you in the face. I'm not saying that you women can't be picky, I'm saying that you purposely want what you can't have. Then once you've gotten it, you STILL complain. That's all you women do is nag nag nag. You can NEVER be happy with the **** you take for granite such as the guy who's been friend zoned since high school. Who's stuck by you for over 10 years. The one you call brother or best friend who've always been in love with you and bought you valentines day presents (even when your bad boy didn't). Men can suck it up and shut up. That doesn't seem to be in a woman's vocabulary. Food for thought though, White women are my preference because their nagging is less intimidating than any other race. Yes I stereotype, yes I'm bitter, yes I'm immature. Tell me something I don't know. But I will tell you this. I'm very blatant and straightforward about a lot of things. I've watched too many guys get hurt (myself included) because a woman wants to "politely reject" a guy by lying and saying, "well, I'm not ready for a relationship", then a week later catches her with the ******* bully who used to knock his books down when seen and the only logical excuses you can gather are "I didn't want to ruin our friendship", "you're like a brother to me" or completely ignore the guy. THAT is why guys (or rather "good guys") are nowhere to be found. You indecisive women scare them away. On a side note. I love a battle of the sexes, care to argue? 
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What do u mean by 'genuine' guy? May be you are too heavily focused on yourself. I don't know. If someone says what he wants and that's really what he wants theni it's genuine. You have to make it easy for him to be honest and not lead them to say what you want /wish them to say.
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What do u mean by 'genuine' guy? May be you are too heavily focused on yourself. I don't know. If someone says what he wants and that's really what he wants theni it's genuine. You have to make it easy for him to be honest and not lead them to say what you want /wish them to say. Just a thought. But if a person allows themselves to be led to a certain answer then they will probably never be honest as they are only looking to say what ever they think will make the other person happy. I guess I just think it's just as easy to be honest as it is to lie. Especially is you stop caring about what the other person thinks. 
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Same case here....
I thought I found a great friend( only friend not more) but she stabbed at the very time when i needed her the most and now after being so brutally damaged from inside... just losing trust from evry1... :-( |
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Same case here.... I thought I found a great friend( only friend not more) but she stabbed at the very time when i needed her the most and now after being so brutally damaged from inside... just losing trust from evry1... :-( I feel for you. I really do. But believe me when I say that they'll never be satisfied. |
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wats ur real name ffx and ur age,we can b frnds
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kul,but to b sincere u hv found wat u wnt in me
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it just is..........................
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I have met some great genuine guys here in Calgary but sadly they are all either married or in relationships; so all the good ones are taken. sigh
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That settles it then. You need to leave Calgary.
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No guy is completely nice, if u mean a decent guy, a guy that acts like a gentleman, that pays his own way, a guy that compliments, a guy that has morals, well there are plenty of them, just have to look in the right places, sometimes you just have to break out of your box , hey I've actually met some nice ladies in the supermarket, I know quite a bit about picking produce, sometimes ladies will ask my opinion, church is another good place to meet someone, clubs, or volunteer organizations, the worse place to meet anyone would be bars and or clubs, unless your just looking for a little action.
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Edited by
lionsbrew
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Tue 10/08/13 05:47 PM
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There was a reason I said in an earlier post that its something we gotta figure out for ourselves and this is because what is right for you may not be whats right for another. You gotta look at the qualities of a person that fit your own unique interests. It seems people have the misconception of things like this to be black and white when the reality is there is a whole spectrum of colors to consider.
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plenty of 'genuine' guys you have to be ready for them. So many girls my age or lower that want 'genuine' but at the same time want to love the dreamy hollywood style hero life only a douche can give them for a few years.
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Looking for love in all the wrong places, looking for love and too many faces... as the song goes. I have some advice you can take or leave. If you are really looking for that one special guy and you are truly ready for a life time relationship, then try not looking and start networking. Meet people girls and guys . Make friends and as your circle grows so will the chances that "Mr Right" will show up and when he does you will know because he will let you know.
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I S REALY WORKING MY FRIEND GOT HIS WIFE HERE WITHIN TWO MOUTH AND THEY WEDDED.BUT IS VERY DIFFICULT 4ME TO FIND D REAL ONE.BUT AM STILL HOPEFUL.
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All my married friend tell me the same thing. "Just stop looking and when you least expect it that special someone will walk into your life. Just stop looking."
So I stopped looking and I'm developing my own interests. Like I started digging this 9' deep hole in my backyard and I put a net over it with a camouflage of leaves and a cheeseburger on top. GOTCHA. -Maria Bamford |
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You need not worry any more.I'm yours.if you send me a private message,I'll send you my number and more
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