Topic: Why is it so hard to find a nice, genuine guy?
shegoat's photo
Thu 10/03/13 08:05 AM
nice guys were all dead..what's left are zombies who just wanna bite you.^_^

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Thu 10/03/13 08:39 AM

I've met a gal that I really like and I think she really likes me. The conversation has been great so far. I just purchased airline tickets this morning and we will finally meet in December!
Don't give up.
Do not give up.



wow! how i wish, me and my bf i met here will also reach that point of meeting each other in person.. from where is the gal ur meeting??

grandstallion's photo
Thu 10/03/13 04:41 PM
Gold miners have to dig miles into the earth before they get what they went down there for. Same here, I'm deep down in there so you gotta dig past a lot of chicken dinners to get to the winner!

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Thu 10/03/13 10:32 PM

There are I'm sure alot of nice guys,,, me being one of them, but you know the saying nice guys finish last, I'mstarting to believe this, ugghhh, I do all the things, women say they want, being spontaneous, holding hands going for walks, cooking together, I'm also beginning to think its more looks than anything....I hope I'm mistaken, and I find on great gal on here


Start doing what you want instead of what you think women want and maybe your luck will change. Most women want a guy who thinks for himself, not one who does what he's told.

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Thu 10/03/13 10:33 PM

There are I'm sure alot of nice guys,,, me being one of them, but you know the saying nice guys finish last, I'mstarting to believe this, ugghhh, I do all the things, women say they want, being spontaneous, holding hands going for walks, cooking together, I'm also beginning to think its more looks than anything....I hope I'm mistaken, and I find on great gal on here


Btw, I used to live in Saginaw, MI, small world....

jomatthomas's photo
Fri 10/04/13 01:02 AM
if some one proposed then the girl say no.that proposel end there.why dont try to find its good or bad?

sparkyae5's photo
Fri 10/04/13 07:30 AM
i know some really good guys,,, ladies there are good guys out there....for the most part woman seem to be looking for a guy with some bad boy in him....so they put on a persona to attract him.....there are guys out there that will try to fit that persona in a effort to get there needs met........we judge people by there persona's and we miss the real person.... what i mean by persona is the self we show the world.....i am not picking on the gals here guys have an equal part....we can not doing anything about others,,,seeing our part is the answer,,,,thats the difficult part.............

karang143's photo
Fri 10/04/13 08:37 AM
what you are waiting for

i am here only

Broady3047's photo
Fri 10/04/13 01:44 PM
'The last of the Mohicans'
Not easy for Genuine guys to I mite add..

Single Mothers.. Guys automatically think lookin for a daddy and if not him... Either his family or friends will say so!
After separation frm former partners.. It is then when Genuine guys are in with 'non settlers' types and they varies.. Plus urslf hav brought out reasons not to..eg Jus got out of relantionship, its ok not lookin, out for fun etc.. When u decide to again settle dwn.. This is where many have problems not knwing the difference.. Frm Genuine, Cheaters, Players, Non Settlers...
Single dads dnt hav the same and less dramas as single mums. To find a Genuine Guy.. On here obviously has to like ur profile and understands it..U first chat on here for a while till redy for nxt step to emails first then numbers.. But this time u should knw his daily routine...

Broady3047's photo
Fri 10/04/13 02:36 PM
By* not But this time...
This is where u find out if hes ligit.. Wen exchanging digits.. Beware of his reasons and excuses!!! Frm online chat to emails/txting only to fone calls. Also beware of ur own..given leeway cos of very late replies or didnt receive it cos u knw his daily frm emails/txting days!!

But if he is alguds and ur redy.. Time to meet & Greet u and kids.. And if he the Last of the Mohicans meaning last of the Gentlemen.. Would never pressure you in giving up the cookie!!!

Broady3047's photo
Fri 10/04/13 02:54 PM
Edited by Broady3047 on Fri 10/04/13 03:02 PM
Good guy#1 meets Good Girl#1... Good guy#1 cheats shatters and creates Good to Bad gurl#1 then meets Gudguy#2 who gets played turns Badboy#2

And these are the Circle of our lives lol!!

cecile's photo
Fri 10/04/13 09:25 PM
Just be what you are!!!

Nitinbatham's photo
Fri 10/04/13 09:47 PM
Yeah now a dayts very difficult to find good person.

bcoz everyone fake here...
peoples r heartless they only know how to use us

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Fri 10/04/13 10:10 PM


I've been on this site on and off for a few years now and i'm yet to meet someone genuine. So why does it have to be so hard? Has anyone had any luck on here? Wanna share stories or tips?



Hi! Based on my experience, Ive been here since January.. A lot of guys messages.. nudges.. etc.. But theres this guy I met February, whom I felt easy to talk with.. His first message started it all.And we were able to know more about each other as days, weeks and months passed by.. After being separated for two years.. This was the time I felt my heart beat again.. I can feel he made me very special and important.. I felt love again..
It was on the third month I found out he lied a lot of things to me.. I was hurt.. really hurt.. I cried.. I got a lot of sleepless nights.. I was on my having my decision of listening to him, and weighed things out.. And give him another chance.. And I did give him another chance.. In a long distance relationship like ours.. sometimes misunderstanding really happens, but that depends on how you resolve it.. Now, we are on another trial again.. Im taking it positively now. Coz it might be on a purpose of making us or breaking us.. But we are still holding on with each other.. I cant say that ours was a "real successful one" coz we havent proved it yet.. But if you are destined with each other.. FAte will take its course.. Its all on "DESTINY".. and the two of you work it out..
Maybe on a ratio of 20, there's 2 real guy .. Goodluck :)





hmmmm...... destiny, u know that's the thing. we get what is destined in our life. we experience good people and wrong people in the life, good situations and bad situations in life. but we should not leave hope for a good, bright next day.
there are nice people in the world. but it is destined when and where they will enter into ur world.
so keep on putting efforts and 1 day u will find someone nice, who will treat u right, and love u the way u want

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Fri 10/04/13 10:13 PM

nice guys were all dead..what's left are zombies who just wanna bite you.^_^


I agree that today, people are living for their lust. they just want to have sex with more than 1 person.
but there r nice people in the world. they r always around us, but we don't know there worth unless we lose them.

brighteazy's photo
Fri 10/04/13 10:25 PM
rili belive me...babe dere r still nice guys ..........out here all u nid to do is to be free..n give d ones u see a chance because i know there is a saying that says to know a good or nice person isnt written on d face... belive me dey ar lots of nice n responseble guys........even having had tyms .......finding a nice lady

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Sat 10/05/13 12:26 AM
wait nd see everyone is lovely and caring...bt some have different opinion and standard

lonelysoul01's photo
Sat 10/05/13 05:29 AM
Hi I. Know how u feel I'm looking for a honest girl don't think there are any out there ppl keep saying the right girl will come but I doubt it

Toks88's photo
Sat 10/05/13 05:34 AM

nice guys were all dead..what's left are zombies who just wanna bite you.^_^

Shegoat, excluding me....okay?

lonelysoul01's photo
Sat 10/05/13 07:05 AM
Is there anyone on here who is looking for a nice guy or is serious about meeting someone