Topic: Why is it so hard to find a nice, genuine guy?
charlesnwoga's photo
Tue 10/08/13 11:49 PM
Not all are taken,I'm for real if you can come to Nigeria.I bet you,you'll be much more delighted about here.just bring it on

charlesnwoga's photo
Wed 10/09/13 12:19 AM
Often most women due to there mindset.When the good guys makke advances they ascertain doubts in the process they make wrong choices.some judge a guy by previous encounters.If you want to have great encounters you must have open your heart

Pravin2's photo
Wed 10/09/13 12:26 AM
I want femel friend

Pravin2's photo
Wed 10/09/13 12:29 AM

I want femel friend

navygirl's photo
Wed 10/09/13 07:18 AM

That settles it then. You need to leave Calgary.
:wink: lol


Yeah; that thought has crossed my mind. bigsmile

no photo
Wed 10/09/13 07:55 AM
i am also find a simple and sweet frind can any one help me

shittuimmanuel's photo
Thu 10/10/13 02:12 AM
if you want to meet real people,you also must be real,well you can not trust everybody in here,but you can still trust some people if you also is faithfull.

jomatthomas's photo
Thu 10/10/13 06:54 AM
i am exist

izzyphoto1977's photo
Thu 10/10/13 12:04 PM
Depending on what you think of as genuine, I'm sure I am. At least I hope there aren't any others like me out there. That would be to scary. lol

roy2mingle's photo
Thu 10/10/13 01:55 PM
so many serious answers. On a lighter note just look for a good friend, then decide what to do next... Dump or bump... Simple.

navygirl's photo
Thu 10/10/13 10:15 PM
I am thinking all the guys on here that are giving their emails and phone numbers are certainly not genuine; so you can eliminate them right off the bat. laugh

Sdcali2488's photo
Thu 10/10/13 10:21 PM
Seems like guys want to sleep wit girls 1st before even trying to commit smh

izzyphoto1977's photo
Fri 10/11/13 01:42 PM

I am thinking all the guys on here that are giving their emails and phone numbers are certainly not genuine; so you can eliminate them right off the bat. laugh


Personally I'm to paranoid to give my number out. I've watched to many true crime shows. I might give my email addy. But I wouldn't post it publicly like so many people do with their phone numbers. That's got to be the number one way to get spam sent to your phone.

no photo
Fri 10/11/13 01:57 PM
So I actually looked up the definition of "genuine" just to make sure that I have a topicality point for this.

Really, the issue becomes that most people are just disingenuous towards themselves in some form or another.

So if a guy is misrepresenting himself and you recognize that, the question becomes whether or not it's intentional. If it is, he's mildly delusional about certain aspects of his personality (and, really, aren't we all?) or he's trying to be manipulative and failing.

So... if I were to throw advice out there, definitely hang out in the forums more. Every person I've met off of this site - at parties, in relationships, whatever - has been someone that has made their presence known in the forums.

Best of luck.

no photo
Fri 10/11/13 01:58 PM

I am thinking all the guys on here that are giving their emails and phone numbers are certainly not genuine; so you can eliminate them right off the bat. laugh


Pretty much.laugh

navygirl's photo
Fri 10/11/13 10:04 PM


It is hard to find genuine guys that are not taken, not fake, speak English and respect their bodies physically, spiritually and emotionally and know how to treat the women as they would treat themselves.

It REALLY IS. Your gender is just too damn picky.


And so she should be. She should never have to settle. Way too many dangerous people out there and she should be cautious.

navygirl's photo
Fri 10/11/13 10:08 PM


Same case here....
I thought I found a great friend( only friend not more) but she stabbed at the very time when i needed her the most and now after being so brutally damaged from inside... just losing trust from evry1... :-(

I feel for you. I really do. But believe me when I say that they'll never be satisfied.


Would you like some cheese with your whine? laugh

Candiapples's photo
Fri 10/11/13 11:29 PM
The whole online dating game has ruined them..can't blame them..the amount of women they can play with is just too tempting. I know I can't take any of them seriously and is probably too bad for the ones who really are sad2

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 10/11/13 11:48 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Fri 10/11/13 11:49 PM

The whole online dating game has ruined them..can't blame them..the amount of women they can play with is just too tempting. I know I can't take any of them seriously and is probably too bad for the ones who really are sad2

hey you ! I'm serious!about my comedy & learning to type.

xgerryx's photo
Sat 10/12/13 02:17 AM
just be patient he'll come one day soon